In the past two months, family searching has become a topic of concern for the majority of netizens. Pushing the topic of searching for relatives to a new height, it is Sun Haiyang who has found his son Sun Zhuo.
Taking advantage of this wave of heat, everyone is paying attention to this group, and many people who know their own lineage have also begun to embark on the road of finding relatives.
There are hand-drawn maps to retrieve the birth mother.
Automatically search the web for comparison information to contact your parents.
The police brought the child back through image comparison.
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Today it is different to say that this person knew that he was abandoned by his biological mother, who was 8 years old at the time.
8-year-olds have memories of their hometown, their parents, and many things.
She also remembers the scene when her mother abandoned her, and now she also wants to find her mother.
It was the deepest thing buried in her heart in years.
Although everyone, including her husband and daughter, knows that she grew up in the welfare dean. However, no one ever mentioned it voluntarily.
Until recently, she told her daughter and husband that I wanted to get my mother back. For her behavior, the whole family supported her.
Let's take a look at her statement:
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On August 31, 1992, Lei Haifeng, an 8-year-old girl, was taken to Xinyu, Jiangxi by her birth mother. That day, her mother put her on a side of the road near the train station and told her that her mother had gone to run an errand and that you were here to wait.
After saying that, my mother walked down a big road until I reached the end of the road and I couldn't see my mother's figure. She still remembers that at that time, her mother did not even return her head.
What she didn't know, however, was that it was parting.
That is to say, from now on, she may never see her mother again.
Now it's been almost 30 years since xinyu, the city her mother left behind. She hoped to find her mother, and she clearly remembered that her mother's name was Lei Xiaolan.
Living here, I also hope to meet my mother again.
She wanted to tell mom, no matter where you are, I sincerely want you to see my message, and then, contact me. I don't hate you anymore and have forgiven you.
I just want to get my mother back!
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Lei Haifeng said that when her mother abandoned her, the information record about her was like this: three head spins, short hair, double eyelids, and scars on the right armpit and soles of her feet. Wearing short-sleeved tops, pants, sandals.
Her mother should have been more aware of her characteristics at the time. As for why did my mother abandon her 8-year-old on the street?
Probably because she had a fever as a child and suffered from polio, which resulted in a third-degree disability in her right foot. The family conditions are not very good, and the parents often quarrel and quarrel fiercely. She remembers the last time she saw her father, also because after the quarrel, he slammed the door and came out, and his father never came back.
She was brought up by her grandfather and grandmother.
She remembers getting up early that day when she was abandoned, because her mother told her to take her to play. After a total of 2 days of car rides, in her memory, I think my mother also took her to Tiananmen Square (I don't remember too clearly, there are tours anyway).
Finally, they went to Xinyu, Jiangxi, where she waited for a long time after being separated from her mother and never waited for her mother to return.
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Lei Haifeng recalled that when they arrived in Xinyu, the sky was not yet bright, and they could faintly see the stars in the sky.
After Mom left, she didn't come back for hours. She waited anxiously, there were many pedestrians on the road, she had a child standing on the side of the road, and some well-wishers greeted her.
Most people asked her, why here? How old are you? Why wasn't I with my mom?
She said mom had gone to work and asked her to wait here.
At first she didn't want to talk to strangers, but then she asked more, and she said without a word that she was 8 years old and 9 years old.
By noon, Mom hadn't returned. However, she had been waiting where she was. Hungry grumbling, no money, no food.
The well-wisher who passed by bought her some snacks, and she waited another afternoon, but her mother still did not show up.
At that time, she did not realize that her mother would not come back.
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Anxiously waiting, waiting not for the mother, but for dusk.
Seeing that it is going to be dark, what to eat at night, where to sleep? How would she live alone on such a dark night? Do you want to keep waiting, and where can you go?
There was no answer, no one could give her an answer, and there was some panic in her heart, and more panic came from the darkness of the night.
Fortunately, there were many people on the side of the road at that time, and there was a nearby resident who saw her. The resident took her to the house and told his wife, who was cooking, that the child should have been abandoned and that I wanted to adopt her.
The wife saw her walking and told her husband that there was something wrong with the child's leg and did not agree. Then she was taken out.
She spent the night on the streets.
After the conversation between the couple, she realized that she might have been abandoned by her mother, because while on the train, she had noticed that her mother was talking to someone else, saying that she was sick and that they did not want it.
Many people on the train talked to their mothers about themselves.
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That night, she slept on the street, fortunately, the weather was warm at that time, and she was very afraid. However, there is no way to be afraid. More afraid than afraid was hunger, and the only thing she felt at that time was hunger.
Later, as a well-wisher passing by, he bought her some food. As an 8-year-old, she didn't know how to deal with this situation, and she has been wandering like this ever since?
She didn't remember if she cried at that time, but there should have been tears when she was abandoned by her mother, right?
The night was long, but fortunately she stayed up the night.
The next day, at about nine o'clock, a policeman came and asked her something. She told the police about her experience here.
After that, she was taken to the welfare home, where she had a home, a home for the future.
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When she arrived at the welfare home, she met many children and some aunts, and they were asking themselves, where is it? How did you get here?
She hadn't been able to answer all of the questions her aunt had asked, because there were some things she couldn't remember.
