The beginning of love between men and women often originates from attraction, because everyone will have their own shining points and distinctive charms, no matter how much you resist or even hate him, at a certain stage or state there will be highlight moments that make you look at each other, thus generating good feelings.
But love is also copyrighted and first-come, there is no right or wrong in the generation of love, but how to choose to respond after the generation of love reflects a person's character, and a sense of moral self-discipline, just like the 2 women in the "Happiness Duo" play, they are also in love with their husbands, but the ending is different.
That is to say, in the process of getting along between the sexes, many sudden temptations and tests are not expected, and sometimes they are out of their control. But everyone will pay for their choices, and the two women in the play who fell in love with the "husband with a wife" also intuitively showed the fate of their different choices for everyone.
Yu Xiaona
In fact, Yu Xiaona this person is a very pleasing role at the beginning, with looks, figures, positions, key lecture qi, belongs to the temperament of inserting knives into the two ribs of friends, LiaoSha was calculated by her superiors, in order to give her girlfriend a breath, deliberately spilled a cup of coffee on the man, but also because this cup of coffee became the beginning of her evil relationship.
The two have more contact, RiJiu has a good feeling for Xiaona, and knows that the other party has a wife and children to continue to choose extramarital affairs, girlfriends come to the door to advise, but she still has a word to give up friendship rather than let go of her love.
I have to say that Yu Xiaona planted in the hands of Zhao Kai is not unusual at all, look at how Liao Sha is overhead, you can see that this man has a routine and acting skills, the city government is very deep, for a leftover woman like Xiaona who has good conditions in all aspects, it is really difficult not to be conquered by the role he plays.
In particular, a married man knows too well what women really like, so the beginning of many girls' feelings is not within their control, so they are unconsciously trapped. But whether it is a man's trick or not, this love of a woman is wrong.
As Liao Sha said, if he really loves, really can't get married, he should cleanly solve his marriage and then provoke Xiaona, the so-called love of the two people is just an unsightly extramarital affair, and Yu Xiaona, the goddess of many suitors, has naturally become Xiao San.
Bear the infamy for love, give up the position for love, choose to start from scratch again in a strange city, and finally the man's indifference to her has already been doomed, after all, a person who can not be affectionate with his wife can be good to her. A man is rational, has experienced marriage, and at this age, he may only think of himself.
It seems that between his son and Yu Xiaona, he chose his son, in fact, for this man, he just will not compromise and give in for anyone and anything.
Yu Xiaona finally paid for her "stupidity", the bamboo basket hit the water empty, and lost the future and reputation and character.
Xia Zihan
Xia Zihan is an intern, but also the master sister of the equation, following the leader's brother, gradually full of admiration and admiration for this straight man of science and engineering, in the relationship, she does have the innocence of a little girl, but also a little lost, but in the face of great right and wrong, far more transparent than the old man in the workplace Yu Xiaona.
Everyone has a young and crazy time, in Xia Zihan's age stage, in fact, the boundary between love, like, and appreciation is very blurred, she worships the equation like a sister and a small fan, has a good feeling, so unconsciously close, the eyes are always focused on this man, more will bring food, always ready for cold medicine.
This is a clear signal of "love", but in the case of the master's brother equation clear position, transferring her to a post, she did not continue to pester, but chose to leave the school to completely end the relationship.
Xia Zihan understands that no matter how good the equation he admires, he is also a person with a wife, and in a way, it is because of his sense of responsibility for the family that he likes, so even if it is good, what a man has in his heart will not be himself. When Liao Sha misunderstood that her husband cheated and took the photo to the door, she did not calculate it, nor did she make up something out of nothing, but gave Liao Sha's answer bluntly, and also really ended the relationship she had a crush on.
She was a happy marriage and was respected by both the couple and everyone.
There is nothing wrong with falling in love with a married person, but hurting another family with your love must be a big mistake.
Women should retain rationality in the face of self-righteous love, especially falling in love with a man with a family, you must understand
(1) What you think is love, but for men it is nothing more than desire.
(2) The man's "understanding" of women in front of you is a skill that another woman sacrifices herself for, and this skill may not be able to be enjoyed by you for a long time.
(3) Even if a man can abandon his wife, he cannot abandon his son, and the child is a pain that can never be separated, and it will eventually become an obstacle between each other.
The same love for 2 women, the same love for the husband of the wife, but the ending is different, one thinks that he has received love, but it is the beginning of the end of life. The other seems to have lost love, but it is a new beginning in life. At the same time, these two roles also sound the alarm for every woman.
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Text/Emotional Transit Station
(Author: Xiao Yu, psychological counselor, focusing on the emotional field), good at the restoration of romantic relationships, marital contradictions and differences, and the healing of psychological trauma caused by the original ecological family. The lonely journey of life, listening to your grievances and pressures, helping visitors improve their skills in getting along with the sexes, saving their lovers, managing their feelings, and striving to become happier people.