His own child is more and more cute the more he looks, and he has unlimited tolerance for his child's shortcomings, but not everyone can spoil him like his parents. When children go out of the family, there are still some bad habits on their bodies, they may be rejected and rejected, causing some trouble to the growth of children.
The 5-year-old child was persuaded to retire from kindergarten 4 times, and it was time for parents to reflect
The child of one of my relatives was repeatedly refused to contact me because he went to kindergarten. The child's mother said: "Is it that the kindergarten teacher in our hometown is too poor, so even the child can't manage it well?" ”
Her son, Yang Yang, is 5 years old and is in kindergarten. Although I have only been in kindergarten for one year, I have already transferred to four kindergartens and have recently been persuaded by my teacher to quit.
The first kindergarten, Yang Yang always cried when he went to kindergarten in the morning, and his mother said to the teacher: "The child is always unhappy when he goes to the kindergarten, can I not follow him for a while, and when the child adapts, I will not go." ”
The child goes to kindergarten with a parent, which is also more strange, and it will also affect the normal teaching work of the teacher. Of course, the teacher refused, and said: "If you must accompany the study, it is better to change to a kindergarten, our kindergarten is not allowed." ”
The teacher said this, and the mother had to give up, she felt that her son was always crying, perhaps because the kindergarten was not very good, so she changed to a kindergarten.
The second kindergarten was decided after thousands of choices, and the fee was not low. Yang Yang entered the kindergarten for about half a month and became ill. The mother said to the teacher: "The child is sick as soon as he goes to kindergarten, because he does not take the initiative to drink water, and he needs the teacher to help supervise him." ”
However, after a period of time, the teacher supervised that he did not like to drink water. Mom often said, "Trouble teacher, send me a picture of our child drinking water every day." The teacher also directly refused, saying: "Staring at a child every day, we can't do it, so you might as well try a kindergarten!" ”
The child has a small class for one year and has attended two kindergartens, and her mother feels that she is not very satisfied. Finally, the middle class is in, and the child's kindergarten has changed again. This time there was an accident within a few days, the child was naughty in the class, he held up the small chair used for the class, running in the classroom, the chair fell off and smashed the head of a child. Healing, compensation, several twists and turns, the kindergarten also proposed to Yang Yang, let him change a kindergarten.
Fortunately, there are still many kindergartens, especially such private kindergartens, but although the children have already entered the middle class, they still do not understand the rules at all. He finished eating at noon, the other children were sleeping, he ran around the classroom alone, arguing that other children could not rest, the teacher said: "Parents please take the child back, practice a good routine and come again!" ”
I was rejected by the kindergarten again, and this routine has not been cultivated well, and I have not gone to kindergarten. Going to kindergarten is the growth that every child must experience, five-year-old children go to kindergarten, have been dismissed 4 times, which is inseparable from the parents' way of educating their children, we must reflect on ourselves, why this situation occurs.
Children adapt to the life of kindergarten, in order to learn knowledge and skills in kindergarten, in order to develop good habits, for the future life, learning to lay the foundation. Before the child goes to kindergarten, or the child has already entered kindergarten, parents need to make these preparations, and the child's kindergarten stage will be smoother and happier.
Both parents and children need to be mentally prepared.
Before a child enters kindergarten, psychological preparation is also important. We parents should not always give our children the impression that "the teacher is very strong" and scare the child by taking the teacher to kindergarten.
When talking about teachers, talk to children more about having fun with teachers and children, we must let children recognize the teacher from the heart, let him feel that the teacher is a trustworthy person, and let the child feel that going to kindergarten is a happy thing.
Parents cultivate good living habits and prepare their children for kindergarten.
Generally, children who cannot adapt well to kindergarten life are less able to live independently. And those children with strong independent ability will also be more receptive to the new life of the kindergarten.
Children eat, drink, go to the toilet, wear clothes, and wear shoes independently, all of which parents need to cultivate in advance before going to kindergarten. Children can live independently in order to have the confidence to leave their parents' side.
Parents should not spoil their children, but cultivate their children's sense of rules.
When a child goes to kindergarten, it is to lay the foundation for future learning and life. Kindergartens will also have some learning activities that children need to participate in, if children do not have a little sense of rules, the teacher's words do not listen at all, it will be more difficult to participate in group activities. Some children are the phenomenon of running around and shouting, and some children cannot get along with others when they get along, and they all need to be slowly run-in.
Therefore, children must have a sense of rules from an early age, and they cannot do whatever they want.
Raising children is like building a tall building, and it is very important to lay a good foundation, so it is necessary to pay attention to it in the kindergarten stage.