"Qiankun" (002) I learned to sing a Buddhist song "Let Go", and my old partner Wu Jie was a little surprised

Before the Spring Festival, I learned to sing a Buddhist song, which was Master Yin Liang's "Let Go", and the lyrics were sung like this.

Love has passed through hate, let go, there has been pain and see through it, devout worship Buddha, Bodhisattva, now take refuge in the Three Jewels.

Tranquility, follow fate, present lotus, take off, be at ease, bodhichitta, enter the empty door with the robe Mahasa, morning bell, twilight drum.

Great Compassion, Great Compassion, Guanyin Bodhisattva, accompanied by the Green Lantern Ancient Buddha.

My wife Wu Jie saw me singing this song every day, and she was suspicious, and one day she said to me:

"What do you mean by singing every day with the green lantern ancient Buddha?" What else do you think? ”

I didn't answer, I couldn't answer, I was willing to sing this Buddhist song, but in fact I only understood the first two sentences of this song.

"Love has passed, hate has passed, let it go, and there has been pain to see through it."

I don't understand other lyrics, but before the Spring Festival, my young girlfriend Hongxia gave me a call. When I answered the phone, my wife Wu Jie also heard it on the side, she was a little deaf in her ears now, and the sound of me and Hongxia talking on the phone, she couldn't hear clearly. Hongxia and her daughter Chunhua, who had been ordained in a temple in the south for many years.

In this life, only when people let go of their eyes and see through, their hearts will be quiet. When your heart is quiet and you have no desire, everything will conform to nature. When you open your phone, you will often see some masters preaching and saying:

"In a person's life, choice is more important than effort. It's like driving on the road, the direction is not right, maybe the harder you try, the farther away from the target. ”

But in this life, how many people's ideals will be realized? When I was a child, most of the ideals when I was studying became dreams.

The master said, "You are persistent. ”

My neighbor next to the door, Old Wu Tou, died a month ago, and there were four families living on this floor, and old Wu Tou's family was next to Old Xu Tou. When we moved in 10 years ago, we renovated together, and I was about the same age as Old Wu Tou and Old Xu Tou. 10 years ago, just about 60 years old, we three old men, old Wu Tou's retirement salary is the highest, old Xu Tou is a farmer, no retirement wages.

The old Xu Tou family lived in the suburbs of Jiutai, and the house was a wedding room for his son. Old Xu tou has six acres of paddy fields, in the summer, every day to go home to farm, old Xu to smoke a pack of cigarettes a day, drink two bottles of beer, the body is not sick. Old Wu Tou'er pays great attention to health care, and when there is nothing to do, he will lead his wife to the health center to listen to the lessons. Don't eat meat, don't eat oil, don't eat salt, don't drink alcohol, don't smoke, don't dare to eat tap water at home, and as a result, your health is getting worse and worse.

Old Wu Tou'er died secretly, and no one cried, no one brought filial piety, and no relatives came. Old Wu's first two sons, the eldest son to take care of the aftermath, the younger son and the two divorced, a little girl living with her grandmother. When Old Wu Tou died, the younger son did not know where to go? In the past, he had borrowed a sum of money, and Old Wu Tou'er and Old Mrs. Wu were guarantors. Now that Old Wu Tou'er is dead, people are coming to collect debts, Old Mrs. Wu is taking her 15-year-old granddaughter, the old lady has no retirement salary, old Wu Tou is dead, and there is no financial resource in the family. Mrs. Wu sold the house to pay off the debt, and she was ready to take her granddaughter to rent a house to live.

More than a year ago, because of the epidemic, the school was on vacation, and the little granddaughter of the old Wu Tou came to me, and the little girl wanted to play with me live. She bought a mobile phone, there was no network cable at home, and I told her my family's password. The two of us played together a few times, sang songs in front of my son's TCM clinic, and sang songs in Xiqiao Park. Later, I considered that this girl was too young to be an adult, and her grandparents did not support it, in case of any gossip, it would not be good. The little girl used to call Grandpa Liu when she saw me, and now I don't play with her anymore, she has ideas about me, and she doesn't pay attention to me.

