As the Lunar New Year approaches, primary and secondary schools around the world have successively held winter vacations during this time. "The mythical beast returns to the cage", and the children can finally play with joy. But if you don't have a temperance when playing, it is easy to break into trouble, annoy your parents, and inevitably be punished or even beaten.
No, recently, there was a little boy in Guangxi Beihai who went around making trouble after the winter vacation, and was chased and beaten by his father with a whip.
In the video, a little boy wearing a blue long-sleeved T-shirt runs out of the house wearing sandals, shouting for forgiveness while running, "Don't fight, don't fight", "I know I'm wrong, I know it's wrong", and when he gets to the yard, he is still anxious to stomp his feet.
At this time, a middle-aged man wearing a short-sleeved T-shirt in the room, holding a whip and wearing slippers, slowly followed out, looking like it should be the father of the little boy, looking not angry. Seeing that his father also came out, the little boy continued to beg for forgiveness, and then continued to run outside with a smoke.
This scene can amuse the other family members and neighbors who are watching the liveliness at the scene, and they all emit hearty laughter, and seem to be accustomed to such a situation.
Netizen: Such a childhood is quite complete!
The relevant video has also aroused the attention of many netizens, who have left their own comments:
"My son is also, made a mistake and beat him to run faster than a rabbit, the old woman I can't catch up, the more I chase, the more funny I feel, and finally it's gone"
"Only children who grow up in this way can withstand the dangers of society, and children who grow up in greenhouses die and live when they are frustrated."
"I'm a woman, I was chased and beaten like this when I was a child" "I found that real children have to be seriously beaten up when they are reluctant to do so, and he will remember sex forever."
"Only by playing like this can I have the ability to withstand pressure in my heart, and when I grow up, I will not jump off the building and drink medicine again."
"I remember when I was a child, when my mother chased me all over the mountain with a stick, and I didn't admit my mistake while running! Also said you can't catch up with me."
"It would not have been complete without a childhood chased around the streets by parents carrying sticks"
"Good childhood memories added again"
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Such a situation is not at all strange to many children who have grown up in the countryside. Childhood rural children, temperament are relatively wild, are quite able to cause trouble, today hit a chicken in the Li family, tomorrow waste the Zhang family a row of vegetables, make the chicken fly dog jump, parents and busy with their own work, not always able to look at it, generally that is, verbal vigilance. But the children's forgetfulness is relatively large, and the warning to adults is always in and out of the right ear, and they do some things that are tentative on the verge of being beaten, and if they accidentally "do" it, they finally violate the limits of their parents' tolerance, and then they are beaten. So there will be a situation where the parents hold a whip in the back and the children cry and run in the front.
This is a typical "stick education" way, with the development of society, everyone's educational concept changes, this way of discipline is increasingly considered to be a scientific education method, not only will bring physical harm to the child, but also cause psychological shadows to the child, is not conducive to the long-term development of the child.
But as an experiencer of this method of education, I think that this method of education is not so bad. In fact, unless it is a perverted parent with violent tendencies, most rural parents are reluctant to beat their children, under normal circumstances, children who make mistakes are mainly reasonable, and there are very few cases of real use of whips and sticks, and they are only "moving the family law" when they are repeatedly taught or make big mistakes. Even if you have to move your hand, in most cases, it is "held high and gently put down", and there is no fierce hand.
When they grow up, most of the children do not have the negative effects that many parents are worried about now, do not hate their parents, and do not leave any psychological shadows, but when they were young, because they had to avoid the pursuit of their parents, many people looked particularly skinny, their reactions were good, and they were less sick.
Now that I think about it, although "stick education" is simple and crude, it also has a certain truth. It tells the child in a painful way a cruel social reality, anyone has the opportunity to be naughty and willful, but don't go too far, once the bottom line is broken, it will be severely punished, and the deeper the degree of mistake, the greater the degree of harm, the greater the punishment. In this way, the child will know that everything has boundaries and know how to restrain his behavior.
Educating children should not only be happy and comfortable, experiencing painful feelings should also be part of education, sometimes hitting children seems cruel, in fact, is the real love for children. When the child does not change and intensifies the teaching, it is not necessary to give the corresponding small punishment reasonably.
If you obviously see that they have wrong behaviors and habits but do not correct them in time, let the children form bad habits, and when the children grow up, the society will use more cruel forms to teach them. For people who have made big mistakes, society will never whisper softly, not aware of this, it is difficult to say that it is a scientific education, nor can it be said that children grow up healthily.
To love a child, you should give your child a complete childhood, and this sentence is not false at all.
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