In recent years, news about "bear children" committing crimes has been common, poisoning, pushing down pregnant women, beating teachers... Tricks are only you can't think of, and they can't do it without them.
What is even more incredible is that behind the "bear children" there are often "bear parents" and "bear elders", no matter what mistakes their children make, they will say "he is still young and does not understand things", you pursue is "calculating, and the child can not get by", there are not many parents who can stand up in time to correct the child's wrong behavior.
Recently, a video of a mother in Taizhou letting her son pick up garbage in the roof has aroused heated discussion among netizens. In the video, she is seen tying the child with a rope, holding the child at one end and the child at the other, and then slowly placing the child on the roof under the window, letting him pick up the garbage on the roof with a snakeskin bag. It wasn't until the garbage on the roof was all picked up that he pulled his son up.
According to this mother, the son has a bad problem, like to throw garbage to the roof, the garbage on the roof is basically thrown by him, that day she saw him throw garbage on the roof again, it was really angry, so she wanted to teach him a lesson, let him go down to the bottom to personally pick up the garbage. At that time, the weather was relatively cold, the child was the first time to go up to the roof of the environment with a certain degree of danger, the child was afraid and cold, at first he shivered, but she still made up her mind, waiting for him to clean up all, before pulling him back.
In this regard, netizens have commented:
"Yes, it is necessary to educate in this way, unlike those elderly people, children who make mistakes say that they are small and do not take responsibility."
"It's a little bit tough, but it supports mom's approach to education."
"The method is good, safety first."
"A good daughter-in-law, ten generations of good children and grandchildren!"
"I'm not going to let my kids do it, it's too dangerous, I wish it wasn't, I saw crying, it's so sad, I hope not to litter."
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From the child's mother, you can see that he is already a "habitual offender", in recent years to the roof to throw a lot of garbage, and repeatedly teach, if not the use of some unconventional means, oral education alone can not make him obedient, only to teach him a lesson, let him realize the seriousness of the matter, will make him stop such behavior. Otherwise, let the child's behavior develop and develop the habit of throwing garbage at others at will, and then the world will give him the most severe punishment.
Some parents see that their children make mistakes, and often use scolding and rude methods to "educate" their children, and in many cases the results are counterproductive. Many children have a weak concept of right and wrong, and the psychology of rebellion is heavy, and in order to let children "change from evil to righteousness", they must realize that their behavior is "hot" and dare not repeat it.
The author believes that although there is a certain danger in this mother's approach, she has taken safety measures, which are enough to ensure the safety of life, while paying for her own wrong behavior, purifying the ceiling environment, which is a good educational method and cultivates the spirit of daring children.
As the saying goes, "raise or not teach, the father's fault", the child's self-control ability is poor, there is no clear sense of rules and boundaries, it is easy to make some mistakes, parents need to let the child learn from the mistakes in time, correct bad behavior habits. Especially in the case of repeated teaching, it is more necessary to boldly let the child bear the consequences of his own actions before actively obeying the rules. Blindly "sad" and "intolerable", not letting the child really realize where his mistakes are, will only harm the child.
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