A drop of warm current
Emotions/Marriage/Family/Emotions/Personality
concern
Source: Xu Slow Psychological Talk (ID: xumanman-kjxl)
At last
Once, I received a message like this in the background:
My daughter was ten years old, and in the past she always felt that she did not understand things and loved to toss, but until later, I tried to give up my expectations and just silently supported her, but she became more and more able to express herself.
I think that this kind of parental awareness and the growth of children is what every parent wants to see, and it is also the beginning of a better parent-child relationship.
In fact, the cost of this kind of getting better is not high, parents just need to try to let go of their authority, accept the challenge of the child, and see the growth of the child's "self".
Although sometimes, the child's performance does not meet our expectations, and even the opposite direction and repeatedly hit the wall.
However, only by giving children the opportunity to step forward can they collide with the real world.
Even if it is the opposite, it is a unique growth experience.
And in this process, parents need to play,
Not the sharp blade that breaks the child's wings, but the wide and soft earth.
Let the child catch him steadily every time he hits a wall and falls.
After reading this comic, if you also want to become a parent of "defeat and glory",
Click "Watching" and let the change happen from this moment.
I believe that with the respect and support of parents again and again.
One day, the child will grow a full wing to soar into the wider sky.
END.
Foot / Beam Tea
Illustration / Z
Yunying / Liang Tea
Producer / Chen Maomao, Chen Shenshen, Luke
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