preface:
Born as a human being, living in a company, no matter what age we are, we all hope that someone can understand themselves, hurt themselves, and put themselves in their hearts.
Especially when people reach middle age and old age, they need someone to accompany them. After experiencing the busyness of work, retirement life makes many people uncomfortable, at this time, it is very important to have someone to accompany themselves.
Therefore, many people to the middle and old age, single they will still choose to find another partner for themselves. There are also many people who think that after a busy life, it is difficult to have time to rest after retirement, you should live a free life, there is no need to find someone to restrain yourself. Let's take a look at Aunt Chen's experience!
Aunt Chen, 57, said of herself:
I and my original wife have been divorced for many years, when I was young, because I cheated on me, was found out by my original wife, and then he filed for divorce with me, I know that I did wrong, I also know the temper of my original wife, he will not forgive me, so I divorced him, after divorcing the original wife, I was with my lover, at that time I thought that I and my lover would last a long time, but what I did not expect was that in the eighth year of my stay with him, he proposed to break up with me. He said I was older, he said I didn't deserve him, he said things that hurt very much, because he, my family was ruined, and now he didn't want me, I begged him at that time, I wanted him to continue to be with me, because I couldn't leave him, but he wasn't moved, he said he didn't love me anymore, he had no feelings for me, if he continued to be with me, it would be a torment for him, he said such things, I had nothing to do, so I could only agree to break up with him.
After breaking up with him, I lived alone, deeply hurt by feelings, so I didn't want to fall in love, after work, I went home, I didn't want to go out to play, my friends around me were very worried about me, they persuaded me to open a little, in fact, I understand the reason, but I just can't do it, I feel that I was too young, for a man, ruined my family, and then made a mess of my life, at that time I went to my original wife, I wanted to apologize to him, and then remarried with him, But my original wife did not pay any attention to me, he said that even if he was single for a lifetime, he would not remarry me, because I was already dirty, no longer worthy of him, what he said was particularly hurtful, word by word hurt my heart, he once loved me so much, but now he hurt me like this, I have a feeling of heart like a knife.
I was single for many years, and later when I was 57, I met a man who was crazy after me, he did a lot of things for me, I thought he was fine, so I married him, after I was with him, I found that his temper was very hot, he was particularly horrible when he lost his temper, once, I accidentally broke a bowl when I was washing dishes, so I squatted down to clean up the glass slag, at this time, he just walked into the kitchen, saw this scene, he directly pushed me away, Because of his great strength, I fell fiercely to the ground, there was just glass slag on the ground, my hand was cut, a lot of blood, he turned a blind eye, continued to scold me, the pain of the body is nothing, the most uncomfortable is the pain in the heart, I did not expect that he is such a man, there are many such things happening later, I can't stand it, and then I filed for divorce with him, but he did not agree to divorce, has been entangled, I want to shake it off.
Author's Point of View:
If a woman can marry a husband with a good temper, the married life is happy, and the same is true for finding a wife when she is old. Therefore, you must be cautious about finding a wife, otherwise, life is bad, it is better to be single.