One day in 2008, Li Youbin and his 13-year-old actor Shi Lanya went shopping,
After this scene was filmed, the two did not clarify anything, but chose to get married immediately.
In those days, the two of them endured a lot of criticism,
Fortunately, Li Youbin's ex-wife came out and said that the divorce had nothing to do with this woman, but his strong sense of enterprise.
For so many years, the ex-wife did not say a word about the ex-husband's no.
Li Youbin was born in Changchun, Jilin Province, to parents who were ordinary workers.
In the second year of high school, the Changchun Drama Theater recruited actors,
He had the idea of trying it out, but he didn't expect to be admitted.
He ran the dragon suit for eleven years before he mixed with the starring role, which is really a late success.
In the works after middle age, each character is full of manliness, and this handsome is from the inside out.
Li Yunlong's domineering spirit, Zhu Kaishan's arrogance, Zhang Lingfu's heroism.
Ex-wife Zhang Ruiqi is a colleague of his drama troupe, that is a beautiful and lively and slightly reserved girl,
In the second year of acquaintance, they entered the palace of marriage, and in 1985, they had a son, Li Xiaoke.
During that time, Li Youbin's performance work was a lot, and she quit her troupe job in order to support her husband.
Take care of the family at home, so that the husband can work outside without worries.
Later, Li Youbin was transferred from the troupe to Changying, but came here to earn less, in order to be able to take care of his family,
Li Youbin decided to go to Beijing to have a look, maybe there are more opportunities there.
At the beginning of 1996, a family of three came to Beijing, and the money accumulated over the years bought a small square meter house here.
Li Youbin lives a life of going out early and returning late every day, although such a day is hard, but his wife and children are also very happy.
"Terrifying Waves" and "Born out of the Sky" were the works of this period, and later the director of "Bright Sword" noticed him.
Li Yunlong is actually his subversive role, and before this, he basically played a villain.
The black smoke, oil stains, and blood stains on his face were stacked layer by layer, much darker than those smeared with smoke and powder.
Li Yunlong loves to drink, casually say dirty words, and when he is angry, the dog's face is turned over, and he really plays the role alive.
The supporting characters in it can still say a few, Zhang Dabiao, Wei Dayong, Kong Erzi, they are all impressive.
Li Youbin became popular overnight with "Bright Sword", and after that, his work became busier.
In the year he first came to Beijing, he and Shi Lanya, who was 13 years younger, starred as husband and wife in "Jiangshan".
The two showed tacit understanding when filming, and the director said that the two people played the husband and wife to life.
One day a few years later, when he came home to file for divorce with his wife, she acted calm.
He left the house without taking a penny with him, and gave all his belongings and savings to his wife.
Before marrying Li Youbin, Shi Lanya also had two marriages.
Her first husband was the actor Liu Bin, who was 10 years younger than Liu Bin.
The two get together less and leave more, resulting in a breakdown in feelings and finally choosing divorce.
Her second husband was an outsider and they had a son.
Former Liu Bin was married three times, and each time his wife was more than ten years younger than him.
He switched from CCTV host to acting, and has portrayed many villain roles.
In life, he is a "good father".
Although Li Youbin and his ex-wife divorced, they have loved the same family for so many years.
For everything her husband did, Shi Lanya did not have any objections,
She thinks that her ex-wife has something to ask him for help with, and he ignores it.
On the contrary, I think this man is really unreliable,
Feel like you're going to be the next guy he won't take you seriously.
What kind of character does a lack of fatherly love create?
will be insecure, and very intense,
You have little guts and are afraid to make any mistakes,
Because since you were a child, you didn't have a father who could stand up to the sky and support you.
Li Youbin is worried that his son will become such a person,
So I often accompany my son,
I often call my son.
The son was unwell and he would drive back from out of town overnight.
The son holds a parent-teacher conference, and he will also show up in the classroom.
He loved everything, and his son didn't feel any different from other people's children.
If the misfortune of the stepson began with the divorce of his father,
Then his happiness began with knowing his stepfather.
Li Youbin treats his stepson and his own son no differently.
Many people do not know that this is his stepfather, thinking that it is his biological father.
That year, the stepson saw a man beside his mother who he didn't know.
He chuckled and looked a lot older than my mom.
He instinctively rejected this stranger,
Until this man finishes dinner at his house,
When the man started washing the dishes he couldn't help asking: Uncle, don't you have to go home and take care of your wife and children?
It is said that everyone was crying and laughing at that time.
Later this man became his stepfather.
The second Sunday I got to know him, I began to accept him.
He and his mother took him to camp that day.
Mom asked him to write an essay while resting in the tent to record today's activities.
He was really upset, and I believe that everyone had had this very disappointing experience.
Just when he was playing with his temper, the man said, "Wei, this way, you play with yours, while playing and talking about what you did today, I will remember, let's finish an article together." ”
His interest came immediately, twittering for a long time, this uncle wrote down the material,
After polishing, it becomes a very interesting article.
He was eight years old at the time, and for the first time in his life, he felt that "there is a person who is very special, and the attitude of others to me is different." ”
This man slowly entered his life in such a special way.
Mom used to shoot scenes for a while, and coaxing him to sleep at night became the man's task.
Every day, he would read to his stepson, Wolf Totem, Water Margin, Tibetan Mastiff, Yu Qiuyu, Feng Jicai, Ji Xianlin, .
There were also countless books, all in the cool and quiet night, and the man read it to him little by little.
This uncle has a lot of cultural heritage,
In addition to working with him on a lot of strange but very real compositions,
Or his hard pen calligraphy teacher.
Watching the stepson write his homework every day, he immediately went to buy a large desk the next day.
Whenever the weather changes, I will ask if I want to buy clothes.
Li Youbin made the stepson's personality more and more cheerful and confident,
This son used to be very timid and sensitive,
So he was grateful to this stepfather.
In addition to not being familiar at first, the feelings are getting better and better later, and the stepfather is really responsive.
His appearance is like a spring breeze, slowly moisturizing the stepson, allowing him to move forward step by step,
This feeling is indescribable, unaware that so many years have passed, and the stepson is very grateful to him.
Now that the stepson is 37 years old, there is one thing that worries the old couple, that is, there is no daughter-in-law.
He and Li Youbin said that there is no hurry, everything depends on fate.
On his way to growing up, it was full of happy memories, and he hoped that this happiness would be passed on.