Love is strange, everything is mindful, and in the end everything can be forgiven, just like Tagore said: the eyes are raining for her, but the heart is holding an umbrella for her, this is love.
Approaching the Spring Festival, people who have worked outside for a year have returned home one after another, and in addition to the new year's celebration, there is also a lively thing, that is, young men and women will be pulled out by their parents to go on a blind date. Not long ago, my cousin began a blind date at the instigation of his parents.
When my cousin came back from a blind date, I asked him happily, "Is the girl pretty?" Do you like it? I didn't expect my cousin to be interested and said: "I didn't see myself, my relatives just wanted to come to the girl's WeChat first, let's talk first to see if there is a common language." I didn't expect that today's blind dates have become so fashionable.
The cousin is a typical science and engineering man, and the circle of friends is either some forwarded industry information, or forwarded links, and the rest are blank for many years. The other little girl was not interested in seeing it, and the other party felt that his people must be as boring and elusive as his circle of friends.
In today's era, WeChat has become a part of our lives, and the circle of friends is like a personal social business card, your WeChat avatar, photos, circle of friends text, etc. are to some extent the refraction of your personality, hobbies and so on. Now make friends through WeChat to understand each other, if your circle of friends has nothing to say, how can girls have the desire to understand you, and how can there be the development of love stories?
How often do you send a circle of friends? What content is generally posted? How many days is your circle of friends visible? Have you noticed any of this?
Next, I will list the minefields of the circle of friends to see if there are you:
The first, either do not send, to send several consecutive brush screen! In fact, the circle of friends is not in the number, but in whether the content content is high enough and whether it can attract attention!
Second, direct forwarding links, in fact, these contents, 90% of people will not click to see!
The third kind, do not send the circle of friends twice a year, if you send it, it is also the kind of chicken soup, with more chicken soup
Girls are animals that believe in feelings. Sometimes, when you open someone's circle of friends, it feels like a current has passed, and suddenly there is a feeling of "how nice it would be if this guy was my boyfriend".
So, what does a boy's circle of friends send to easily attract girls? First of all, we must clarify the characteristics of the circle of friends, either rich in content or enough to nourish the eyes.
A photo of yourself focusing on your work
In the eyes of women, serious and focused men are the most attractive, serious men mean serious and rigorous, such men generally act steadily and speak steadily. A man is the most attractive when he does things seriously, the most able to reflect the manhood, every woman likes the look of a man's spirit, and the man who works seriously has an irresistible charm that women cannot resist.
Send work photos, coupled with a few simple words, preferably positive energy words, so that girls know that you are a self-motivated, serious and responsible youth.
Two, develop your strengths
It is said that liking a person is to attract rather than please, your strength is your strength, and your strength can be infinitely enlarged to produce attraction. For example, if you are good at computers, you know software very well, then you can post software knowledge. Or you're good at cooking, and you can sun-bake your own food. If you are very caring, then sun your adopted kittens and puppies, you want to let the other person know that you are serious at work, but back home, you are a good family man who understands life.
Three send fitness photos
Girls prefer sunny, handsome, good-looking boys. If you prefer a certain sport, such as playing blue ball, you can take a picture of the muscles of the jersey after playing, and to be honest, girls really have no resistance to boys with good figures.
At this time, some boys will say, what should I do if my body is not good? It's okay, you can show something else without showing your body, look for a good part of your body, such as a hand, at this time you can use the desk or cup to set off the slenderness of the hand.
Nothing to take more fitness photos will make girls think that you like sports and are a healthy and positive person.
Iv. Interaction with family
Occasionally posting chat records and jokes between parents and parents or large family gatherings will make girls feel that you live in a harmonious and happy family, and girls will also like such a family atmosphere. It is said that what kind of native family is very important, and most of the children who are happy in the original family are very positive. If you are very filial, the relationship with your parents is also very harmonious. Such a boy will give the girl full of positive energy, and she will not be able to help but pay attention to you.
5 Adventures or extreme sports
The circle of friends is like a book, you want to make others pay attention, in addition to having a wealth of content, of course, there is also curiosity. When you go to places she hasn't been and do things she didn't dare to do, then you may arouse her curiosity, and she may admire in her heart that you dare to do so much, what you want to do but don't do. Invisibly you have aroused her curiosity, she will not help but pay attention to you, and even want to understand what kind of person you really are.
Conclusion:
People are always easily attracted to beautiful things, and only when you open yourself will others break into your world and want to know more about you. If your circle of friends is a blank, just like you closed yourself, others can't understand you, how can they want to know you. If you want others to stay in your world a little longer, you are either eye-catching or interesting enough.
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