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Wang Lihong divorced, I saw the most cruel and realistic side of marriage

author:Pen and ink sorrow

I really didn't expect that 2021 was about to end, and Wang Lihong rushed to contribute such a big melon with the last train. I really want to complain: I know that your circle is chaotic, I didn't expect it to be so chaotic!

Wang Lihong Li Lianglei's divorce, exposed reality!

Since Taiwan Entertainment exposed on December 15 that Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei completed the divorce procedures, it has only been 5 days, and the mask of a "high-quality idol" who has painstakingly operated for nearly 30 years has been completely exposed.

It is said that "the ugliness of the family cannot be publicized" and "a day of husband and wife for a hundred days", if it were not for wang Lihong's slag shattered, Li Lianglei would have been heartbroken and cold, and Presumably Li Lianglei would not have held such a determination to "break the fish dead net" to expose it. After all, she used to be so protective of Wang's image, even Xiao S said that from Li Lianglei, she couldn't ask Wang Lihong bad words at all.

When things had to develop into an uncontrollable situation, Wang Mouhong was forced to come out and apologize and declare that he would temporarily withdraw from the circle. Although he did not directly admit to the chaos of his private life, everyone knew it. Li Lianglei was still in love, forgave him, and decided not to sue him.

In this divorce incident, I am really not worth it for Li Lianglei! At the same time, applaud her bravery! Li Lianglei is not only speaking out for her own rebirth, but also speaking out for women who are vulnerable in the majority of marriages.

This divorce incident is different from other celebrity divorce events – I see the cruelest and most realistic side of marriage: the daughter-in-law is an outsider!

Li Qianlei - the signs of being treated as an outsider's daughter-in-law

On the 15th, the Taiwan media exposed the news of the divorce of the two people, and on the 17th, Li Lianglei complained on page 9 that the marriage was unwilling to start, and Wang Lihong's father and some of his 'related households' could not wait to stand up for him. It's bustling and crowded. And Li Lianglei has always responded to these questions alone, and some are only supported by the official media.

Until today, Li Lianglei's brother really couldn't look at it anymore, so he openly stood up to seek justice for his sister.

When combing through this incident, it is obvious that the Wang family has never given birth to a boy, no matter whether Li Lianglei gave birth to a boy or not, he has never regarded her as his own family.

1. Father Wang's statement:

At first, most of the family thought that this threat was unacceptable, and the long pain was not as good as the short pain, and I was the only one in favor of marriage.

This is the only slightly warm place in the full statement. But on this point of warmth, we can also see the arrogance and prejudice of the Wang family in treating their daughters-in-law.

Li Lianglei gave birth to 3 children in 5 years after marriage, not in preparation for pregnancy, pregnancy, or with a baby. Although the celebrity family has the conditions to ask a nanny to help with the children, the positions of husband and father cannot be replaced by anyone.

Here, Li Lianglei worked hard to give birth to and raise babies, sacrificing her future and paying for her family. Wang Mouhong is good, busy every day to get prostitutes everywhere, play ambiguous. The Wang family got cheap and sold well, and also spilled Li Lianglei dirty, saying that most people in the family could not accept her. Co-author Li Lianglei, a senior student of the big brother, should be upside down on the Wang family?

2. The statement is contemptuous of Li Lianglei throughout the statement, as stated in the statement: The Wang family is sincere and kind to others. Did he really treat his daughter-in-law like this?

In the entire statement, it was said that Li Lianglei had borrowed her son to ascend to the throne, threatened to ask for money, and had a cunning heart to destroy the king's cause... These are the ways to treat your own people? Even being kind to outsiders is not as good as being.

Thinking that these words were still coming out of the mouth of an elder had to chill people's hearts. The protector's heart is heartfelt, and the idea of excluding dissidents is too obvious. As soon as this statement came out, it was not without surprise that more netizens were chased.

3. Wang Lihong's parents did not regard Li Lianglei as a family, and Wang Lihong himself did not regard this woman who paid wholeheartedly for the family as a 'wife'.

After the incident, Wang Mouhong sent a text message to Li Lianglei, asking her to admit that if she was wrong, she could transfer the house she now "borrowed" as a price.

The 10-year marriage love nest has become a borrowed one, and because the person who does not want to be wronged is treated as a "little three" to be divorced. Nakedly using Li Lianglei as a fertility machine, and becoming a foil for maintaining his tall idol image, he discarded it when he ran out.

Is it really sad and lamentable, with beauty and talent can be so willful?

