Nowadays, people's lives are getting better, more and more people are buying houses in the city, but at the same time, people's pressure has become greater.
Young people are saddled with mortgages and car loans, so they have to work outside the home, and they can't take their children with them when they can go to work, and they can't go to work with their children.
In order to alleviate the pressure of life, but also in order to let children have a better life in the future, many people will choose to go to work to earn money to give their children to the elderly to bring.
Parents work outside the home for a long time, and children become left-behind children, and there is no way to live.
Some people may say, can't we let the elderly and children follow? Parents may have such ideas, but most of the elderly in rural areas are not used to living in the city, and children cannot follow them.
Parents miss their children when they are not around, and children miss their parents. On January 24, 2022, in Shaoyang, Hunan Province, his three-year-old son knew that his parents were going home and waited at the door before dawn.
The child has not seen his parents for too long, and he misses his parents in particular, and the reason why he waits at the door of the house is so that he can see them for the first time when his parents return.
The weather is very cold, the child has been waiting at the door of the house, no matter how the grandmother persuades the child not to go back to the house, insisting on waiting at the door of the house, the small hands and small faces in the process of waiting are frozen red.
The scene made people feel a little sad, the child's parents recorded the scene, the child was particularly happy to see his mother, and he left tears when his mother held him in her arms.
After this matter was exposed to the Internet by netizens, netizens caused heated discussions among netizens, and some netizens said: If you can afford to buy a car, why not take your child with you.
In fact, now every household has a car, the car is not a rare thing for many people, many people can buy a car, some zero down payment can buy, so having a car does not mean how good the conditions are.
I believe that parents put their children at home is also a last resort, if there is a choice, everyone wants to let the child grow up with their own side, but the reality is too much helpless.
Some netizens also said: The time to see children is only the years before kindergarten, why put children in their hometowns, can't they sacrifice a few years for their children?
In fact, this society has high requirements for women, and wants women to take care of their families, and wants women to be busy with their careers. There is no such thing as the best of both worlds, and there is always a choice to be made.
If family conditions permit, you can work as a stay-at-home mom for your children. If family conditions do not allow you to carry a mortgage and a car loan, go to work.
Although this is indebted to the child, at least it can make money, relieve the pressure on the family, and at the same time give the child a good life.
Work is very important, but it is not to say that in order to go to work, ignore the children, try to take time to see the children and the elderly at home when resting on weekends, after all, there are cars now, and it is very convenient to travel.
I believe that as long as parents go home to visit their children, children can understand their parents, and it is also a good way to wait until the time for children to go to school and then take their children back to the city to go to school, so that children can receive a good education.
At the same time, we should pay more respect to our parents, parents with hard work to pull us up, in order to make our lives better and help us with children, too many parents who lose money.
So, go home often and don't break your parents' hearts.