The perfect partner: Lin Qingkun and Sun Lei are suitable for changing wives? Understand these two points, you understand that the original match is more appropriate
The love family drama "Perfect Partner" starring Gao Yuanyuan, Zhang Luyi, Wang Yaoqing, Wang Zhen'er and others is being broadcast.
After watching more than a dozen episodes, the audience unanimously felt that Lin Qingkun and Sun Lei would be more perfect by changing their wives. After all, two are career-oriented, and the other two are family-oriented, so the collocation will be better.
But is this really good? If you can understand these two points, you will understand that the original match is more suitable for them.
However, to be clear, the original match here is more suitable to refer to Sun Lei and Lin Qingkun in the play, not the original match of everyone. Let's first look at these two points:
First, husband and wife must complement each other in order to go longer
Lin Qingkun and Chen Shan are similar, they are both career-oriented, in order to fight for a career, you can ignore the family, husband (wife) and children. Sun Lei and Wu Min are also the same kind of people, they sacrificed more in marriage, in order to take care of the family and children, give up their careers.
Two people who are similar can indeed make them appreciate each other in a short period of time, and even have different feelings. But if they really got them together, would it really be appropriate and perfect?
I don't think so, if two children have something at the same time, then who cares about the family will take care of the child. Don't say that the elderly can help take care of the children, or you can ask a babysitter, because such a home has no temperature and sooner or later it will have to disperse.
The reason why Lin Qingkun and Chen Shan have so much energy to work hard and can walk away at any time when there is a problem is mainly because of the sacrifice of Sun Lei and Wu Min. Because there are people in the house to take care of it, they can go for ten days and half a month, do not have to worry about other situations at home, and even can not even make a phone call.
If both people were like this, wouldn't the family be messed up? To have a career, there must be a family to take care of, and this family can be good.
Second, there is always a person in the family who has to sacrifice his career
Lin Qingkun said that because Sun Lei had no ability, Chen Shan would fight so hard and almost lost his old life. There are also many viewers who complain about Sun Lei, saying that he is not self-motivated, and he is caught by the boss in the muddy waters of the company and does not repent, and he is either late or leaves early for work.
Indeed, for the company, Sun Lei's kind of employee will not be liked by the boss. But he also loves his work, and he also wants to devote himself to his work, but his wife has left her children and family, can he ignore it?
Grandparents and grandparents can indeed take children, but after all, their energy is limited, and they cannot do everything. And the children brought by parents are still different from the children brought by grandparents and grandparents, and the children brought by parents will be more confident, don't ask me why people who have experienced it understand, which child does not want their parents to pick themselves up and drop themselves off from school.
It is impossible for Chen Shan to leave her job and go home to become a housewife and pick up and drop off the children, so she will go crazy, because she is a workaholic. Then jumping does not have to care, so Sun Lei can only put down his work, mainly family, wife, children, naturally can not take care of work.
It can't be said that Sun Lei is not motivated, he can't be motivated, because once a person is motivated, he can't take care of anything else. He just regards his little family as more important, more important than his career.
Some people say that women can sacrifice their careers for the sake of their families, husbands and children, why can't men. Sun Lei just did what most men should do, how to get to him would become so sacred.
In fact, it is not to say how great Sun Lei is, but compared to many men, he is already very good, not all men will give up their careers to complete their wives.
In this way, whether the original is better and more suitable, if Sun Lei and Lin Qingkun really change wives, it is called real chaos.