Ex-boyfriend is such a creature, keep your distance after the breakup

The day before yesterday, on the plane, someone asked me, "Who are you talking to (ex-boyfriends) and you're not in touch with, aren't you?" I said, "At least I won't ask him out again." ”

It was because the four of us (me, someone, ex-boyfriend, ex-boyfriend object) went out together on National Day, and I had two fights with my ex-boyfriend, including one on the way to the airport on the last day, so the whole trip didn't seem so perfect.

Once upon a time I felt that my ex-boyfriend was the person I cared about the most, even when I was just with someone, I still felt that I cared more about my ex-boyfriend.

I remember once my ex had dinner with his ex (at this time they hadn't established a relationship), drank a lot of alcohol, and then he actually called me, and when I arrived he was drunk on the side of the road, his ex was right next to him and watched or I called 120 to take him to the hospital and then the whole night, I and his ex were guarding him in the hospital, and I held his hand all night... It was also the only time in my life that I had an ambulance experience.

However, the two people have been separated for a long time, and indeed many things have changed. I used to think he was all right, but now it seems that it may all be wrong; before he could bear to lose his temper no matter how much he lost his temper, but now he doesn't want to put up with it at all.

Of course, this is how he feels about me, and in his words, I am used to someone. Then I can only say that he already knows me too well, and sometimes I am really angry or pretend to be angry, someone knows very well, and he really does not know.

I think that two people are separated, there is no need to become "enemies", otherwise it is not to deny the choices I have made before?

So after separating from the National Day, there was no communication with the ex-boyfriend, and there were still several communications with his boyfriend in the group. Then just saw the ex-boyfriend send a circle of friends, was rewarded by the company, I thought about it, or give him a thumbs up!

People are learning to grow up, and certain people or things may have been important before, but they may not be so important now. Therefore, the creature of the ex-boyfriend still can't get too close after the breakup, because his shortcomings will be infinitely magnified, and these shortcomings were not easy for me to find before, or I did not feel that this was a shortcoming.

That's it for today, I'm Mr. G, Rainbow Man!

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