Giving a child a nice and allegorical name is not a simple task for most new parents. Xiao Wang and his wife finally had a happy event after 5 years of marriage, the first two years of the couple have been busy with work, so they did not plan to have children, and later when they were ready to have children, because they were older, the road to pregnancy was not smooth.
Now that they finally have their first child, the couple is very cautious, and from the moment his wife became pregnant, Xiao Wang began to think of a name. Because I don't know the sex of the baby, so I haven't played a proper name, on the day of delivery, the wife gave birth to a baby boy, and Xiao Wang was happy. Because he was a boy, the father hoped that his son would grow up with a cheerful personality and a broad mind, so he named his son "Wang Huai".
The next day, Xiao Wang was ready to get a birth certificate for the child, but he did not expect that the nurse accidentally typed the wrong name, typed the word "Huai" into the word "come", and finally the child's name became "Wang Lai".
Xiao Wang was very angry at first, but his wife was very happy after seeing the name: if you don't change it, on this name, Wang Lai represents the return of the king, which means that the child must be very successful when he grows up. The wife's words reassured Xiao Wang a lot, although this small episode passed quickly, but it also showed how important the name was to the child.
The name is the business card that accompanies the child's life, so parents must be cautious and pay more attention to the following points.
When taking a name, what problems should parents pay attention to?
1: Do not use ambiguous words
Some names may seem simple and easy to remember, but they don't really apply because they carry a certain ambiguity. Some parents are particularly casual in naming their children, and may have a joking attitude and casually give their children ambiguous names. It leads to children being ridiculed by classmates after school, affecting children's self-confidence and character development, so parents must avoid taking ambiguous names.
2: Do not use strange words
Most of the strange characters have a lot of strokes, and many people do not know its pronunciation at all, and some parents feel that using strange characters to name children will not cause duplicate names, and will also show the child's special. But in fact, for children, names often need to be used, such as in their studies or daily life need to fill in the name, which will cause a lot of trouble to the child's life.
3: Don't use harmonic words
There are also some parents who will deliberately give their children names with harmonic sounds, feeling that such a naming method is rarely used, which can highlight the cultural connotation of parents. If the harmonic words sound good, it is enough, if the harmonic words are difficult to hear, it is not conducive to the normal life and social activities of children.
It can be seen that parents should also avoid some minefields when naming children to avoid causing trouble to their children's lives.
So how can parents name their children?
First, the use of ancient poetry
Ancient poetry is the crystallization of the wisdom of the ancients, and some of the verses are particularly suitable for parents to learn from, so parents can choose suitable words from ancient poems to name their children. Not only can it show the temperament of the child, and the first impression left on others will be more profound, but also the culture of the parents can be highlighted.
Second, use idioms
In addition to ancient poems, parents can also use idioms to name their children, because some idioms are also suitable for use as names. Especially in twin families, parents can take the idiom apart and give it to two children. However, using this way of naming, parents need to pay attention to many places, such as the original meaning of the idiom, in addition to pay attention to the child's gender, do not put too gentle idioms on boys, girls are the same.