Chen Weijun, the director of "Shengmen", once said a sentence: "It is said that childbirth is a matter of two people, a matter of husband and wife." Actually not, it's the woman who really faces everything. ”
In a word, the truth of fertility is told. Although men can't help much in conceiving and giving birth to children, it doesn't mean that the majority of men can be the treasurer.
Procreation is two people, and it is reasonable for two people to face and support each other. In the past, few people realized what kind of responsibilities men should take in terms of pregnancy and childbearing, but fortunately, now some people have finally seen it.
The hospital offers training courses for expectant fathers
All along, society has defaulted to the fact that childbirth is a woman's business, so when expectant mother training classes and pregnant mothers' prenatal classes bloom everywhere, there is no training class specifically for expectant fathers.
Fortunately, now someone is finally aware of this.
Recently, a county women's and child care institute in Anhui Province has opened a training class for expectant fathers, inviting top three obstetric experts to train expectant fathers, vividly explaining obstetric examinations and postpartum health knowledge, and emphasizing the responsibilities and obligations of expectant fathers.
When she saw this news, Mommy was so excited that finally giving birth was no longer a woman's business.
Although childbearing is a decision of two people, on this road, many times it is a woman who bears and faces it alone, and many men do not fulfill their responsibilities and obligations, and even know nothing about childbirth.
In the variety show "Mother-in-law and Mother", du Chun, the father-to-be, is such a presence.
His wife was several months pregnant, and the father-to-be Du Chun was still like a big boy, sneaking out at night to drink and party with friends, playing until dawn before returning home, completely ignoring his wife's advice to let him go home early.
When I got home, I didn't know how to take care of the pregnant woman, and I didn't know what my pregnant wife could and couldn't eat. What's even more outrageous is that his wife has been pregnant for several months, but Du Chun has not participated in a single obstetric examination, and he does not even know how many obstetric examinations his wife has done, what matters need to be paid attention to.
The first time he accompanied his wife to the obstetric examination, the doctor asked him if he had anything to know, and Du Chun was also dazed: "I don't understand, there is nothing to ask." ”
I have to say that such a father-to-be is desperate and suffocating.
Expectant dad training, a good start
However, there are more fathers-to-be like Du Chun in life, and I don't believe you can go to the entrance of the obstetrics and gynecology department of the hospital for a walk, where there are more seats on the seats of the father-to-be who sits and plays games, dozes off, and does nothing.
Therefore, compared to the expectant mother, Mommy feels that the father-to-be is the group of people who need to be trained.
Pregnancy is never a matter of pregnant mothers alone, it is a journey of two people watching out for each other. Although the father-to-be cannot conceive a new life for the mother-to-be, he can provide her with all-round support and be her strong backing.
In the past, some fathers-to-be had more than enough and lacked strength, suffering from not finding a good channel to learn related knowledge and skills, and the emergence of training classes for fathers-to-be can just make up for such deficiencies.
In addition, the emergence of the father-to-be training class also always reminds the father-to-be of the responsibility and obligation, so that those who want to be lazy and throw away the treasurer have no reason to escape, reducing the emergence of widowed parenting in the future.
I have to say that the emergence of the training class for expectant fathers is a good start, at least from now on, giving birth is no longer a matter for women alone, and fathers will be more and more asked to participate.