After Xu Lingyi Pingkou returned to the palace, he looked around and found that his wife Yuan Niang had not come to greet him, so he tentatively asked Mrs. Xu.
Mrs. Xu sighed, "Recently, Yuan Niang's condition has become more and more serious, so you should hurry up and see her." ”
Luo Yuanniang had already learned in advance that Xu Lingyi had returned to the palace, Xu Lingyi had been out of Pingkou for nearly a year, Luo Yuanniang and her husband had been reunited for a long time, and her heart was still very happy, in order to see Xu Lingyi in the best appearance, Luo Yuanniang also carefully decorated her makeup, but the gorgeous costumes and makeup still could not hide her weak appearance.
Xu Lingyi hurried to YuanNiang's residence, but when he was at the door, his footsteps groaned for a moment, which was probably the so-called homesickness more timid.
As soon as they met, Luo Yuanniang and Xu Lingyi looked at each other for a few seconds, did not describe too much of the husband and wife's feelings, and instead led the conversation to Brother Zhen.
It seems that at this time, Yuanniang's love for her husband Xu Lingyi is only a child, and when the time of serious illness is short, Luo Yuanniang's most unsettling heart is also her only child, Brother Zhen.
While Luo Yuanniang and Xu Lingyi were talking, Aunt Wen and Aunt Qin came over together.
Aunt Wen's child Xu Siyu was intelligent and lively, while Luo Yuanniang's concubine Brother Zhen was weak because of premature birth, so his homework fell behind a lot.
Xu Siyi saw Xu Lingyi come back very closely and asked Xu Lingyi for peace, but Brother Zhen was shy and did not dare to be close to Xu Lingyi.
Luo Yuanniang saw that Xu Siyi, a concubine, looked so clever and clever, and was very worried that Xu Siyi would threaten her son Brother Zhi to successfully attack the knighthood, so she thought that if Xu Lingyi could get another title, it would be better to appease Xu Siyi, so as to ensure that her son Brother Zhen would succeed to the marquis smoothly in the future.
However, Xu Lingyi told Luo Yuanniang that she had rejected the emperor's addition to the throne.
The reason was that he wanted to exchange his promotion for the emperor's relaxation of the sea ban.
Xu Lingyi was pregnant with the people of Li Min, but Luo Yuanniang was bent on whether her son would inherit the title smoothly in the future.
But it is not wrong to say that Luo Yuanniang is just an ordinary woman with her own selfish intentions, because she loves her son, so she wants to pave the way for her son before she dies.
If you have to discuss the character, you can only say that Luo Yuanniang and Xu Lingyi have different views, which is probably one of the reasons why their marriage is lifeless.
When Luo Yuanniang and Xu Lingyi argued, they mentioned: "Do you know how difficult it is for me, lady Yongping Marquis, to be?" ”
Luo Yuanniang just wanted to talk about her pain to her husband, but Xu Lingyi raised her legs and wanted to leave.
Looking here is really very distressing Yuan Niang, Yuan Niang does have selfish intentions, but Xu Lingyi's attitude towards her is inevitably too indifferent, and she is not even willing to listen to her wife patiently, only thinking of escaping.
To say that their marriage has come to this point, why does Xu Lingyi have no responsibility?
He was a good official, but not a good husband.
The reason why Yuan Niang looked so undignified and asked Xu Lingyi for a knighthood was not that Xu Lingyi did not give Yuan Niang a sense of security and let Yuan Niang trust him with confidence.
Xu Lingyi sighed in disappointment: "Yuan Niang, you were not like this before. ”
Yuan Niang retorted fiercely: "Then why did I become like this, don't you know?" ”
Yes, a marriage with three views and cold violence will really make people's hearts like ashes.
A sentence "You were not like this before" makes people think, perhaps once upon a time, Yuan Niang was also a bright and lively woman like Chao Lu, after marrying Xu Lingyi, the two people should also have had a happy and sweet time, but with Xu Lingyi's promotion, and then married a concubine, Yuan Niang was not easy to conceive a brother, and was calculated by Qiao Lianfang to give birth prematurely, and the postpartum body was difficult to heal, Qiao Lianfang was also related to Mrs. Xu, frequently came to Xu Mansion to deliberately provoke yuanniang, yuanniang in order to keep her position in the main room, painstaking, The body must be getting worse and worse.
And Xu Lingyi was single-minded in his own career and cared little about Yuan Niang.
A woman who does not get the love of her husband, and who has to prevent other women from trying to find her place, and also has to deal with all kinds of chores and interpersonal relations in the Great Mansion, will she become more and more exhausted and lose her original bright and flexible movement.
Xu Lingyi's incomprehension and evasion directly caused Yuan Niang to faint in qi and blood.
After Yuanniang fainted, Xu Lingyi quickly called the doctor to see Yuanniang.
Since the small birth a year ago, Yuan Niang's body has not recovered.
It is mentioned in the play that Xu Lingyi went out to Pingkou for a year, which means that Yuan Niang had just given birth to a child at that time, and Xu Lingyi was on a business trip.
So for more than a year, Yuan Niang is widowed parenting, postpartum weakness, husband accompaniment absence, coupled with the love enemy (Qiao Lianfang) from time to time provocative, his mother-in-law also to his love enemy (Qiao Lianfang), in dealing with complicated affairs in the house, but also to deal with all kinds of bad things, no wonder Yuan Niang's illness is getting more and more serious.
The words of the doctor made Xu Lingyi have some pity for Yuan Niang, and he finally said something of concern: "In the future, let the second sister-in-law and Danyang help you more." ”
Although Xu Lingyi's original intention is to care about Yuan Niang, but since the birth of Yuan Niang, in fact, there is postpartum depression, and now the condition is aggravated, Qiao Lianfang always stares at her seat, the mother-in-law also helps Qiao Lianfang, Yuan Niang thinks of her sick and weak body, Xu Lingyi is young and promising, it is inevitable that her heart is becoming more and more inferior: "Are you disgusted with my serious illness, not worthy of being this family, or do you dislike me, do you not deserve to be your wife of Yongping Marquis?" ”
Seriously speaking, Yuan Niang's words originally meant that she did not blame Xu Lingyi, but just a wife telling her husband about her grievances.
Xu Lingyi, however, thought that Yuan Niang was complaining and accusing herself, and directly and coldly said: "You, good life rest." Said and turned away.
We can see that the way Xu Lingyi and Yuan Niang get along is to avoid the cold treatment.
Yuan Niang said this, in fact, she just wanted to hear Xu Lingyi say a few good words to herself and coax herself, but Xu Lingyi didn't even bother to comfort her wife.
I believe that many women have been wronged, the real purpose of complaining to their husbands is not to accuse the husband, all she wants is a hug and the gentle comfort of the husband, as long as the husband is willing to be patient to comfort the wife, the wife will not be so difficult to swallow those grievances.
But when Xu Lingyi encountered emotional problems, the first thing he thought of was to escape and cold Yuan Niang.
Yuan Niang's illness worsened, and she would rather entrust her brother to her sister than to Xu Lingyi, not because Xu Lingyi did not give her a sense of security from beginning to end.
A happy marriage will make a woman more and more gentle and sunny, while an unhappy marriage will only force a woman into an abominable "madman".
Yuanniang's calculation before her death may also be because Of xu Lingyi's indifference and evasion make her unable to feel the warmth of marriage, which can only rely on her own single-minded calculation to find a good future for her son.
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