In the past, when women were pregnant, their families would buy some beautiful baby stickers and paste them on their beds, thinking that if they looked at these beautiful children, they could give birth to a beautiful baby in the future.
Although this sounds a bit ridiculous, it can also be seen that everyone wants their baby to have a high value.
However, not all parents think so, and sometimes children look too good, but they will become a burden in their hearts.
"I grew up like this, my son can't be so handsome." This is an inner monologue of Mr. Lee.
Indeed, as he himself said, Mr. Li's appearance is ordinary and even a little ugly, but he is kind and down-to-earth, and he still won the heart of a girl that year, and the two soon entered into marriage.
After marriage, his wife gave birth to a big fat boy, which made Mr. Li very happy.
However, as his son grew up day by day, Mr. Li suddenly fell into a tangle, on the one hand, he was happy for his handsome son, but on the other hand, he felt that his son did not look like himself at all, and his heart could not help but start to think wildly.
This made Mr. Li sullen every day, worried that he would get depression if he continued to be so jealous, so he secretly did a paternity test behind his wife's back, and the results showed that he and his son were biological father-son relationship.
But this did not dispel the mystery in his heart, and then he did three paternity tests in different places, each time with the same results as the first time, and finally Mr. Li believed that his son was his own.
But why doesn't my son look like himself? Mr. Li still couldn't understand.
In fact, situations like his sometimes appear around us, and not necessarily beautiful parents can give birth to good-looking children, in the same way, ordinary parents may not be able to give birth to high-value children.
What factors will affect your child's appearance?
1. Parental inheritance
Under normal circumstances, children's appearance will be somewhat similar to their parents, so we often hear people say that so-and-so children and their father or mother look like copy and paste.
But this is also not absolute, because heredity is divided into dominant and recessive inheritance.
If a child inherits the recessive genes of his parents, he will naturally look different from his parents, perhaps more like his grandparents or grandparents.
2. Acquired habits
Some children are born beautifully, but in the process of growing up, they will be a little disabled, which actually has a lot to do with their living habits.
For example, some children do not pay attention to sleep, or do not like exercise, which will lead to poor skin, fat body, and naturally affect the image.
In addition, some children like to chew food while chewing, some children like to breathe with their mouths open, or have some bad habits such as squeezing eyebrows and making eyes, bending over and hunching.
These will lead to a certain degree of reduction in the child's image, and naturally it will become more and more ugly.
What should parents do if the child looks average?
1. Cultivate children's correct aesthetics
Parents need to let their children know that appearance is not an important factor in determining whether people are good or not.
Although good looks will have certain advantages in some aspects, compared with the skin bag, the heart is always the most important.
If a person can have beauty from the heart, then even if he looks ordinary, he will still have an outstanding temperament and become a charm in everyone's mind.
Therefore, let the child have the correct aesthetic, so that the child will not be entangled in the outside, and will really pay attention to his heart.
2, let the child become a talented person
With poetry and bookishness in the belly, parents should let their children know the power of knowledge.
Although we do not advocate fraction theory, children must know the importance of learning.
Because when the child has enough knowledge, he must be able to become a person who shines everywhere he goes.
Therefore, cultivating children's reading habits and letting children have the ability to actively learn will surely benefit children for life.
Talented people will not be eliminated at any time, even if their appearance has declined, talent will always accompany people forever.