For thirty years she wore a golden shackle. She used that heavy shackle to chop and kill several people, and those who did not die also gave half their lives. She knew that her son and daughter hated her, that her in-laws hated her, that her mother-in-law hated her.
This is Zhang Ailing's "Golden Lock" in Cao Qiqiao's sudden awakening before his death, but unfortunately everything is too late. Not only did she rebel against her own people, but she also ruined the happiness of her children with her own hands.
The reason for this stems from the word "poor". People often say: People are poor and short-minded, and their hearts are poor and harmful. Unfortunate Qiqiao occupies both sides, first of all, he was born poor, and he cannot help but be self-contemptuous and self-deprecating. Then the psychological distortion, and eventually harm others and harm themselves. It is manifested in the following three aspects:
01 Provocation is a sense of non-brush presence
It is reasonable to say that According to Qiqiao's family lineage, he is not qualified to marry into such a generous family as the Jiang family. She is just a person who looks more standard, and is married by the Jiang family to take care of the paralyzed second master.
Although he married into a rich family, Qiqiao's behavior did not change, and he still followed the style of the former sesame oil shop. She spoke without measure, never avoided people, and even the family's servants looked down on her. In the original book, it is written:
Dragons give birth to dragons, phoenixes give birth to phoenixes, and such words exist. You haven't heard her talk yet! There is no taboo at all in front of the girls. The girls didn't understand anything, Rao didn't understand, and they were too ashamed to hide.
Qiqiao herself also knew that no one in the Jiang family looked up to her, and she boiled it down to the reason that her husband was a paralyzed man, who did not live long, did not bully them, and bullied whom.
In fact, Qiqiao is too capable of "doing", bad in her own mouth. In the words of her little uncle Ji Ze, the opening is full of stomach complaints. As long as it is not smooth, it will be said to her useless husband at every turn.
Others kindly advised her, and she opened her mouth to say that you and I would try to change. Everyone knows that Tangram is like a honeycomb that can't be provoked, so people try to avoid her.
In other words, seeing that they are annoying everywhere, they may introspect themselves and close the door to live their own lives. However, The Practice of Qiqiao is obviously very stupid, and if you don't tell me, I will take the initiative to find someone else to say it.
So she ran to her mother-in-law and told the old lady that if the woman did not stay, she would marry the little sister-in-law quickly; and she would sell it well with Ji Ze, if I had not persuaded the old lady to handle the marriage for you, she might have waited for ten years and eight years.
All in all, Qiqiao's life was depressed and depressed, and she went everywhere to brush up on her sense of existence, hoping to get the attention and sympathy of others. Yet all one sees is a dissensioned and unscrupulous woman.
02 Treat others with your own heart
There is a famous saying in "XiBao": I want many, many loves, and if not, then I want a lot of money. There is no love in Qiqiao's marriage, and she can promise to marry a patient, only for money.
Therefore, this hard-won money has become her lifeblood, and no one wants to beat her money. Even Ji Ze, whom she had been secretly in love with for many years, could not shake the place of money in her heart. At that time, Qiqiao's heart was struggling in pain, so easy for her to die, he came to stir her again, she hated him...
As the saying goes, there is no love to hate. How many times, in order to press herself, she burst out of her whole body and the roots of her teeth were sore.
No, she can't have a handle in this hand. The people of the Jiang family are powerful, and her money is only afraid that she will not be able to keep it.
So with the scrutiny and calmness of an almost madman, she speculated that his plot was wrong, so she castrated her lust with her own hands.
Therefore, Qiqiao has become a scrooge. In her eyes, everyone who had anything to do with their orphans and widows was looking at her family's money. Even her own nephew was guarding against it.
The daughter Changbai stood on the chair to take the melon seeds on the top of the cabinet, and accidentally leaned back, fortunately, the nephew quickly helped him, and then carried Changbai down to the ground. This scene was seen by Qiqiao, and instead of being grateful, she took her mother's family and scolded a dog bloody head:
Your wolf heart and dog lungs, can't I figure it out? Don't think that you have taught my daughter badly, I can't help but pinch my nose and promise her to you, you are good to occupy our family property! I see you bastard, I can't think of such an idea, dare to feel that your father and mother taught it! Those two wolf-hearted, ungrateful old bastards! Qi thought about my money, one can't calculate, and another plan!
I have to say that the narrowness is so clever that the heart and eyes are squeezed out of space by money. In her world, there is no one to trust, only the money in her hand is the most secure, and everything else is just floating clouds.
03 I can't see that others are doing well
When he was young, qiqiao was clamped down by his mother's family and had no freedom of marriage. In the Jiang family, she could not get the love of her husband, and the first half of her life was like a bitter lotus. Therefore, in the treatment of children's marriage, as any normal mother, she will hope that her children can be happy and not go their own old way.
But Qiqiao is not an ordinary person, and her long-term repression has gradually distorted her mentality. She doesn't understand what "parents love their children, they have far-reaching plans", she does how to completely monopolize children.
On the day when the daughter-in-law passed the door, Qiqiao couldn't help but taunt the daughter-in-law's appearance, and the two lips were cut into a plate. The only person who can say these words is probably Qiqi alone. At first, Qiqiao also said behind his daughter-in-law's back, but later he said it to his face, and it was not to make his daughter-in-law cry, nor was he laughing.
Qiqiao's viciousness is more than this, she does not let her son go back to the house to sleep, let his son burn cigarette bubbles for her. He also thought of ways to ask the privacy of his son and daughter-in-law, and spread it out the next day.
It can be said that Qiqiao is well versed in the way of cursing people's hearts, strangled his daughter-in-law in a few rounds, and later gave his son a room, and it was not long before the little daughter-in-law could not escape the doom. At this point, Qiqiao's son lingered in the fireworks alley and did not dare to marry again.
For his own daughter, the seven coincidences are concocted. She pretended to have inadvertently told her daughter's fiancé that she had a habit of smoking a few mouthfuls and scared people away. The daughter finally stopped thinking of getting married, and Qiqiao got her wish.
Qiqiao is a poor person, but also has its hateful points, she has no love and no sex in her life, and her cold and resolute human nature makes people sigh.
Therefore, you can never guess how terrible a person can be if he is poor. Not only did she viciously attack herself, but she also couldn't see that others were doing well, so she dragged the people around her to accompany her to the funeral.