The return of the baby is the wish of every parent: may all lost children return home safely
Sentence/Still Moon
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When every little life falls to the ground, it will bring a full sense of happiness to parents. Ta will make the mother forget the hardships and difficulties of conceiving life, and feel the infinite joy and hope.
Watching the baby grow up day by day, the parents' eyes and hearts are full of TA: they can laugh, they can climb, they can call their parents and mothers, they can leave, they can run, they can say short sentences...
Children are the hope of parents and the future of the family. It is precisely because of having children that fathers work harder and mothers become more gentle...
However, if one day the child is lost and cannot be found, the parents' sky is tantamount to collapsing, and their lives will change accordingly.
01. Lost children, take away the hope of parents for life
A young couple in business with their 2-year-old son with them. One day, busy parents, suddenly found that the child was missing.
The 2-year-old son was lost, and the parents had no intention of doing business anymore, so they closed the shop and began to look around for their son. This search is more than ten years.
After 15 years, the parents have not given up on their plans to find their son. Finally, thousands of miles away, they found their 15-year-old son, but the son had grown into a 17-year-old man.
In the face of the hard search for his biological parents, the son who has been separated for 15 years is very indifferent, and even refuses to hug his father.
At that time, the child was just over 2 years old when he was lost, and he had no memory at all. Now he has long regarded his current adoptive parents as his own relatives, and in the face of his biological parents who come to the door, it is difficult for the child to accept his fate for a while.
The biological parents did not force their son, and they were relieved to know that he was doing well now. The adoptive parents have a factory at home, the family is well-off, and they are also generous to the adopted son.
The biological parents saw what their son was wearing, and his arrogant look, and knew that the adoptive parents were still good to him. My son is in high school and usually lives on campus weekends before returning home.
Although the biological parents very much want their son to come home with them, what can they say in the face of this situation? Over the years, in search of their son, they have been destitute. Moreover, even if they had this idea, the son would not be willing.
When the biological parents told their son about what happened to them, the son said, "You just care about business and leave me alone." So many years have passed, and now I am looking for it, why did I go earlier? ”
The biological parents were speechless. In fact, when they both knew that their son was alive and well, wasn't that the best ending?
I have to say that this child who was lost since childhood, at the age when he most needed the care and companionship of his parents, walked into a strange family that was not related to himself at all. He grew up with the family, and he had long regarded his adoptive parents' family as his relatives.
Whose fault is it? Despite the fault of parents for poor supervision, what is even more hateful are the traffickers who take their children away and sell them to others.
In fact, no matter where the child is, from the day their child is lost, the parents' hearts have never been at peace, and they always look forward to the day when the child will return home. On sleepless nights, parents will be annoyed and regret their mistakes!
02. Letting the lost child go home is the wish of every parent
Recently brushed a short video and saw such a story. A mother accidentally lost her young daughter, and she frantically searched around.
Again and again, the mother held up a search notice with a picture of her daughter, and whenever someone asked, "Have you seen the child in the picture?" ”
The pain of losing her daughter makes the mother live in self-blame all day long. She vowed to get her daughter back. When her family saw her so persistent, they couldn't help but ask, "How long are you going to look for?" ”
The mother replied, "Until I find it." ”
The mother must find the daughter
Fast forward 5 years, and the mother has never stopped looking for her daughter. When the mother finally found her daughter after many hardships, the daughter Xia Xia looked at her mother, but she was frightened and hid behind others.
At that moment, the mother's heart was dripping blood. When the daughter of Chao Si Twilight came to her side, the daughter was afraid of her and did not want to come near her.
Because the child's mood swings are very large, the daughter can only be temporarily allowed to live in the institution, and the professional nurse can carry out mental reassurance. The little girl steward called "sister".
The daughter hides from her mother
Mothers often visit their daughters at institutions and want to get closer to them. She also often brings good food to her daughter and buys toys for her daughter.
The braised pork that the mother made for her daughter, and the daughter said, "It was delicious," but the mother cried.
The mother bought new clothes for her daughter, and when she put them on, she said, "Auntie, thank you." ”
Mother knows that only when they slowly become acquainted, the relationship will become more and more harmonious.
The mother made delicious food for her daughter
The daughter's birthday is approaching, and the nurse sister and the mother discuss to give her daughter Xia Xia a birthday.
On this day, the daughter happily made a wish, blew out the candles, and ate the cake.
The mother said to her daughter, "Shall we go home?" ”
The daughter said, "Good."
When the mother says, "This is your home."
The mother celebrates her daughter's birthday
The daughter said, "No, this is not my home." I want Mom! ”
The daughter's resistance made the mother once again bear the torment of her heart. She told herself: You can't be in a hurry, you have to wait for your daughter's heart to slowly turn around.
A year later, her daughter Xia Xia finally accepted her mother's identity. The mother took her daughter's hand and finally returned to the normal track of life.
The daughter Xia Xia came home and finally filled the hole in her mother's heart, and her life should return to normal.
The daughter finally accepted her mother
03. May all lost children return home safely
As biological parents, when their hearts and liver babies are taken away by others, for them, life suddenly loses color.
The pain of losing a child torments parents day and night. Many families are broken in search of children. Parents would put down their jobs, give up their careers, search city by city, and measure every inch of land with their feet.
Parents can't stop themselves from looking for their children, because only on the road can there be hope and be closer to their children.
No matter how many years have passed, parents' thoughts and concerns about their children have not diminished at all.
What parents don't expect is that reality is sometimes harsh. Finally, one day, when the biological parents came to the door, the adoptive parents were dumbfounded, and the children were confused: Why is this happening? How can it be? What am I going to do?
As a biological parent, after many hardships, when finally meeting with a long-lost child, the child's resistance will deeply sting the heart of the parent.
Strangeness and strangeness, like a chasm, separate the child from the biological parents. Even when parents extend their arms to embrace their children, the children instinctively dodge and retreat...
Someone once said that it only takes ten seconds for a child to go missing. But how many mothers have a chance to make up for these ten seconds?
In fact, behind every lost, abducted child, there is a broken family. Their biological parents lived in pain until they found their children.
The idea of believing that the child will be able to find it and believing that the child will definitely return home supports the parents year after year, tirelessly adhering to the faith in their hearts.
Long Yingtai said: I love the feeling of being a mother. Just putting the child's head on my chest can make me feel happy.
Dante also said: There is one of the most beautiful voices in the world, and that is the call of the mother.
Baby Come Home: May all lost children come home safely!
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