The role of the father always appears in the text in a deep, taciturn image. For a long time, in childhood memories (from about the 20th century onwards), fathers were vague. Fathers are busy with their livelihoods, rarely participate in family activities, and have little time to play and communicate with their children. And for the growth experience of boys, the father's task is so important.
For boys aged 6-13, the "baton" of education is mainly dad, supplemented by mom
Boys after the age of 6 are different from infancy. The warm and safe environment created by moms has long been unable to satisfy their curiosity and cognition of the world. Boys' interests, activities, hobbies are becoming more and more abundant. So they try to challenge the boundaries of the rules and try the joy of making their own decisions. Try to challenge mom's authority. At this time, Dad should not just focus on work. This can have a negative effect on boys. Boys do not feel the support of their fathers, and such fathers are bound to hurt their sons.
The main task of parental education is to let children form a good character in the game. At this stage of growth from 6 to 13 years old, it is necessary to cultivate boys' living habits, learning habits, sense of competition, and teach them skills in these aspects. So that it can develop in an all-round way. At this age, boys are happy to be a man.
In family relations, the division of labor between men and women is very important. The same is true for the education of children. The connection between mother and boy began from conception, and although dad was also very important, it was really mainly mom at that time. When the boy is 6 years old, he must involve his father as much as possible. Education is led by dad and assisted by mom. Boys get along with their fathers more positively, which can not only let boys understand the differences between men and women, but also allow boys to learn from their fathers qualities such as strength, bravery, strength, thinking, and wisdom.
Maybe a lot of dads will say, "I'm busy," "I don't teach." But it's great that dads only need to set aside 15 minutes a day for boys. Raising boys is a practice! There must be a way to be a good dad who is qualified. How do you do that?
- Hug him more and listen carefully to your child talk about him;
- Exercise with him and observe his changes while playing;
- Get to know him and help him find a good leader;
Before a child reaches adulthood, the parents' tasks are different at each stage, and they need to cooperate with the role change. Parents running a stable marriage is the best gift for their children's growing up experiences.
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