When the mother who has not met for a long time will embrace the two children into her arms, the happiness on the faces of adults and children has touched the hearts of countless people, the mother has forgotten the exhaustion of working in other places at this time, and the children have finally looked forward to the smile and embrace of the mother, perhaps in the child's heart, being held by the mother is the greatest wish.
The significance of the Spring Festival reunion for left-behind children may be far greater than that of normal family children, which is happy, but behind it is sad. The emergence of left-behind children is generally due to these factors.
1. Economic conditions
Most children become left-behind children because of family economic factors. Although the living conditions of most people have been significantly improved, there are also some poor areas where economic development cannot keep up, and these areas are the most widely produced areas for left-behind children.
Second, the sense of responsibility of parents is not strong
In some areas where the economy is still doing well, there may also be left-behind children, mostly because parents do not have a strong sense of responsibility. Parents only think about how to develop themselves, but they do not take into account that now is the critical period of educating their children, saying that it is for their children, but putting the cart before the horse, directly ignoring the education of children.
Third, parents' cognition is insufficient
There are also some parents who do not understand the adverse effects of loneliness on their children. They will feel that the children are the same, so they will let the elderly take the children and go to work by themselves. So, what's the harm in making a child a left-behind child?
1, moral concepts: the lack of parental guidance education, children will be in a state of "free range", once exposed to bad moral concepts, it may be imitated, its far-reaching impact is self-evident, which is also the biggest problem faced by left-behind children.
2, academic performance: classroom education and family education complement each other, once the child encounters difficulties in learning, because of the lack of family education, it is very likely that the child will learn an avalanche, and even eventually lose the confidence to learn. Although learning mainly depends on school, but parents to the formation of children's learning attitudes, learning habits, and homework help have an irreplaceable role, without the help of parents, children's academic performance is difficult to become excellent.
3, safety issues: most of the left-behind children are in a "free range" state, children often release their nature, and children at this age are not yet sound safety awareness.
Parents are the guardian angels of children, only under the wings of parents can children thrive and grow up healthily, so parents please leave your excuses, maybe your world has thousands of last resorts, but the child's world is only you.