Now that Old Wu Tou'er is dead, After Old Mrs. Wu sold the house, she had Alzheimer's disease again, and the old lady went to the nursing home by herself, and the little granddaughter had no one to take care of. This child is 15 years old, a 15-year-old girl, how does she live?

My wife Wu Jie said to me:

"This child is so pitiful, Mrs. Wu told me, let us help take care of this child, she can't take the child to the nursing home."

People in this life is not easy, everyone has their own goals, young people in order to make money, old people in order to live a long life, many people are pursuing, are persistent persistence. Young people are tired of living, and the elderly are tired of living, and all this will only be relaxed if it is put down.

The truth of the "I Ching" is yin and yang, the anode gives birth to yin, the cathode rises to the yang, the most important thing is a "change", everything in the universe is changing all the time. If the other party can't change, the only way to change is to change themselves, change their ideas, and change their own practices.

My wife Wu Jie often said to me:

"I don't know about you yet? You can't insist on doing anything, doing things is always a tiger,How many industries have you done in this lifetime? ”

I, as a person, have enough to do anything. I think to give life a turn, don't cling to the tip of the bull's horn, and don't run a road to the black. If you can't do something, don't do it first, and then do it when you have the opportunity, the opportunity is waiting, not asking for it.

As the saying goes, "There are hearts that plant flowers and flowers that do not bloom, and willows that do not have the heart to plant willows." ”

If a fate can't catch the hand, then don't chase it first, there is no need to spend a lifetime on a person's body. Without sycamore trees, no golden phoenix, no flowers, how can it attract bees and butterflies? Do yourself well first, make yourself strong, and sometimes effort is more important than choice.

If a road does not work, then go another way, there is no need to let yourself go to the end of the road. As long as people learn to turn in this life, they will not feel tired. Because there are always unsatisfactory times in life, what difficulties have been encountered, don't always be entangled. No matter how difficult things are at the moment, tomorrow may not be a thing, and next year it will become a thing of the past.

There is no need to let yourself live too tired, learn to turn, the heart will be relaxed, in fact, in many cases, it is better to give up your blind persistence. Because there are many things that you can't do on your own, instead of letting your heart bear great pressure, it is better to know how to turn and put it down properly, which is also a happy way to live.

If you learn to turn a corner, you should let go, life will be easy, when you encounter a road that can't be walked, then change the way and change directions. Learn to be flexible, everything will suddenly be enlightened, life is like this, blindly moving forward, will only be in vain. This is the turning child, the turning child is a kind of wisdom of life; the turning child is a kind of open-mindedness of being a person; the turning child is the best way to live; the turning child is a kind of life calmness.

Give life a turn, don't live too stubbornly, to change with the trend; don't live too obsessive, to change from another angle; don't live too persistently, know how to be flexible, and conform to nature. Only when you learn to turn, you will not live in the mud. Give yourself a turn, and when you find that the road under your feet does not work, then go another way; when you find that the road in your heart does not make sense, then let yourself not think about it.

Only when the road in the heart and the road under the feet are smooth, can life be smooth and easy. There is no obstacle in life that cannot be passed, only a bend that cannot be turned. Learn to turn a corner, in order to see another clear sky, in order to encounter another beautiful scenery, will live a relaxed life. Dear netizens, do you agree with my point of view?

This time when I write "Qiankun", I want to write about my own experience, I was born in 1953, and by the Spring Festival of 2022, I will be 70 years old. A person who has lived for 70 years will have many experiences, and I was born after the founding of New China. When he was born, he experienced the War to Resist US Aggression and Aid Korea, and when he was a child, he experienced the Great Leap Forward, smelted steel, and ate a big pot of rice. When I was studying, I experienced the Cultural Revolution, when the Red Guards went to Beijing to join forces. He has experienced going up to the mountains and going to the countryside as a young intellectual, has experienced reform and opening up, and has gone south to the north to do business and trade. I was born in 1953 in Jiutai County, Jilin Province, and my hometown is Yanshan County, Cangzhou, Hebei Province.

The next article writes that Wu Meng, the little granddaughter of the neighbor Old Wu Tou, is coming to my house and living with a 15-year-old girl, and I also feel energetic.

The picture below is a recent photo of me and my old partner Wu Jie.