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"Happiness Duo" unveils the truth of marriage: choosing the other half is choosing life

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There is a passage in "The Girl Who Killed Quail" that was widely circulated.

When you are old, looking back on your life, you will find that when to go abroad to study, when to decide to do your first career, when to choose a partner and fall in love, when to get married, in fact, are all great changes in fate.

For everyone, the change of fate of marriage is almost like a second reincarnation.

"Happiness Duo" picks an extremely difficult question, how do young couples find a self-consistent way to get along after the second reincarnation.

In the first episode, Liao Sha and Equation finished arguing and went to talk to Sister Shi to complain.

Sister Shi said that Liao Sha originally refused to be a man on her own, and the Buddhist male equation was picked by her own hands.

A man who is alone needs a good-looking and obedient woman, which is highly in line with the marriage model of Dong Boyu and Gu Xiaonan.

"Happiness Duo" unveils the truth of marriage: choosing the other half is choosing life

As a housewife, Gu Xiaonan enjoys it, but Liao Sha tastes the same as chewing wax.

Being your own queen, or being someone else's little princess, is a matter worth discussing.

One, Liaosha's marriage

Liaosha's husband is a good spouse.

There is no perfect man in the world, and a good spouse is rare.

A man can never take into account the three qualities of multi-gold handsomeness at the same time, which is the impossible triangle theory of men.

Men who are more golden and handsome will face more sexual temptations than ordinary people, and it is difficult for them to control the lower body. The various human collapse stars have proved this.

"Happiness Duo" unveils the truth of marriage: choosing the other half is choosing life

Like the equation can meet the handsome and exclusive these two points, the original family can use the full amount to buy a marriage house, such a man is already a special thing in the world.

Liao Sha was not very satisfied with Fang Cheng, because he had a Buddhist personality and was not interested in promotion and salary increases.

The unambiguous equation angered Liaosha.

She too much hopes to get a promotion and salary increase to make big money, say goodbye to the old and the small, and live in a big house.

"Happiness Duo" unveils the truth of marriage: choosing the other half is choosing life

At the beginning of the first episode, when Liaosha brushes her teeth, she wakes up the equation to clear the sewers.

This plot hides two messages, one is that Liaosha has strong business ability, and the other is that Liaosha is smart and is mistaken by cleverness.

She said she had strong business skills because Liaosha had first-class sales skills. Liaosha and Equation's marriage house is a second-hand house, and the sales that recommend Fang's family purchase is Liaosha.

She was mistaken for being smart because Liaosha talked about a problematic second-hand house, but she became the owner of the house.

"Happiness Duo" unveils the truth of marriage: choosing the other half is choosing life

Cleverness is mistaken by cleverness, which is Liaosha's biggest "curse".

In order to become a marketing director, taking over the Huiguang International project proves this.

The real estate of Huiguang International has always been the company's oldest problem. It is a commercial housing, only 40 years of property rights, the owner can not settle down, many sales elites have not been able to get the project.

Liao Sha, however, relied on three inches of uncorrupted tongue to revitalize the property.

Performing well and with great ability, Liaosha won the sales championship but did not become the new marketing director.

"Happiness Duo" unveils the truth of marriage: choosing the other half is choosing life

The problem is that she wants to use Huiguang International to make a splash.

Liao Sha authorities are fascinated and do not understand that she sells Hui Guang International is in the army of general Fang Zong.

The house is always a businessman, and the businessman will pursue the greatest interests, and not let Liao Sha be the marketing director, which is most beneficial to the company.

Fang Zong saw Liao Sha's wishful thinking and let Liao Sha be the marketing director, she would not be grateful to Dade. If she is not promoted, she does not have the ability to resist the water, and she can still be a cow and a horse for the company.

Moreover, Fang Zong used the position of marketing director to recruit Zhao Kai, an executive at home, which was more beneficial to the company.

This is the cruelty of the workplace, regardless of right or wrong, only about the pros and cons.

At present, LiaoSha is a person who can play with IQ and low emotional intelligence. There is still a lot of room for improvement in her control of people's hearts.

She complained that the equation was not self-motivated. Sister Shi told her that as long as it was not domestic violence and cheating, the others were not called a problem.

"Happiness Duo" unveils the truth of marriage: choosing the other half is choosing life

LiaoSha is still too young to understand that managing the husband and wife relationship with the management of employees cannot be exchanged for a happy marriage.

Why?

Because the company pays attention to wolf nature, it requires a high degree of concentration of power and is profit-oriented. While the foundation of the family is happiness-oriented, the company's way of setting KPIs to motivate employees does not apply to the family.

Liaosha has strong business ability and wolf thinking, she is an excellent employee, it is easy to bring the behavioral logic of work to the family, she is like an employee, accustomed to demanding equations with high standards.

In fact, it is easy to hurt couple feelings by doing so.

"Happiness Duo" unveils the truth of marriage: choosing the other half is choosing life

Second, Gu Xiaonan's marriage crisis

Gu Xiaonan married Dong Boyu because he was very rich.

The Equation family has one car, but the Dong family has two. Gu Xiaonan has a Volkswagen scooter, and Dong Boyu is a Volvo XC90, priced at 500,000 yuan.

Can afford to raise a housewife, it can be seen that Dong Boyu's income is quite good.

Dong Boyu is responsible for making money to support the family, and Gu Xiaonan is responsible for being beautiful as a flower, which is still a marriage model sought after by many people.

Dong Boyu and Gu Xiaonan have relatively few scenes, and good directors understand that they must improve their narrative efficiency.

