To the readers and to a few big brothers, a true word

Today, an old classmate asked me, is your previous promise in the article still counted?

Absolutely.

Always count, I have said, remember everything I have said.

I want to invite readers and friends on WeChat to a meal, such a simple thing, how can I forget it?

I don't have any other specialty, that is, my memory is particularly good, and my commitment can be remembered for a lifetime.

Although this article is a few pieces of paper, I would like to take this opportunity to say something sincere.

I have always wanted to thank a few old friends in the article, and today I finally had the opportunity.

I remember every reader I've ever interacted with, and I want to be a friend.

It is only because of the various problems in work and life that time is too late and discipline is not allowed. Sometimes I may do too little and feel ashamed.

Gradually feeling that no one is perfect, I said myself, 100,000 miles away from the "perfect" I dreamed of when I was a child, and the maximum circumference of the earth section is only 80,000 miles.

It's a very vivid metaphor, I'm just an ordinary person, an ordinary author, but I remember what I said.

Seven or eight years ago, I promised my teacher that I would never renege on my word in the future, and that it was an eternal practice. If I renege on my word, I can't forgive myself, and the teacher won't forgive me.

So, I remember everything I said.

Sincerely thank you to the following 10 big brothers (friends who open the vest and pretend to be readers in reality, I will not say, I also know you when I open the vest, thank you for your support, another day my husband and I invite you to dinner).

As a woman, this article thanks 10 big brothers, the following rankings are in no particular order:

Love Heaven, Cangsheng, Floating Life Ruomeng, North and South, Old Black, Translation Network Love, Hongrui, Zach Bug, Wang Tearing Onion, Xingyu.

I was less than 27 years old when I first wrote an article on the Internet, I had never seen the world, and I didn't understand the rules of the Internet. There have been many groups, small groups of more than 100 people, large groups of more than 400 people, 9 big brothers have made efforts.

Today, I am not young in 91 years.

Today I am 31 years old and the best youth has passed. But I still remember everything I said.

Although in the face of pressure from the unit, I later disbanded the group in its entirety. But now it's easy to want to recover, and it's easy to want traffic, so let's talk about it later.

One of the things that touched me the most was that a few years ago, during the time when I knew nothing, didn't understand, and didn't know what to do, there were several big brothers who appeared as noble people in my destiny.

One of the greatest qualities in life is to remember grace.

I will always remember that feeling, which may have been the blessing of fate.

While you may not know exactly where you helped me, I always remember. Even a few days of conversation is precious to me.

Life is alive, seek a pole.

Teachers used to tell me that 9 is the supreme pole.

For the sake of the extreme, I would like to invite the above 10 kind big brothers to a meal, please remember, since some people I called out the brother, that is to treat you as a brother, this sentence will always count. Since you have always cared for me, I have also regarded you as a brother.

As a psychologist, I am not stupid, I must tell the truth, and I don't hide it when I want to tell the truth, which is the basic cultivation.

I see your kindness, and I see your heart in one sentence.

Of course, if I don't deserve to be your sister, it doesn't matter, you don't have to tell me.

Geographical isolation is not my gratitude, see the article, you can order as you like, I will pay the bill, leave a word.

There are many readers, I have always been friends, maybe some friends have changed their names, I can't remember the name, but I remember everyone who is really kind.

I have the advantage that even if I only talk a few words, I can distinguish between good and evil, which is not a big talk.

So, I invite you to dinner sincerely.

Even though many friends around me say that I have no other worries, I still feel that it is far from enough. In terms of psychological cultivation, even if I think I have overcome all the difficulties, I must develop the habit of thinking of danger in times of peace.

After all, how can life not be troublesome?

I'm worried about it now.

Growing up, anything, as long as I do it, I am willing to give my all unless I don't do it.

But in the process of giving my all, many things made me understand the lack of manpower, but fortunately, I have been persevering.

To make a very vivid analogy.

Just like writing an article, I have long stopped trying to flow, but only want to take the opportunity of writing an article to express my thoughts, convey a healthy belief, and hope that like-minded people will live well.

For me, it's a kind of self-cultivation, there's no "can" or "no," just tell the truth.

Otherwise, with so many mcn invitations, I want traffic to be simple. If I write articles for traffic, it's not a problem to write several times a day.

If the unit gives me the green light and endorses me, those emotional big vss and marriage bloggers on the whole network are just illiterate in front of me and my sisters.

Life is helpless, and with faith there are constraints.

I can't grab other people's jobs, but fortunately, I don't rarely buy other people's jobs. The other sisters of the unit also do not like traffic, so the number of piles and spelling traffic are not interesting.

In the past, I was particularly concerned about the advertising costs and tips of articles, and there were hidden secrets at that time. My family was not wealthy and had relied on student loans as early as school. I once said that when I gave up everything and planned to marry my husband, my family did not agree, but I was obsessed with love to the end.