After that, he took her into custody.
During her time in the welfare home, she was also arranged to go to school, and after graduation, she also worked in the welfare home.
Later, she saw the handwritten certificate that she had just entered the welfare home.
When she arrived here on September 2, 1992, there was no other information about her name and age. Maybe she can't remember where she was from, so there is no more detailed information about it?
She never understood that because she was disabled, her mother did not want herself. Was that really the reason she suspected?
Now that she is also a person with two daughters, she feels that her children, no matter what the situation, will not be abandoned, even if they eat chaff vegetables, they must be together.
What mother would abandon her child, dead or alive?
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Lei Haifeng said that although he did not understand why his mother wanted to abandon him. However, she forgave her mother anyway. In her opinion, the mother and father quarreled fiercely, and the two could not be together for a long time.
The reason why her mother abandoned her may be because she wants to re-establish a family. Without children, it should be easier to marry.
That's all she could think of.
In fact, Lei Haifeng is more grateful to her grandparents, because most of the time, she was brought up by her grandparents. She remembered that at that time, their family was very poor, and well-meaning people would give their grandparents some sweet potatoes and rice noodles.
She was sick from an early age and could not walk until she was 4 years old. Before she learned to walk, it was her grandparents who carried her on their backs and watched her grow up slowly.
If the grandparents are alive, it is estimated that they will be 90 years old.
She wants her grandparents to be alive and wants to see them retire for them. If you die, tell her where the grave is? He was going to put a pillar of incense in front of the second old man's grave.
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Lei Haifeng's biggest confusion now is that he doesn't know where his hometown is? Her memories of her hometown are like this, her home is in a ravine of a big mountain, and the house is made of adobe bricks made of clay.
They also have a primary school in their village, and movies are shown in the evenings, and everyone in the village will come to see them. She was not impressed with her classmates, but she also remembered that her grades were not excellent and she was often beaten by her parents.
Grandparents grew crops such as rice, chestnuts, persimmons, sweet potatoes, peanuts, and so on. She remembers picking tobacco leaves with her grandparents and washing clothes at the well.
The memory of the hometown is roughly so much.
Through the information she described, netizens felt that her hometown may be Yunnan, Guizhou, Hunan, Sichuan and other places. The accent she speaks is also southwestern.
She thinks to herself that it should be in these places as well.
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Lei Haifeng did not know what day her birthday was, she said that if she found her mother, or her mother saw that she was looking for her, she hoped that her mother could contact her. If the mother has a new family, she will not bother, but just want to ask the mother, what day was she born?
She would love to know her birthday and live together if her mother hadn't restructured her family. Because if the mother finds it, her child will have a grandmother, and she will have a mother.
However, there is one thing she is still very troubled. If you really find your mother, who abandoned her, will your mother be punished in this case?
To that end, she also specifically sought help from the police, and article 261 of the Penal Code stipulates that the crime of abandonment refers to the refusal of a person with an obligation to support himself against an elderly, young, sick or other person who is not incapable of living independently, and the circumstances are heinous, thus constituting a crime punishable by imprisonment for up to five years, criminal detention or public surveillance.
However, some people also told her that there are special circumstances, and if there are special circumstances, they will also be considered. It was because she consulted well on many things that she was determined to find her mother.
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She remembers her mother's name, which reminds me of Liu Xuezhou, who after seeing her father's name, searched through the Internet, excluded it through comparison, and then locked his father and called him.
Later, after a DNA paternity test, he did not find a mistake.
Lei Haifeng can also search for it, and after exclusion and comparison, to narrow the scope.
However, the possibility is not very large, it must be that her mother has been on the Internet, left relevant contact information on the Internet, only in this case, can the scope be narrowed down and smoothly contact her family.
Her mother should also be a 60-year-old person, and people of this age should not leave too much information on the Internet who understand the Internet.
Of course, as long as her mother, knowing that her daughter is looking for her, is willing to contact her. I believe that as long as she sees this news, she should contact her daughter.
Why did she abandon her daughter in the first place? It didn't matter now, what mattered was that her daughter had forgiven her.
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Sun Haiyang sent another good news to find his child, Zhang Yangyang, who was abducted for 20 years. Yesterday the paternity test was successful. Zhang Yangyang's mother has been looking for him for 20 years, during which time she also suffered a divorce.
Sun Haiyang in the media attention in this period of time, he has been Zhang Yangyang's mother rubbing heat, told netizens that she has not found a son, a person to insist on 20 years is not easy, everyone must pay attention to her.
Now with the help of the police, her son has finally been found.
Sun Haiyang can finally blow a bull in the open.
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More and more people have found their long-lost relatives, with the advancement of technology, paying more and more attention to this group of people, I believe that Lei Haifeng can also find her mother, although she is abandoned by her mother, but, for her, she does not find her mother, is the biggest regret in her life, she does not want to have such regrets in her life.
Her mother, as someone who once abandoned her daughter, should be very concerned about such news. If you see this news, contact your daughter as soon as possible, she has forgiven you!
Also, Lei Haifeng knows his mother's name, and now the household registration information is entered into the big database, which can be searched through the database to find out the same person as the mother's name, so that the scope is gradually narrowed, which should also be a way.