Being alone is a woman's most extravagant time
After writing class, sitting in the car writing, the surrounding area is quiet. All that remained was the sound of ding-dong. My fingers flew over the keyboard. Raindrops dripped quietly on the car window.
In this little castle, there is no one else, only oneself.
I do whatever I want, listen to music for a while, write something for a while, or stare at the window in a daze.
On a rainy day, it was as if everything had slowed down. Pedestrians walk slowly with umbrellas, cars with lights on, and move forward slowly. Rain snaked through the windows, and the winding currents didn't know where to go.
The world outside the window became blurry, nothing could be seen clearly, nothing needed to be seen clearly.
I'm used to this loneliness, and I'm used to sitting like this. No one will come, nothing will be lost. There is no one who must do it, there is no one who must wait.
In this quiet space, no conversations, no mobile phones, no socializing. Only face yourself.
Everyone needs a space to be alone, just for themselves, to be able to do what they want to do with the door closed, and to push open the door and to be exposed to all kinds of people and things.
At a certain age, there is a growing need for such a place, where you can empty yourself, even if you smoke a cigarette, stay for a while, read things for a while, it feels very good.
In this small space, leaving behind the troubles of work, leaving behind the burden of family, putting the seat down, covering the thin blanket, closing your eyes for a while, and listening to the sound of a shower of rain, there are endless wonderful things.
Love and marriage are just embellishments of life
On rainy days, there is always a lot of good.
Years ago, I fell in love with someone. At that time, I had just graduated from college for a year, and I was full of imagination about life. We used to go on dates in the night carriage.
His black car, weaving through the wilderness, in the narrow carriages, was left with only the sound of each other's breathing. That night, we were dating as usual, and it was raining.
Raindrops fell on the roof of the car, and there was silence all around. He said: "It's a good feeling. ”
It was also at that moment that I had a feeling of old age and desolation. The temperature of his palms was warm, and the faint smell of his body was very good. Love at that time was very simple and pure.
Nice stuff, always short. After two years of falling in love, our relationship became painful. I wanted more company, but he was entangled in work.
In the dark, we can't go long.
In fact, the feelings in this world are not as solid as we think. A moment of separation, perhaps forever.
Rainy days, suitable for memories, people and events of the past, just remember a few fragments. A lot of things have passed away with the wind.
Liking someone is a feeling, and when it feels like it's over, it's hard to come back. When I was in my twenties, I felt that love was greater than heaven. After the age of thirty, I slowly understand that love and marriage are just embellishments of life, and there are more things in life that are worth pursuing.
Nothing lasts forever, and it is enough to remember the beauty of the moment.
Someone said:
In addition to our own partners, we have a wider life: walking the dog, basking in the sun, writing, reading.
Swim, walk, climb. Each experience will give us a new understanding.
Climb a mountain and chase a dream
Insist on writing for five years, weaving your own dreams in the world of words. Before the age of thirty, life was chaotic and I didn't know what I wanted. After the age of thirty, I slowly learned to make some efforts for life.
As small as this effort may seem, I know it's the life I want. No socializing, do what you want to do, don't care about other people's eyes.
What is the meaning of writing? In fact, sometimes, I can't say it clearly. Probably talking to yourself constantly, looking for an outlet for life.
Occasionally brushed in the circle of friends to such a sentence:
The happiest thing in life is not to live like others, but to live more like yourself after hard work.
Get close to your truest self and have the lifestyle you want. Everyone's pursuit in this life is different. Some people feel that having money is the happiest, some people feel that having a car and a house is satisfied, but some people feel that freedom is the greatest wealth in life.
For me, it is a pleasure to have a little place to live, to read a little book and write a little bit every day.
This life is very short, cutting off people and things you don't like, it takes courage and courage, saying goodbye to a relationship, giving up a marriage, quitting a job, all need to struggle for a long time, but after coming out of that tangled emotion, you will suddenly become cheerful.
The biggest pain in life is not that you don't work hard enough, but that you don't know what you want. When we set a goal, then everything becomes clearer and clearer.
Love what I love, do what I do, listen to my heart, and ask nothing.