After listening to Dad's words, I didn't speak. I know that in 1964, Dad was sent to Suizhou to carry out the Four Qing Movement, which offended people. In the early days of the Cultural Revolution in 1966, a group of people came and grabbed dad to take him to Suizhou, and when they walked to the train station, Uncle Zhu, a good friend of dad who was rushed by Wen Xun, and dozens of people he brought, saved dad. Over the years, he has been reluctant to mention Suizhou, let alone that I have found a Suizhou person as a friend. After my mother knew, she also said to me, don't talk to Suizhou people about friends. In order to prevent our contact, my mother stopped me on the day off and was not allowed to go anywhere. I was resentful because my mother was watching tightly, and I argued with her, but there was no way, and for a while we had no contact. On another date, he asked me what was going on, and I told him mom and dad's opinion. Then I was persuaded to say that your parents were right, the gap between the two of us is too big, your parents are cadres, and I am a peasant's child, our family has a large population, and the family is in difficulty. And you work in the organ, my company as a salesman, you don't get angry with your parents, you can choose a better object for you.