Children are the continuation of our lives and the source of family happiness. Many parents who have a second or third child hope that their children will be "good" together?! but giving birth to a child is like a blind box, who can guarantee that they will "smoke" what they want?
Take the 8 second-child teachers in our office, there are 2 who have both children as sons; 3 who have both children as daughters; and 3 who have a son and a daughter.
Looking at the two-child family around them, both children are daughters and both children are sons, which together account for about half of the second-child families. And families with children who have all come together to make up the word "good" also account for at most half.
Each of the four combinations has a 25% chance
How does Dad feel when giving birth to 2\3 "all in one" baby? The comments section about Dad's reaction, too true!
One or two children are daughters, what kind of reaction does the father have
Netizen a: "I am the father of 2 daughters, and everyone who says in his heart wants to have both children and daughters, and put together a "good" word, but since it is a gift from heaven to you, you must cherish it. ”
Netizen b: "My family's second treasure is also a girlfriend, I asked my husband to be disappointed or not, he said that the idea of having both children does not affect my love for my girlfriend." When the child was eight months old, he had intussusception and suffered a great sin, and when he rushed back from the field, we were already discharged from the hospital, and he lay on his girlfriend's face and cried uncontrollably, thinking that the child was suffering. Both children are babies! ”
Netizen c: "I am two girls, the eldest is eight years old, I especially want a boy in my heart, the result is a girl, I cried painfully, my husband took my hand and said he was very satisfied, this fetus is not like the boss at that time, the little did not feel that it was all brought by my mother, this second husband did not let go of his hand, a cry immediately hugged, every day holding a small face said cute."
The second and second children are sons, what kind of reaction does the father have
Netizen 1: "Who can understand the mood of my two sons [tears], my husband and I were looking forward to the first child, and as a result, a boy was born, not to mention the second child, after four months of knowing that it was a boy, my husband looked forward to the day of the day of the turn, the result was born or a boy, my husband was discouraged at the time." Nowadays, girls are rich and expensive, considerate of their parents, and know how to love their parents. Boys will be angry with their parents, and sometimes Dabao will disobey and can make me angry. Top one top two. ”
Netizen 2: "The neighbor's first child is a boy, if the first child is a girl, she does not plan to have a second child, the second child is successfully conceived, and the result is still a boy." The mother-in-law said that she must give birth to a girl, and also said that there were no girls in the boys who were born, and that they were afraid that their grandchildren would not be able to marry their daughters-in-law and become extinct. ”
Netizen 3: "I am responsible for myself, what is there to lose?" The happiness of the family established by the fate of this life lies in everyone's care, what do you care about? Yes, my two daughters, I feel very happy, tangled with gender? Find yourself uncomfortable. ”
Netizen 4: "We are two sons, the second child especially wants a daughter, when I heard about giving birth to a son, I vomited on the operating table, and my husband was also very lost, but now it is also very good, and the son and daughter are healthy."
It is good to have both children and daughters, but they are all daughters or sons of the family, and the attitude of the fathers is actually quite easy-going! Accepting the children's xingbi combination is the greatest happiness!
To borrow a netizen's words:
"My two sons, I think very happy, if I am two daughters, I also feel very happy, fortunately unhappy and the gender of the child what has to do with it, how a person lives, is determined by the partner, if two people are not happy, there are so many children who are divorced, and even self-sha, there are so many children on the Internet happiness ranking do not know what it means." 」
No matter what kind of combination the second child is born, managing the relationship between husband and wife, creating a good family atmosphere, and loving the child well is the most complete arrangement in life!
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