The audiovisual language of "Happiness Duo" is exquisite, with the shortest time, the most information.

When Gu Xiaonan appeared, the director used a rotating lens to show Gu Xiaonan, who was doing yoga, which also hinted at her family status, and she was the same as the potted plants on the ground and the flowers in the bottle, which were the decorations of the family.

"Happiness Duo" unveils the truth of marriage: choosing the other half is choosing life

Dong Boyu is not willing to wait for Gu Xiaonan to finish exercising, so he lets Gu Xiaonan drive together, which also shows that Gu Xiaonan does yoga to please himself, not to please himself.

When Gu Xiaonan appeared for the second time, she and Dong Boyu had just finished the things between husband and wife.

Prior to that, "Happiness Duo" cut into the lens of the rose. At this time, the rose is a symbol of conception (but not conceived).

"Happiness Duo" unveils the truth of marriage: choosing the other half is choosing life

Expressing sex with flowers is a common implicit expression in film and television dramas. A flower is sometimes better than a minute of small yellow flakes.

In "Waiting Alone", Liu Rong and Chen Wen that night, some netizens thought that the two of them did not go to bed.

If we have some knowledge of audiovisual language, we will understand that the two of them have a relationship.

Just as the two were kissing, the camera moved up and the flowers on the wallpaper moved.

"Happiness Duo" unveils the truth of marriage: choosing the other half is choosing life

In the "Tale of the West Chamber", Wang Shifu only has nine words to describe Zhang Sheng Cui Yingying driving, "the flowers are gently dismantled, and the dew drops peony opens."

Then again, Gu Xiaonan, who can't have a child, is a difficult problem that tests their husband and wife's feelings.

Gu Xiaonan has been showing off her handsome husband in the sister group, however, this husband may not be able to be single-minded with her.

Many plots in the play frantically hint at Gu Xiaonan's marital crisis.

For example, Dong Boyu often replied to Gu Xiaonan with only a few words.

"Happiness Duo" unveils the truth of marriage: choosing the other half is choosing life

For example, Dong Boyu bought cosmetics for female customer Fu Xiaofen, and Gu Xiaonan thought it was a gift for herself.

There is nothing wrong with giving gifts to customers, but it is better to be attentive to the wife than to the customer, which is a problem.

Dong Boyu will carefully do her homework in order to buy gifts for Fu Xiaofen, and she will buy famous brand bags for Gu Xiaonan, but she will buy heavy.

Without economic backing, Gu Xiaonan is doomed to have no right to speak, and her ability to resist marriage risks is also very low.

Boldly predict that the marriage of Dong Boyu and Gu Xiaonan will definitely be in chaos.

"Happiness Duo" unveils the truth of marriage: choosing the other half is choosing life

Third, the conclusion

Have you noticed that the names of the characters in The Happiness Duo are interesting?

Liao Sha and Equation, Gu Xiaonan and Dong Boyu, the former is a single name, the latter is a double name, the names are different, implying that they have different marriage models.

Liao Sha and Gu Xiaonan, the names have a strong ironic meaning.

Liaosha's name has a sha (pronounced suo), which is an herbaceous plant, also called ground hair, which is born from the roots. Liao is not attached to her husband, she is a new woman with financial and spiritual independence.

Gu Xiaonan's name is an evergreen tree called Nan, with a fine grain and a hard texture.

Gu Xiaonan, on the other hand, lives like a vine plant, to paraphrase Shu Ting's poem to describe her, "like a climbing Ling Xiaohua, borrowing Dong Boyu's tall branches to show off herself."

"Happiness Duo" unveils the truth of marriage: choosing the other half is choosing life

Liao Sha and Dong Boyu quarreled, saying" I dismantled your courier, and I lost you a set."

And Dong Boyu scolded her, "What you take to lose, it is not to spend my money." ”

The economic level is heavily dependent on Dong Boyu, which also shows that Gu Xiaonan's native family is very ordinary, but as long as she has a rich native family, Dong Boyu will not be so intimidating gu Xiaonan.

A girl with an average family background, married to a rich person with beauty, to achieve a class leap, Gu Xiaonan's marriage is the mainstream, it is in line with the traditional concept of marriage of male talents and women.

"Happiness Duo" unveils the truth of marriage: choosing the other half is choosing life

Also a foreign girl from an ordinary background, Liao Sha disdains to be a rich little princess, but as a queen in the marriage siege.

Liao Sha can become the daughter-in-law of the equation, and the matchmaker is Fang's mother, who wants to find a patron for her honest son.

In the original book of "Happiness Duo", Fang Ma's little abacus is described in this way.

The old lady met Liao Sha in the process of buying a marriage house for her son, and was deeply impressed by the girl's capable character, positive attitude, and the three-inch tongue of the dead man. If my son, who is honest and honest, can find such a daughter-in-law, he can also close his eyes in this life. ”
"Happiness Duo" unveils the truth of marriage: choosing the other half is choosing life

"Happiness Duo" does not make Liao Sha a perfect character, nor does it sing praises for Gu Xiaonan's marriage model.

It has a very healthy view of marriage, whether it is a marriage like Liao Sha and Equation, which is strong and male, or a marriage like Gu Xiaonan, Dong Boyu, a weak woman, and a strong man, they are not a happy duet.

The establishment of an equal and mutually supportive relationship between husband and wife can lead to Qinser and Ming.

Loving couples are a community of destiny, should not compete for strength and weakness, and the status of husband and wife should not be divided into genders. As the equation says, "Whoever holds up this home is the pillar of this family."

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