From the death of Yuan Niang and the marriage of Eleven Niang into the Xu family, Xu Lingyi and Eleven Niang experienced many difficulties and finally succeeded in the round house in episode 35.
Decent couples have finally succeeded in being decent.
In fact, Xu Lingyi has a deep affection for Eleven Niang after she has a deep understanding, and Eleven Niang also feels Xu Lingyi's goodness, why did the couple go through a full 35 episodes to be truly decent?
Age gap
Eleven Niang is the eleventh sister of Lady Xu Lingyixian, who is exactly 14 years younger than Xu Lingyi.
When Xu Lingyi first met Eleven Niang, he probably only regarded her as a little sister, how could he think that this woman would become his wife?
After the eleventh lady married into Xu Mansion, Xu Lingyi said that as long as the well water did not violate the river water, it would be good to live a peaceful and stable life.
At that time, even if Eleven Niang became his wife, he did not recognize her from the bottom of his heart as a close person around him. Coupled with the fact that Xu Lingyi knew that the eleventh lady entering the palace was a means for Yuan Niang, he was even more reluctant to see this new lady.
Eleven's difference
Xu Lingyi was very much in line with the criteria of three wives and four concubines, and had two sons.
Yuan Niang and him used to be considered husband and wife to be harmonious, but later because of the backyard fight, the husband and wife gradually separated.
Qiao Lianfang deeply loved Hou Ye, but Hou Ye knew that Qiao LianFang had a deep heart, was not a bright and honest person, and also loved to ignore her.
Aunt Wen is full of merchant atmosphere, greedy for profits, and has strong selfish desires. Xu Lingyi would somewhat find it difficult for her to ascend to the hall of elegance.
Although Aunt Qin looks kind on the surface, after all, she is from a maid's background, and her vision of knowledge does not reach the height of Hou Ye, and it is already good to respect each other as guests.
Only this Luo Eleven Niang is a different existence.
She will reason with Hou Ye, fight for her own rights and interests, and also make Hou Ye dumb.
She will stand up for the first time when the Xu family is in trouble, and even use her dowry to help the Xu family tide over the difficulties.
She will reconcile the relationship between Xu Lingyi and her son and brother, and even if those people have nothing to do with her, she is willing to give her heart.
She is not moved by interests, does not use the power of the Xu family for her own benefit, resists temptation, and can withstand loneliness.
She does not take the initiative to flatter, does not take the initiative to offer courtesy, but she is not humble, using her embroidery talent to help refugees learn survival skills.
These Xu Lingyi are all in the eyes, and the difference of eleven niangs makes Xu Lingyi have a different understanding of her.
Xu Lingyi, who learned to be jealous
The appearance of Lin Shixian made Xu Lingyi panic, he originally thought that he and Eleven Niang were in love, but he did not expect that Eleven Niang would protect Lin Shixian so much, and this Lin Shixian still went to his family.
When Eleven Niang accidentally injured Hou Ye by mistake, the scissors also stabbed into Hou Ye's heart at the same time.
He doubted, he was angry, he was cold, he was disappointed.
In the final analysis, it was because he cared too much about Eleven. The Marquis, who was invincible on the battlefield, was not indestructible.
Xu Lingyi's respect for Eleven Niang
Xu Lingyi has two sons at an old age, and it is reasonable to say that he is also an experienced person, but he is not in a hurry.
He loves Eleven Niang deeply, what he wants is your love and my wishes, it is the two loves that are pleasing to each other, it is the husband and wife between you and me, not for the sake of Xu Fu's heirs, not for the continuation of incense, not to complete his family mission as a marquis.
He really regarded Eleven Niang as the person in his heart, he respected her, respected her, and he hoped that everything would happen logically but warmly and beautifully.
So when Eleven Niang fell down pitifully and cried and told Xu Lingyi that she didn't want him to leave, Xu Lingyi completely softened, or his psychological defense line completely collapsed.
He couldn't resist Eleven's tenderness, and he didn't want to hide his fiery love for her anymore, so in episode 35, they finally got a decent time.
What Xu Lingyi really wanted was actually very simple, but it was nothing more than an ordinary human firework.