Recently, it is located in the Yanji community
Youth Growth Center - Shu House
Launched the "Troubles of Youth" series of interviews
Focus on "Adolescent Psychology,
Parent-child relationship" and other topics
Analyze confusion and share your thoughts
The topic of today's interview is
"What do kids need us to do?"
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Li Xiaoru, Associate Professor, Department of Psychology, Fudan University: "When children need them, we also want to help them. So what can we do at this time to help children? ”
Student Shu Mang: "I think that for a child who is particularly independent but not good at communication, parents can "open a window" for him. ”
Li Xiaoru, Associate Professor, Department of Psychology, Fudan University: "How to open?" ”
Student Shu Mang:
"For example, reading some books or taking him to do something exploratory doesn't have to give the child a conclusion directly." For example, if you have a father with a child, I think he has an open mind, including when he brings his child to our house, this is also an exploratory thing, and it is a meaningful thing for the child.
Participating in Shu House does not directly help children solve their troubles, but it provides an opportunity to open up the world for children. For example, you can know the students of Fudan University, know the professors of Fudan University, and let the children see something in us that he cannot see. I think for a kid like that, as long as you give him a stage, he can perform very well. ”
Li Xiaoru, Associate Professor, Department of Psychology, Fudan University:
"Maybe for us as mothers, more often, we want to care about his eating, wearing, eating, wearing, and then being healthy and healthy, and not being short-sighted in his eyes." At the same time, we also hope that the child's body will maintain a certain amount of exercise, be healthy, have an optimistic personality, not be too stuffy, and have their own friends.
In this way, what we care about seems to be something more delicate. But Shu Mang provided some information, told us that there is also a part of the important task to help them open up the world. When we were young, there were not many resources, but children now have a lot of opportunities, and they may need parents to lead them to try and experience. ”
Student Shu Mang: "Yes. Parents need to give their children some courage. ”
What is Shu House
Shuwu is the first community youth growth center in China that focuses on peer psychological support and care for the growth of adolescents, and is committed to improving the "trinity" education mechanism of school, family and society, paying attention to the growth and life of teenagers in the community, cultivating teenagers to establish a positive attitude, and creating a transitional space linking family and school, which belongs to the spiritual harbor of adolescents.
"ShuWu" strengthens the concept of "community community", and builds seven major spaces such as zero house, infinite space, bamboo dragonfly station, lollipop hall, Sanssouci Island, No. 18 tree house, and PIE according to local conditions, guiding young people to feel the meaning of life and enlighten a better future in the "micro world" of the community.
"Shuwu" takes middle and high school students as the main service objects, accompanied by professional psychologists, cultivates the emotional management and stress management ability of minors, focuses on improving the psychological resilience of minors in a stressful environment, and actively solves the troubles and troubles of parent-child relationship in adolescence.
The worrier around the teenager
Psychological counselors around parents
"Troubles of Youth" series of interviews
It will be launched online one after another
Stay tuned
Text: Ge Xiaoling Jin Yiping
Video: Lu Danfeng Song Xiaoxiao
Editor: Wu Baixin
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