What is a partner? It is a person who has been infused with each other for many years and has long been infused into life.
Daily life knows each other, two or three days do not see good, a week of not seeing will feel that something is missing, more than 20 days of not seeing will be crazy miss ... Imagine if we didn't see our parents for a month and didn't feel that way. This is the sublimation of feelings! The love at the bottom of the heart is the foundation, the family affection is sublimation, and the final relationship between the partners is love + affection, and no one can replace it!
But in life, we are always busy, ignoring each other's feelings, ignoring love... I know a pair of lovers who started from scratch and shared the storm. After many years, living conditions finally improved, but men changed. He began to be impetuous, blindly accusing and amplifying his wife's shortcomings, and never reflecting on himself that he thought he had no shortcomings, and even did things that were sorry for his wife. After surviving the hard days, he should have been grateful for each other's inseparability and happiness, but the husband turned around and stabbed his partner.
What is a wife? It is the stupid woman who has nothing, has no achievements and no money, is the person who gave you a home to make you a father, is the person who has worked hard for you, accompanied you to share happiness and hardship, is the person who is not related to you by blood but loves you the most and misses you! He is also the person you have hurt the most in your life! What does she want from you? Figure your money? Figure your status? Figure your family background? You ask yourself, did you have it when she chose you? After all, the picture is that you can shield her from the wind and rain for a lifetime, but what about you? But it made her blush from blushing to the end.
What crushed her was not her blessed figure, weak physique, sallow skin, and endless family chores, endless tears of grievances, but her work as a cow and a horse for this family, but you feel that all this is deserved. What she wanted was never a material thing, she only wanted a sincerity, a sense of security and an attitude of being cared for, but found it so difficult. Don't bully your wife step by step, understand that mutual respect, mutual trust, and mutual appreciation are the secrets.
There are shortcomings in normal communication, more corrections, rather than step by step pressing and suppressing! Give each other a little love, and run this hard-won life well, after all, the longest time to accompany you is your partner! Messing up life is ultimately regretting yourself, don't wait until it is difficult to harvest the water to know that it is too late to regret! What are we really looking for in life? Are our beliefs the same things at work? Is life meant to be desperate? No, desperately trying to live a better life, a little achievement, and then give yourself, your parents, your family a better life and companionship.
If you really know how to live, please be kind to your family, after all, they are the people who are really good to you. How long have you not hugged your family, your loved ones? When young, shallow, ignorant and fearless, adults should learn to give themselves a pure land of soul, so as to see the true meaning of life!