Sleep stories can not only help your baby fall asleep, but also promote parent-child emotional communication.
From the moment your baby sleeps independently, the need for bedtime stories gradually increases. The initiators of the original bedtime stories were all parents who wanted to comfort their babies.
However, there are very few parents who can do the same. How many parents fish for three days and dry their nets for two days? This is an inexplicable harm to the child.
No matter how busy the parents are, the child's bedtime story cannot be saved
The little father is very busy at work, always going out early and returning late every day, not to mention the little one, even the mother does not often see the father, but thinking that the father is running for this family, the mother has never complained.
But the little idea is different. Every time she saw other children with their fathers, she would ask her mother, where is my father? Are you divorced?
Hearing the child say this, the little mother suddenly realized the seriousness of the problem. In the growth of children, the needs of children for their fathers are very large, which is also irreplaceable by mothers.
In this way, the little mother made a request for her father's work for the first time, and she had to go home early every day to accompany the child. Although the father was very reluctant, for the sake of the child's good, he still agreed to it.
From that day on, Dad would come back every day before Xiao Xiao went to sleep, holding Xiao Xiao and telling her bedtime stories. Although this became the only interaction between Dad and Xiaoxiao every day, Xiaoxiao became more cheerful because of this.
This also makes the little mother feel very pleased. Dad appears regularly every day, so that Xiao Xiao understands that his father loves himself, even if he can't see him usually.
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Bedtime stories can help your baby learn to express themselves
All fairy tales can be told to children as bedtime stories, whether it is tragedy or comedy, or even some boring stories, which are very interesting in the eyes of babies.
Moreover, the fairy tales exclusive to the baby, the description of the scene is very delicate, the words are easy to understand, easy to be accepted by the baby.
In this way, when the baby listens to the bedtime story, he will silently remember the scene described in the story. For example, the little white rabbit is cute and kind, and the big bad wolf is fierce and vicious.
Over time, babies will internalize the stories they hear. When needed, repeating the story is also a good talent show!
Asking for bedtime stories suggests that your baby is growing
Three-year-olds ask their parents who tell them stories to hear the same story over and over again. Even if it is possible to narrate verbatim, they still have to repeat it endlessly.
If such a situation occurs, parents do not have to question it at all, which is a hint that the baby's intelligence is developing. When they are constantly stimulated, their memory and thinking are strengthened, and this "immutable" will also give them a sense of security.
Only when their thinking develops further will they know what they want to hear and be aware accurately whether the story is the one they have in their minds.
Therefore, parents should not only not be angry about this, but also rejoice that this day has finally arrived. From today on, the baby will grow up little by little, and he can no longer deal with the problem in the way he was treated before.
Bedtime stories can help them develop good habits
When choosing their children's bedtime stories, most parents will give preference to those who are educational, such as "Law-abiding Kittens", "Fox Crossing the Crosswalk", and so on.
These stories all end up with a rule. If the baby hears such stories repeatedly, it will be more or less affected. When reality encounters the same situation, they will immediately think about how the protagonist in the story does it.
Moreover, preaching in this way is more effective than paternalistic preaching. Because in their minds, the protagonist of the story is their friend, which can help them better understand the rules.
Although sometimes, this way of education will not be immediately effective, many babies will still act according to their own ideas, but parents should not be discouraged, because the baby's growth is always accompanied by surprises, maybe one day suddenly, the child will become very well-behaved and sensible!
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