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Elementary school students cannot accept "forced weaning" and turn scissors at their fathers, turning a blind eye to the grace of parenting

A 12-year-old elementary school student pointed scissors at his father, which eventually led to tragedy...

Hearing such news, countless people sighed, which is a family tragedy with warning significance.

No one could have imagined that the 12-year-old son would actually use scissors to aim at his father, and the father was defenseless and fell in front of his son. The son is not a cold-blooded killer, but because the father "forcibly weaned" and did not let him play with the mobile phone.

Seeing this, many people were stunned. But this is not worth wondering, playing mobile phones, playing games, seems to have become the lifeblood of many children. Without a mobile phone, I quarrel with my parents, my mobile phone is in my hand, and I don't say a word and am buried in the game.

Perhaps, many people should understand at this time that children are blind to the grace of parenting, but the problem is wrong from the beginning, and the parents' education method is also thought-provoking.

Elementary school students cannot accept "forced weaning" and turn scissors at their fathers, turning a blind eye to the grace of parenting

The 12-year-old son pointed scissors at his father, causing tragedy

It happened in Guangxi, where Xiao He, a 12-year-old child, wanted to take his mobile phone to school, but his father refused. For this reason, it lays the groundwork for the child to commit murder.

The father asked Xiao He to take out the mobile phone, Xiao He returned to the room and took out the mobile phone, and also brought out the scissors, and when the father looked down to collect the mobile phone, the child pointed the scissors at the father's ear.

Although it was sent to the hospital in time, it was still not rescued. With regret. Out of this world. Perhaps Xiao He did not understand all this, his behavior, just want to fight against his father's behavior of not letting him take the mobile phone, did not expect that his ignorance made himself a single-parent family.

Whether it is elementary school or junior high school, mobile phones are not allowed. And Xiao He insisted on bringing a mobile phone, this problem is not to blame the school, in the final analysis, it is still the problem of parents.

Elementary school students cannot accept "forced weaning" and turn scissors at their fathers, turning a blind eye to the grace of parenting

The son's disregard for the grace of parenting is ultimately the fault of the parents

It is heart-wrenching to see something like this happen. The 12-year-old child, who can be said to be unclear, pointed the scissors at his father because he "forcibly weaned" and did not let him bring his mobile phone. It's pathetic.

Parents are the best teachers for children, and it is naturally the responsibility of parents to play mobile phones every day. If parents like to read and are silent in the ocean of books every day, we don't believe that children will be addicted to mobile phones. Most parents are raised to the point of being troublesome, throwing their phones at their children and doing their own thing. It is because of the many indulgences in the past that this tragedy has been triggered.

The son does not care about the parenting grace of his parents, but the 12-year-old child does not understand benevolence, righteousness, wisdom and faith, let alone the priority of filial piety. In the final analysis, it is still the fault of parents, and the guidance of childhood has gone wrong, making children obsessed with mobile phones and even addicted. That's what leads to such a tragedy.

Elementary school students cannot accept "forced weaning" and turn scissors at their fathers, turning a blind eye to the grace of parenting

Children can't resist the temptation of mobile phones, and eventually something will happen

In the past two years, there have been many tragedies caused by children playing mobile phones.

In March 2019, a first- and sixth-grade student in Jiangsu Province slashed his mother with a knife because of an argument with his mother because of his mobile phone.

In January 2021, a 14-year-old student in Jiangxi was ruthlessly killed by his grandfather because his mobile phone was taken away by his grandfather.

All of this is the curse of mobile games. In order to make children obedient, the best tool is to play games for children, as everyone knows, children are quiet, and life is distorted.

Children are still young, they can't resist the temptation, and eventually something will happen. They don't know the merits, and whoever doesn't let them play mobile games is their enemy. It is not a child's fault, it is the tragedy of society, it is the tragedy of the family.

It is good for children to be quiet and obedient, but the guidance method should be correct, children fall in love with reading and learning, nor are they born, love mobile phones, nor are they innate. The truth behind every tragedy is worth pondering.

Elementary school students cannot accept "forced weaning" and turn scissors at their fathers, turning a blind eye to the grace of parenting

Write at the end

Some people are excellent teachers, but they do not educate their children well, because they pay too much attention to grades and neglect the cultivation of character.

Children who go to extremes are mostly family education problems. Some children choose to live lightly, and some children choose to kill people to vent their anger, but in the end, parents can't get rid of the relationship.

It is not good for anyone to have such a thing happen in the family, and the death of Xiao He's father is a family tragedy. When he came out of the funeral, Xiao He's mother would definitely cry and rush to the ground, not knowing whether Xiao He would cry, regret or blame herself.

I think Xiao He must still have that indifferent expression, because from the beginning, he regarded his father as an enemy...

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