Why the divorce rate has risen for 15 consecutive years is because many people have ignored the four truths behind divorce. If you also have such a Fa, after reading this article and then making a decision, if you don't understand it thoroughly, you may regret it for a lifetime.
First, there is no perfect marriage in the world, every family has a difficult scripture, you envy other people's families to live well, but you don't see the chicken feathers in other people's homes. Some couples have good economic conditions, but bad feelings. Every day there is a quarrel, and the chickens and dogs jump. Some couples have good intimate feelings, but the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good. God opens a door for you, and He will close a window for you, and there are so many perfect things.
Second, having too high expectations for the other half is the biggest harm to marriage. You think that your husband makes little money, is not self-motivated, always want to spur him on, expect him to turn over salted fish, once you can't meet expectations, cry and say that you are married to the wrong person, but what is wrong with your husband? He is that kind of person, but your expectations are too high, besides, behind the advantages are hidden a shortcoming, men with successful careers can not give companionship, men who take care of their families have no time to make a lot of money, rich and good for you have not yet been born, when you love the advantages of a person, you must also accept his shortcomings.
Third, people who use divorce to escape problems, 99% of them regret it, because the problems that cannot be solved in your marriage cannot be solved by another person. People who can't swim, it's useless to just change the pool. People who can't run a marriage, how many times they get married is useless, in the end, they will only repeat the same mistakes, live worse than the original, don't feel that everything is worry-free after divorce.
Fourth, even if you are divorced, you can't find true love, where is there any true love, only freshness, the first bite of cola tastes the best, let you drink every day, drink continuously for a year, do you still love to drink? It is human nature to like the new and dislike the old, if you see one who loves one and then divorces, what about the children? What do you do when you're old? Who bears the pain of parents.
Marriage you need love, more need responsibility, not that love is gone, marriage is over. All the right people are run-in, and all good feelings have an element of success. Because marriage is a self-practice. If you learn not to be tolerant and considerate and manage. How many times you have been divorced, it is not good.
Marriage is not easy, and it is not easy to live and cherish.