Each of us has our own name, although the name is only a code name, but when there is a baby born in the family, parents will still rack their brains to give the baby a good name, hoping that a good name can bring good luck to the child.
The marriage license of a young couple went viral online because of their names.
At that time, even the staff who applied for their marriage license could not believe it, saying that it was the first time they had seen such a fateful name, and it was really a natural pair of two people.
The names of the bride and groom on the marriage certificate are li qiuyi.
According to the girl, the first time she saw the other party with this name, she once felt that the other party was a liar.
Because the name Li Qiuyi is originally very feminine, a big boy calling such a name is really a bit difficult to accept.
Later, the man explained that when he was born, his parents wanted him to be as quiet and well-behaved as a girl, so he gave him such a name.
Because of the same name, the two young hearts gradually came together, and finally created a good story.
What should parents pay attention to when naming their children?
1, do not be too complicated
Nowadays, many young parents will deliberately make the names very complicated in order to make the names of their children different.
For example, use a four-word name, or use some words with a lot of strokes in the name, because then the whole name will look different.
But in fact, complex names can easily make children feel inferior, especially when they first learn to write.
Imagine how a person feels if he can't even write his own name? The child will not be happy at this time.
2, do not be gender ambiguous
On this point, in fact, many parents will pay attention to the name of their children, but now we have also found that more and more children's names are biased towards neutrality.
From the surface of their names, it is difficult to see whether it is a boy or a girl, and you must meet me to know.
At this time, it is easy to have a problem, before meeting them, their gender will be preconceived because of the name, which is naturally easy to cause misunderstanding.
For example, Li Qiuyi, if the girl insisted on not believing that the other party was a boy, perhaps a fate would be missed.
3, do not exaggerate
Some parents name their children very large, thinking that this will make their children have a life that stands out.
But in fact, the child's name has nothing to do with their life, just like the child's name has a dragon and a phoenix, can they really become a dragon and a phoenix?
When the child's name is too big, it is easy to be ridiculed by the classmates around him, and over time the child will have a sense of inferiority and depression.
Thinking that they are too different from their names, no matter what they do, they can't satisfy their parents and become the people their parents expect.
What are some of the ways parents can name their children?
1. Use classical culture
China's ancient culture is broad and profound, in many ancient poems, there will be some words that describe beautiful moods, and these words can be directly used as children's names.
However, it should be noted that it must be perfectly matched with the child's last name, so that the name can be called a good name.
2. Refer to the opinions of the elderly
Although many of the ideas of the elderly have been eliminated in today's ever-changing society, we must admit that there is a treasure in the family.
Because they experience more, they will look at the problem more comprehensively and deeply.
If the young couple can refer to their opinions, I believe that they will be able to give their children a good name.
3. According to the birth scene
Some children are born in winter, some children are born on rainy days, and in situations like this, parents can add words like winter, snow, or rain to their children's names.
This will not only have commemorative significance, but also make the child's name more meaningful and better.
In short, parents can not be careless in naming their children, but there is no need to be too entangled, with a normal mentality, perhaps the child's name will appear inadvertently.