Every woman hopes to get the complete love of a man, but whether she can meet it depends on fate.
Some people, obviously with themselves, always feel that they do not love themselves enough, resulting in their own wild thoughts, which is very painful.
If a woman wants a man to prove his love for himself, men are usually unwilling, and whether the man really loves you or not, they don't like the feeling of being suspected.
In fact, two people can be together, it proves that there is a certain emotional basis, most people later separated, because they do not know how to manage feelings.
Therefore, if a woman wants a man to love you more, she needs a little wisdom. Whether it is stalking or desperately trying to please, it is obviously ineffective.
Zhou Guoping wrote in the book "I Like Life As It Is": "Love is a concern that comes with giving, and we often love the object of our most effort. ”
A person, for whom to spend the most effort, for whom to pay the most, then he will love that person more.
If a woman can make a man pay for you, and in the process of giving, constantly recognize him and help him pay for you, then this man will love you more.
In life, some women always look high, feel that they can do everything, they almost don't let men take care of their own affairs, and rarely spend men's money, and think that by doing so, men will love themselves more, but in fact, it is not.
A woman, want to live on their own ability, there is no problem at all, but if you are with a person, you must know how to gradually integrate the other party into your life, although you can earn your own money, things can be done by yourself, but if you do not give the other party the opportunity to perform, do not let the other party feel that you are useful in your life, then the other party will feel that you do not need him at all, will be farther and farther away from you.
So, for a man to find the value of existence in your world, he will be willing to do a lot for you, and the more he does, the deeper the love for you will be.
Of course, some women are completely different, they are afraid that men will leave themselves, so they keep currying favor, thinking that if they are good enough for each other, the deeper the other party's feelings for themselves, but it turns out that the effort is completely unrequited.
This type of woman is actually not clear about a concept: if a man does not have to give anything, he easily gets the love of a woman, they will only cherish this love more, and they will not take this woman in their eyes.
Therefore, I want to make men love you more, don't just care about being good to him and pleasing him, even if you are wronged, don't say it, but let him start to pay you.
When a man begins to give to another woman, he will consider the woman's feelings, will pay attention to her needs, will care about her joys and sorrows, will help her solve the problem, after doing so, this woman has a place in the man's heart, the more the man does, the stronger the woman's position in the man's heart.
So, it is not that the woman is desperately good to a man, the man will love you more, but in turn let him be good to you, pay for you, he will love you more.
Zhang Youyi did a lot of things for Xu Zhimo, taking care of his parents and family for him, and after giving birth to a child, he was also taking care of himself, but Xu Zhimo did not pay any attention to her, and he still looked disgusted with her.
After Xu Zhimo met Lin Huiyin, he couldn't wait to divorce Zhang Youyi and be with Lin Huiyin, when he finally divorced, Lin Huiyin married someone else, but Lin Huiyin did not disappear from Xu Zhimo's heart, and in his limited life, he had never let go of Lin Huiyin.
It can be seen that the most loved by a man is never a woman who will only pay for himself, if you have never let a man pay for you, even if you pay more, he does not feel how precious.
Of course, if you want to make the love between two people deeper and deeper, it is certainly not enough to rely on one side of the payment, if the man has been paying for you, but you think it is right, do not think so, then sooner or later he will stop doing this, and the love for you will gradually fade.
Women should learn to see his efforts when men pay for you, let him know that you are very grateful to him in your heart, and at the same time, it is best not to pick and choose his efforts, always think that he is not doing it right, give him confidence, help him pay more for you.
Men and women get along, although at the beginning rely on that heart, that joy, but whether two people can manage a relationship for a long time, whether they can make both people love each other more, need a method.
Whether a woman is condescending or humble and flattering, she will not make a man love you more. Maybe you think you don't need a man to do anything for you, it seems that you are very powerful, but doing so will only make men stay away from you. Maybe you think that humble flattery will be exchanged for men's heartache, but only get treated with indifference.
So, if you want a man to love you more, you really don't have to please, let him start to pay for you, the more he pays, the more he will love you.
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