What is the easiest relationship in the world to lose?
I think it should be a careful way to get along.
Because the more careful you are, the more stressful it tends to be, because when you do anything, you will want to do it and how she feels.
So that this relationship slowly becomes depressed, because they are carefully maintaining the relationship, and how to have time to learn to get along.
After all, reality is not like in the TV series, carefully maintaining the relationship, and desperately trying to keep you when the other party loses you.
Most of the situations like this can only appear in the TV series, and the chances of it happening in reality are very small.
Although the people who are careful with you are people who love you very much, this kind of love often does not last long, because this mode of getting along is inherently problematic.
Because of such love for a long time, if it is cherished, it may be able to be happy. But if this person does not cherish. Then he will only be fearless because of your caution.
As we often say, "The easier it is to get, the less it is to be cherished." ”
Because it's too easy for you to get what he wants, but he doesn't think it's because of love, just because you get it easier.
However, good feelings are mutual, one side is just taking, the other side is just giving love, it is impossible to last forever.
Love itself is not equal, because the person who is loved will always get more. It's like being in a lot of relationships. We'll always see.
Those who give more affection will always give more, whether spiritual or material. He would always feel careful with each other without feeling self-conscious.
I'm afraid that what I'm doing will make the other person unhappy. Maybe you have a heartless word, he may guess for half a day. Then, in front of you, he will appear to be a promise.
Maybe at the beginning, he does some things, you will be very happy, but over time, for this relationship you feel that he should do anything.
But this is not the mode of getting along that a good relationship should have.
It's like a TV series I've watched before, in which there is a male protagonist who belongs to this, and he is obedient and careful about the female protagonist.
For the heroine, he constantly changes himself and takes care of her mood, but the heroine does not know how to cherish his efforts.
Until one day, the male protagonist found another male in her home, and the female protagonist was content to say: "We did not have a relationship." ”
The male protagonist also believed in him because he loved her. Although they did not happen, the next words of the heroine completely disappointed the male protagonist.
The man asked her: "If we get married in the future, will you still be like this?" ”
The heroine said: "We can't get married." ”
This also became the last straw that crushed him, because he had always paid for him, but she took his efforts for granted and must not cherish them.
In the end, the male protagonist sadly chose to leave him, and at this time she thought of the male protagonist's goodness, so she desperately went to chase back the male protagonist.
Although the TV is a happy ending, if this happens in reality, it should be difficult to have a chance to start over.
Because even if they start over, if their mode of getting along doesn't change. Or the kind of person who carefully loves each other. The other man just enjoyed his efforts. The end result is still the same.
After all, good feelings are experienced with each other's hearts, so if you are lucky enough to meet someone who loves you very much, you must cherish it.
You know, meeting someone who loves you so much is not an easy task. So, cherish it when you encounter it!
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