Recently, Ms. Tian and her mother-in-law have a very unpleasant quarrel, because she is busy at work, she usually lets her mother-in-law help with the child, and the mother-in-law loves her little grandson very much, and she hangs on her mouth almost every moment, but there is still a problem. Once, when Ms. Tian came home, she just entered the living room and saw her two-year-old baby lying on the sofa playing with her mobile phone, brushing the short video with great interest. This can make Ms. Tian anxious, a snatched mobile phone, the child's visual development is not complete, is absolutely not able to look at this kind of strong light display, and still lie down to see, the harm is more serious. But the mother-in-law on the side is not happy, and the grandson likes to play with mobile phones, which is the biggest truth. Ms. Tian saw that she could not move her mother-in-law, and could only return to the bedroom to wipe her tears.
The problem of children playing mobile phones actually has advantages and disadvantages, but for babies before the age of three, their vision is extremely weak, and they must not play mobile phones, and parents must insist on stopping their children. So how to use mobile phones for older children?
First, primary school can get the first glimpse
Most children use smart phones that are not used to learn or expand cognition, but more to play games and brush short videos. Basically addictive, and it is difficult to quit, at this time, children are easy to lose interest in other things, in attention, memory, thinking, logic and other aspects will slow down the growth rate. Kindergarten may not have obvious performance, but when the number of subjects in primary school increases, children will suddenly become "stupid children".
Second, broaden the scope of knowledge
Although mobile phones have more disadvantages for children, they cannot be completely denied. After all, it is the era of the Internet, some software, websites, etc. can provide courses for famous teachers, and there are many knowledge and popular science programs, which can benefit children. In addition, there is another use is to give children online lessons, many parents may hear that this will feel useless, but in fact, it is not like the previous large class system of online classes, now there are some high-achieving students, or famous teachers will also launch one-on-one online class services, or some small class system, can let children access to better resources, learn better methods.
As a parent, you must guide your child to use the mobile phone correctly, but also to supervise, correct the wrong behavior in time, the mobile phone is not evil, but it is not right to use the mobile phone for a long time or use the mobile phone to browse invalid resources. If your child is already addicted to mobile phones, it is recommended that you try to integrate into his mobile phone life, watch the mobile phone together, go into the child's heart, and then slowly take him out.