How to raise a well-behaved and sensible child is a headache for every parent.
Some children can dress and eat independently, and they can listen to the reasons told to him by adults, but some children need to be chased and fed to eat, and they must get what they want, and they will not wait for a moment, otherwise they will cry and roll.
Why do children make such a big difference? This stems from the difference in parenting styles among parents. Therefore, if you want your child to be well-behaved and sensible, parents should do these things.
1. Give your child the right to make their own choices
Parents appropriately give some power to the child, and the child will be very happy. When a child makes a request to the parent, the parent should not rush to reject him, you can preset two options for the child and let the child choose by himself.
For example, the child proposed to watch TV, but he has watched TV for a long time today, parents do not want the child to watch it again, you can tell him, now you can give you two choices, first, you can choose to play with toys or eat a little snack, second, you can watch TV for half an hour, but today you can no longer play with toys.
As long as parents and children communicate well and give their children reasonable choices, children will generally accept it happily.
2. Meet your child appropriately and don't be responsive
Under normal circumstances, the child's requirements are reasonable, and parents can meet him.
However, if the child's request is unreasonable, the parent must reject the child in time, and tell the child the reason, the child has emotions we can hug him to comfort him.
Responsiveness will nourish the child's indulgence and bad habits of doing whatever he wants, but if you keep rejecting the child, it will also cause the child's rebellious psychology.
3. Accompany and encourage children
What children need most is the companionship and encouragement of their parents, as long as parents are willing to spend some time with their children, children will become more cheerful and optimistic, and more attached to their parents.
And children who are often encouraged by their parents will also be more confident and more confident in the challenges ahead.
4. Be more patient with your child
Children don't know anything, they know far more than we think.
They have a curiosity far beyond that of adults, they are much more sensitive to intimate relationships, and some words can be felt by children even if adults do not say them, and they know who is good to him.
So parents should be a little more patient and more gentle in the face of their children, they can feel the tenderness in the eyes of their parents, and they know that this is evidence that they are loved.
5. Make a rule and say no firmly
The rules set by parents should not be changed easily, and they should adhere to their principles, and children may use crying to achieve their goals at the beginning.
Children are very smart, after trying a few times to find that it is not easy to use, he will understand that these rules can not be easily changed, and slowly the child will develop the habit of following the rules.
The road to bringing a baby is a long way to go, parents need to continue to learn and progress, I hope that all parents can eventually cultivate a healthy and excellent child.