I have never regretted that if I fail, dare to live alone for the rest of my life.

I don't think love is a "gamble", but an indomitable pursuit. Even if it's a bet, I'm right.

I hope that everyone will not feel that love is a gamble, truly love a person, as long as you pay the heart, the rest is enough to give providence.

I've been writing marriage articles for several years, and for me personally, there are some things I empathize with. Marriage was the biggest investment in my life, betting on what I owned, there was no way back, fortunately I invested right.

When I first wrote the article, my traffic was quite high, hundreds of dollars a day, and I remember saying this in previous articles.

I came from a rural background, I have never seen the world, and the best food when I was a child was instant noodles. When I went to college, I hardly had a day off, and until I did my internship, I needed money.

Therefore, after getting married, writing articles is also for money, in addition to passing leisure time.

My daughter was only 1 year old when I first wrote online, I didn't have much milk, I didn't have enough breast milk, and milk powder also needed money.

As a psychologist, there is nothing you dare not admit. I don't feel ashamed, I know my own shortcomings and practice, and I am not afraid of being laughed at by anyone.

If any woman laughs at me, please show your self-confidence and let me admire you, even if it is the sisters around me, even if it is the second generation of rich and official sisters.

At that time I needed traffic because traffic meant money.

But soon the teacher told me that this is not allowed, it will affect your state of mind, do not blacken yourself, do not figure out the flow of the moment, do not use the traffic fee to solve the problem of life, this is the end of the upside down.

I used to be very confused, was there anything wrong with me writing articles to make money? Later, I gradually understood the teacher's painstaking heart.

So, I would also like to thank my teachers and an elder, you are my greatest nobleman.

WeChat has a lot of readers, I set up a group, all the tips I returned as red envelopes in the group, as far as possible does not affect the trajectory of life journey.

Later, I turned off all tipping and I quit all the groups I had created.

Sometimes it can be said that life is a step-by-step ladder. At critical moments, on the most persistent path, how similar are people's choices?

The so-called life is a road that has to be broken out when you have to. Therefore, I don't want any points from readers, mainly because I can't take this road, and I don't want to owe too much affection.

Everyone has something to care about, and there is a path that only they can walk. Today, it seems that I have taken this step correctly, even if I love the Internet, I have not owed anyone's affection.

There is another thing today, my old classmate in the group said: Your readers are so few, have you complained, are you envious of others?

This should be a test for me, how can I complain?

Go your own way well, don't envy anyone, work hard, work hard, this is enough.

If it had been before, maybe I would have complained, but now I don't complain anymore. Fewer readers is also a blessing, reduce the pressure from the unit, envy others rather than do their own.

I have several colleagues and sisters, with their achievements, almost all of them can enter the core "think tank", they do not have a single reader, all do not complain, what else do I complain about?

Tonight my daughter danced a peacock dance, I was very happy, I used to love dancing, but I missed the most suitable year, I can only try to dance a square dance. Now, my 5 and a half-year-old daughter has fulfilled my wish for me.

Tonight I drank a little wine with my husband, drank too much, and talked a lot, so I also had this article.

Husband said: Your teacher and a group of teachers and sisters have been paying attention to you, but they are not very talkative, and they will only scold you at key moments. But if quantified, her old man alone is equivalent to tens of millions of fans, which is not ambiguous, right? In this way, even if only the teacher pays attention to you, you still surpass all bloggers.

What I'm trying to say is, maybe so. I was the last student of the teacher, and I didn't know how many pounds I had, so I had to add "maybe".

There was a time when I was inexplicably warned by the small editors of several platforms that I had negative energy. They bullied people, and the teachers didn't do me justice.

But what I want to say more is that in reality, everything is on your own. It's true that a few of my friends followed me, and a few of my husband's friends followed me, and each of them was equivalent to a million followers.

It should be said that all other bloggers cannot make them fans.

At the critical moment, I can hear the truth I want to hear, and for me, this is the weight of a million fans, and that's enough.

A dozen people, that's ten million fans!

Therefore, all kinds of so-called big coffee, big V, I really don't envy. A few pounds and a few pairs, I know best.

In addition, for me personally, even if only my husband pays attention to me, it is equivalent to tens of millions of fans.

So, why do I envy others?

Long past that stage, the data has long since ceased to matter.

I was a little dizzy tonight, maybe I said too much, maybe something was wrong, but it was true to spit out the truth after drinking.

This article is written here, thank you 10 big brothers, sincerely grateful. I would like to invite you to dinner, which is a true statement, and it is an account of the past few years.

When it comes to it, I can do it, and I can be ashamed to think about the past in the future in a certain year and month.