The once hit drama "Thirty Only", through 3 different types of women to explore the topic of love, marriage and family, their common characteristics belong to "older women", in the play they are almost three years old.
There is an old Chinese saying called "thirty and standing", for men, women are the same, but some people think that women find a good husband, marry into the rich even if they succeed, when the "rich wife" can kill their peers in seconds, but there are also struggling women to pursue their own success, worthy of our more respect.
The role of Gu Jia, played by the goddess Tong Yao, is simply a perfect woman in the eyes of others, although she is nearly thirty years old, she is still so beautiful and moving, she is a full-time wife, not only the family affairs are arranged in an orderly manner, but also the husband's "Xiannei help", for men, such a good wife can be described as "difficult to find with a lantern".
Gu Jia stills
Gu Jia is not the kind of "vase-style" woman, she is very intelligent, good at thinking, the play spends a lot of scenes to show the problem of children going to school, she did a perfect job, their family in order for the children to go to a good kindergarten to change the house to the high-end community, because the house in this community is the so-called "school district room".
Of course, the children of this community may not be able to enter the ideal school, because Gu Jia's children are out of control, leaving a bad impression on the interviewer, there are variables in enrollment, after Zhong Xiaoqin's introduction, I was able to get to know Mrs. Wang, who loves vanity in the community, as if Mrs. Wang's husband is a school director, in short, Mrs. Wang can talk about Gu Jia's children's enrollment, and her recommendation letter is very useful.
Mrs. Wang is not a good neighbor, their family lives in the upper floor, much more expensive than the unit price of Gu Jia's house, although they live in the same building, but because of the level of house prices, the distinction between rich areas and non-rich areas has been formed.
Mrs. Wang did not look up to Gu Jia too much, and Gu Jia, after seeing the essence of Mrs. Wang's love of vanity and vassalage, became angry and pointed out Mrs. Wang's weakness on the spot, but later, she still bowed her head and sought Mrs. Wang's help, for the sake of the children, her dignity could be abandoned.
From this incident, we can say that Gu Jia is a woman who knows how to maneuver and can flex and stretch, and later, with the help of Mrs. Wang, she finally sent her child to the ideal kindergarten, but soon, she inadvertently offended the person in charge of the parent committee.
This time, she chose not to endure anymore, and taught the current president of the parents committee a hard lesson, because she grasped the evidence of the other party taking kickbacks in advance, Gu Jia was able to be safe after beating people, her starting point was to protect the child, but she was not impulsive at all.
Through Mrs. Wang, she was able to enter the extravagant "mrs. circle", this is the salon of the rich wife, at first, because Gu Jia's husband was only a small boss and was not accepted by this small circle, but Gu Jia was able to integrate into this circle with her various full-score talents.
She did not love vanity to enter this circle, she knew that she and the group of Mrs. Kuo were not all the way, her original intention was to get useful information from the "Mrs. Kuo Salon" that was useful to her husband's company, no, because of her matchmaking, Xu Huanshan's fireworks design company was able to turn the tide.
In the past, for the survival of the company, she went to find a large customer alone to make reparations, and when she encountered unreasonable demands from unscrupulous customers, she insisted on her own principles, and in order to survive for the company, she tried to mortgage her house to obtain a bank loan, maintaining the normal operation of the company.
Gu Jia's full-time wife and "Xian Neisuke" should have had a good ending, but as everyone knows, her strength and control have long made her husband Xu Huanshan dissatisfied, and finally cheated.
Xu Huanshan and Gu Jia
So why did such a perfect woman, an enviable marriage, fail?
Gu Jia is too perfect, there are almost no shortcomings, and she strives to dominate her husband's life and career, for men, face is the most important, of course, not that Gu Jia does not give her husband face outside, Gu Jia is very decent in outside large and small occasions, she did not let her husband have no face, but in her all-round "control" of Xu Huanshan, so that Xu Huanshan can not experience the dignity of men.
"Xian Neisuke" Gu Jia
In addition, Gu Jia's full integration into the "Mrs. Circle" also made Xu Huanshan very unhappy, although Gu Jia's list of operations in the Mrs. Circle saved the company, but Xu Huanshan was very unfulfilled.
Gu Jia not only has a big package in life, but also supports her husband's career, but the reason why she loses Xu Huanshan is precisely because she has done too much.
And the girl Xu Huanshan met outside, only full of admiration for him, satisfied all the vanity of the man, gave him unlimited freedom and happiness, at this time, the balance of victory is inclined to the girl, although the girl also knows that Xu Huanshan is married, has children, or create opportunities to meet him, you say she has no heart, who will believe?
Compared with Gu Jia, she has no advantages in terms of appearance and wisdom, why would Xu Huanshan like her? Emotions are irrational in themselves, feelings are important, and in men's minds, the old ones are not necessarily better than the new ones.
The reason why Gu Jia failed in marriage is because she is too perfect, giving men a lot of pressure, and she sometimes can't perceive her husband's real psychological state, and she intensifies, and finally is taken advantage of by women outside!