In ancient times, there was a small village called Yunxi, and the people here lived a quiet and simple life. There is a child in the village named Xiao Xuan, who is smart and clever, but always seems too shy and timid. Whenever various activities are held in the village, he always stands silently aside, not daring to step forward to participate. Xiao Xuan's parents saw it in their eyes and were anxious, they knew that if a child did not have self-confidence, how could he face all kinds of challenges in life in the future?
Xiao Xuan's father was a wise man, and he knew that the seeds of self-confidence needed to be cultivated from an early age, and the family was the best soil for this seed. So, he decided to use his actions to influence and motivate Xiao Xuan.
One day, a grand temple fair was held in the village, and the children of each family showed off their talents. Xiao Xuan's father encouraged Xiao Xuan to participate as well, but Xiao Xuan shook his head and whispered, "I don't dare, I will be laughed at." The father smiled and patted Xiao Xuan's shoulder and said, "Child, do you know? Self-confidence is not innate, but needs to be cultivated and exercised. You see, these kids are performing on stage, they may not be the best, but they dare to try, they dare to challenge themselves, and that's a sign of self-confidence. The same goes for you, if you take the first step bravely, you will find that you can actually do it well. ”
Xiao Xuan listened to his father's words, and an inexplicable courage surged in his heart. He took a deep breath and mustered up the courage to step onto the stage. Although his performance was not perfect and even a little clumsy, the moment he finished his performance, he felt a sense of accomplishment and joy that he had never felt before. The audience did not laugh at him, but applauded him. A bright smile appeared on Xiao Xuan's face, and he knew that he had taken the first step of self-confidence.
After the temple fair, Xiao Xuan's father took him back home. The father made a cup of tea for Xiao Xuan, and the two sat in front of the window, enjoying the beautiful scenery outside the window. The father said, "Son, you are doing well today. Did you see that? As long as you dare to try and challenge yourself, you can discover your potential and ability. That's the power of self-confidence. I hope you will remember today's experience and bring this confidence to every corner of your life. ”
Xiao Xuan nodded, he felt the deep meaning in his father's words. He knows that his self-confidence comes from his father's encouragement and support, as well as his courage to try and challenge. He is determined to keep this confidence alive and let it be a solid backing for him to face the challenges of the future.
Time flies like a white horse, and in the blink of an eye, Xiao Xuan has grown into a handsome and dashing young man. With his talent and hard work, he opened a small bookstore in the village. Whenever a guest visits, he is always enthusiastic about various books and the stories of the authors. His confidence and enthusiasm are contagious to every customer, making his bookstore the most popular place in the village.
One day, a distant scholar passed by Yunxi Village and came to Xiao Xuan's bookstore by chance. Attracted by Xiao Xuan's confidence and talent, he decided to stay and communicate with Xiao Xuan. During the conversation, the scholar learned about Xiao Xuan's upbringing and family background, and he couldn't help but sigh: "A person's self-confidence often comes from the influence of the family and the teachings of his parents. The reason why Xiao Xuan can have today's achievements and self-confidence is precisely because he has a father who knows how to cultivate his self-confidence. ”
Xiao Xuan listened to the scholar's words and felt a lot of emotion in his heart. He knew that his growth was inseparable from his father's teachings and support. He decided to turn this gratitude into motivation to continue to study and work hard to create a better future for himself and his family.
The story spread throughout Yunxi Village and the surrounding area. People have sighed at Xiaoxuan's growth and changes, and at the same time, they also realized the importance of family self-confidence cultivation for children. They begin to pay more attention to communication and communication with their children, encouraging them to try and challenge themselves bravely, so as to develop their self-confidence and courage.
This story also gives us a profound revelation: children's self-confidence comes more from the influence of family and parents. As parents, we should cherish the time we spend with our children, nurture and guide their growth with our hearts, so that they can thrive in the fertile soil of the family. At the same time, we should also learn to look at children with appreciation and encouragement, so that they can feel their own value and ability, so that they can face the challenges of the future with more confidence.