The mother who gave birth to you and raised you, a lifetime of hard work, but was easily "erased" by the child's words, is it the provocation of the elders in the family, or the "lack" of the child's upbringing?
Even children think of their parents as "nannies," not to mention others. A child of a few years old can easily say such "hurtful" words, what is wrong with this society.
Master full-time mother, disliked by her son, "Aren't you doing housework at home", obliterating the mother's efforts for many years
How hard is it to be a mom? When competing to be a career lady, mothers will be told to ignore the family, but in fact, mothers do the same thing.
And if mothers are full-time, they not only have to do everything after their children and partners come home, but also may be "looked down upon" by many parties from time to time.
In Wuhan, Hubei Province, something happened that made people "extremely annoyed".
A woman who graduated with a master's degree chose to be a full-time mother for the sake of her family and children, serving her children wholeheartedly, but she was rejected by her son.
The mother suffered a "particularly bad" thing, when the mother complained to the child about a tired sentence, the son casually said "Aren't you just doing a housework", easily erasing the mother's years of efforts and efforts, making the mother sad.
After the mother returned home, she called the child to the bedroom to carry out criticism and education, and the mother's grievances could be seen between the words.
Moms want their children to tell their hard work that "after graduating from a master's degree, with mom's work ability and experience, I could have had a better job."
"Now it's all year round, doing repetitive work every day to serve others" and "it used to be much easier than it is now."
However, such a year-round and endless service career was lightly carried by his son with "cooking and doing some housework", which hurt not only the mother's heart, but also the "insult" to the mother for so many years.
A sentence that the child understated has caused a greater controversy among netizens, should the mother be full-time or live herself?
The child's "Didn't you just do a housework at home?" "Seemingly casual words, but it brought great harm to the mother, but also caused a great controversy."
Some netizens believe that this child is "an unfamiliar dog, a wolf that cannot be fed", the mother's efforts for many years, he should look in the eyes, remember in the heart, but with the "most vicious" language, to hurt their mother, is it that the elders in the family often say so, the child remembers in the heart?
There are also some netizens who believe that this should be a child's unintentional words, and netizens do not have to go on the line to cause psychological pressure to the child.
Netizens argue endlessly about the child's language and behavior, and Xiaobian believes that the child may be unintentional, but parents cannot fail to pay attention.
And this also raises the question of thinking: Should moms stay full-time or live out their own lives?
In the minds of some parents, their ranking is always the first place for their children, but there are also some parents who are self-centered and strive to live their own wonderful.
This may be attacked by some netizens, who think that self-centered mothers are selfish, but Xiaobian wants to say that mothers take it for granted that they pay for their children, but others should not think that this is what mothers must accomplish by themselves, which is inevitably a bit "short-sighted".
In addition, only when mothers or parents really work hard for themselves and manage their own lives well, can they not be abandoned by society and disliked by their families.
Finally, parents should pay attention to and focus on their children's family education, let their children develop correct three views and good morals, and know how to respect elders and others, in order to go further in future life.
Write at the end
A master's mother could have had a better life and had her own circle, but for the sake of her child's education, she chose to go home and become a full-time mother. Unexpectedly, he was rejected by his son.
Stay-at-home mothers or professional women have always been the "chasm" between mothers and children, and how mothers choose to choose depends on their inner pursuits.
Most importantly, parents must not forget the in-depth development of family education, cultivate students to understand the quality of respect for others and the correct three views, and strive to let children gain the respect of others on the road of life in the future and achieve a wonderful life.
Discussion: Do netizens think they should be full-time mothers or should have their own circle of life?
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