There is a class of children whose behavior in an unfamiliar environment can really be described as "people going crazy". The so-called "people come crazy" means that the child's personality is too lively and cheerful, and he does not miss any opportunity to perform, even in front of strange environments and strangers.
Children who are "crazy" have a common point: that is, their desire to perform is particularly strong, and they always want to gain the envy and affirmation of the people around them through their own behavior. In principle, it is good that children have a cheerful personality and do not like to socialize, but everything has a degree, and excessive desire to perform is not a good thing.
In the face of children's crazy performance, most parents will be anxious to stop, worried about affecting others, more worried about being rejected by others. Seriously, forcibly blocking certain behaviors of children has the potential to hurt their psychology and change their personality, and it is not recommended that parents do this.
There are many reasons why children come crazy, it may be that they are too lonely in life, and when they see strangers paying attention, they want to express themselves and hope to become friends with them. It may also be a simple pride psychology, wanting to be paid more attention to. So parents don't rush to stop it, the childhood stage is the key period for cultivating them to socialize correctly, and it should be guided.
Someone in the family comes crazy with the child, and the parents try to guide it this way
1. Encourage socializing
Perhaps it is because there are too few friends who usually play together, which leads to children wanting to express themselves in order to gain friends. That being the case, children are encouraged to socialize more, play with children of the same age, and soon find like-minded friends.
When children are accompanied by good friends, they naturally do not have more energy to express themselves, which is the simplest and most effective way.
2. Reduce the desire to perform
There is a class of crazy children whose performance stems from being too enthusiastic and eager for praise and affirmation. In the end, it is still because the desire to perform is too strong, may have received too much praise, and the heart is a little fluttery. Against them, parents can frustrate their vigor in a timely manner.
Of course, all negation must be carried out in private, because people come crazy children have a good face. Point out your child's shortcomings in the right language, let him know that he is not so good, and his mentality will slowly change.
3. Cultivate hobbies
At this stage, all the focus of the child is on performance, which is the main reason why people come to crazy behavior. Try to cultivate your child's other hobbies and interests, so that he can find more of what he likes, even if it is playing with toys or watching cartoons.
When interests are diverted, the child temporarily forgets about expressing desire. It may be that in a short period of time, their behavior will change significantly.
Excessive people's crazy behavior will indeed bring trouble to others, but parents cannot rush to stop their children in case they bring bad consequences. In any case, the personality of the crazy children deserves to be affirmed, they are enthusiastic and cheerful, and there will certainly be no "social fear".