The gold and jade are outside, and the defeat is in it, but so! Where is the confidence to be a "high-quality idol" of the whole people?

The daughter-in-law of an ordinary family may not be as lucky as Li Qianlei.

If celebrity families see their daughters-in-law as outsiders, then these daughters-in-law at least have the capital to live decently after divorce. The daughters-in-law of ordinary families may not be so lucky.

Lin Xi gave birth to a son in the fifth year after marriage, because the couple carried the pressure of the mortgage, so they communicated with their mother-in-law during pregnancy, and the mother-in-law helped Lin Xi to confinement.

During the confinement period in Linxi, the mother-in-law is very dedicated, busy taking care of the children and Linxi's confinement meal. Lin Xi is grateful to her mother-in-law in her heart, she has been married for five years, although she all lives under the same roof, but everyone is polite and polite, and things are basically conveyed through her husband. There are only a few opportunities to have so much time together like now.

This time the mother-in-law can be so powerful after the busy, not only helped the couple save a large amount of money for the confinement center, but also took good care of the mother and son, Lin Xi looked in the eyes, remembered in the heart, several times Lin Xi told himself, in the future to be filial piety to the mother-in-law.

After the confinement, Lin Xi was preoccupied with raising a baby, and in his heart he began to rely more on the help of his mother-in-law. In addition to helping to take care of three meals, the mother-in-law sometimes sets up a handle and helps take care of the children in order to make room for Lin xi to make a rare rest time. Even, sometimes when Lin Xi was too busy, he took the initiative to help wash Lin Xi's intimate clothes.

When Lin Xi thought that the child was the best glue to connect the two generations and become a family, she heard her mother-in-law complaining.

That day, Lin Xi rushed out the door and told her mother-in-law to help her sportswear through the water when she had time. Unexpectedly, the mother-in-law suddenly changed her face and muttered: I help my son to do it, help my grandson to do it, do I want to help you do it again?

Lin Xi was stuck in place, although the surface was very calm to respond and wait for her to come back to wash it, but inside she was already like the sea before the storm rolling! ......

Friends have advised Lin Xi to look away, it may be that the old man is not good at expressing. However, after this, the mother-in-law said the same thing several times in different scenes.

1 time, 2 times may be not good at expression, more means that it is the big truth in the heart.

It turned out that in her mother-in-law, Lin Xi had always been an outsider. The meticulous care during the confinement period is only for the sake of the husband and grandson!

Higashino. Keigo wrote in White Night: There are two things in this world that cannot be looked at directly: one is the sun, and the other is the human heart.

So, daughters-in-law, when the mother-in-law says that she will treat you like a daughter, just listen to it, and whoever moves first will lose. It's just that the mother-in-law, the same women, why bother women?

Women are treated as outsiders by their in-laws, hurt their feelings, and may be calculated to be in debt

Women are hurt by their feelings as outsiders in-laws, and they are still lucky. Some, not only are they hurt and lose custody of their children, but they are also calculated to be in debt.

During this time, a woman reported in her real name that her former mother-in-law had eaten empty pay, and the source of the huge amount of property was unknown, and she was targeted on the hot search list of major platforms.

Suspected of being calculated by the former mother-in-law, on the pretext of buying a house, he divorced and carried millions of debts and forcibly took away the custody of the child. Such a careful calculation is really chilling. Rabbits will bite people when they are anxious, and they will not be welcomed or calculated, and this tone cannot be tolerated by anyone.

Write in the last words

In traditional customs, if a woman is married, she is considered a person of the in-laws' family, and she and her mother's family are considered to be two families. If they encounter the in-laws' undesirables, most women can only swallow their anger and silently guard the tattered, non-home-like place to place their souls that have no way to retreat.

Even a Kochi elite like Li Qianlei, because of the child, because of the nominal home given by Wang Mouhong, stayed alone for 8 years and suffered for 8 years. Even if it is divorced, if it is not because Wang Mouhong is too excessive, throwing the reason for the divorce to her again, maybe she will admit it like this.

It is conceivable that in reality, most ordinary women do not have Li Qianlei's high-knowledge conditions, independent economic foundation and wisdom in handling things. If so, how many 8 years should there be? Want to self-ferry?

Of course, women don't have to be afraid of marriage either. In this marital accident, it is not the marriage that is wrong, it is the person! It's homeschooling.

Just like Sun Li and Deng Chao, coming from two original families full of harm, they know how to accept each other, cherish each other, and jointly manage and protect the happiness of the family!

I only hope that the women of the world will have less grievances of Li Qianlei and more happiness of being accepted!

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