This book is a famous psychological counselor, family therapist Dr. Chen Haixian's blockbuster new work, this book tells everyone that it is not easy to love each other, there will be many problems in keeping each other, so love needs to be learned and practiced, into an intimate relationship, it is not easy to get along well, and managing this intimate relationship is a topic that everyone must seriously study in their lifetime.
Some people spend their entire lives looking for a partner who loves themselves and understands themselves. But "it backfires", and the object of his or her choice is either unsatisfactory or unsatisfactory! What's more, the ancients have long said that "every family has a difficult scripture"...
This book shows you how to deal with these difficult problems in the right way, which is the focus of everyone's learning. The author will be his years of life experience and rich level of psychological counseling, a detailed interpretation of the problems that will be encountered in life, and put forward some practical solutions to help readers learn the method of love, successfully solve the problems encountered in intimate relationships, after reading this book, you can also let you who are still "alone", find your own half as soon as possible, and enjoy the happiness of pairs.
As we all know, it is not easy to run an intimate relationship, just like today's society, there are all kinds of strange phenomena: many people prefer to be alone, in addition to work, and come home with online games and online movies. I am also unwilling to talk about a vigorous love, marriage, and children at the right age, and form a harmonious small family.....
Although such people also crave sweet love and also need the warmth of the family, they only dare to stop and watch, and they do not have the courage to take a step forward. They all advocate freedom, like independent personalities and independent values. I worry that after falling in love, many things will change, and I can no longer do as I used to.
Even if someone has a long-desired object and is deeply attracted, they are always worried that after entering an intimate relationship, they will accommodate each other because of love, let themselves change too much, can't get along well, and finally even friends can't do it.
Love, more is "afraid": originally very good feelings, not a good grasp, good management, and even do not know how to cherish, the result of the harvest of confusion, hurt and pain, so that this fear of marriage era of young people, can only take a wait-and-see approach, delay in entering the siege, good management of their own small family.
The author advocates: love, need to learn, learn to love yourself, do not be afraid! And summarized the four kinds of intimate relationships dominated by "fear", which are particularly worthy of reflection and learning. This book tells everyone that the greatest wisdom in life lies in continuous learning, breaking through limitations, and living in a happy and harmonious family atmosphere through continuous efforts, and in an intimate relationship that is satisfactory to each other.
The authors of this book analyze the importance of intimate relationships through different perspectives. The author ranges from how to enter an intimate relationship, how to communicate well with his lover, to how to create a space with his lover, get along harmoniously, and run his sweet little family well.
Because different groups of people have different definitions of love, similar loves have a common premise - mutual affection, and then mutual attraction, mutual attachment...
Attachment is the foundation of love, is the bond of love, one day is not seen as three autumns apart, and then it is to find ways to spend time and mind to pursue and cultivate this relationship. How to make each other happy, but also feel happy, everyone's ideas are very beautiful.
However, the idea is very beautiful, but life and reality are very bone- and there are many uncertainties: two people together, many things need to be tolerated by each other, mutual accommodation, mutual tolerance, mutual understanding... Getting married, buying a house, and involving two families, relatives, friends, and a lot of trivial things such as rice, oil and salt, need to be dealt with and handled in various ways.
So in today's society full of strong competition and challenges, everyone's time pressure is very large, some people are afraid of spending their minds, afraid of trouble, afraid of wasting time, preferring to be single rather than married!
There are also people who often see too many friends around them, spend so much mental effort and time, and pursue a long-desired marriage partner, but they can enter the marriage hall and soon part ways.
At this time, they will secretly rejoice in their hearts, and they will not have the heart to get married and have children. Completely unaware that "love needs to be learned"!
Based on these problems, this book lists some relevant examples, builds a positive communication model, how to turn quarrels into effective communication, encounters some contradictions in life, and teaches everyone how to solve them.
The author says that people sometimes crave companionship and sometimes want to be alone, how to create a relationship space with their partners that is "both independent of each other and warm and dependent"? This book tells you that people are not born to love, and the ability to love needs to be learned. "Love, need to learn"!
With very delicate brushstrokes, the author gives practical methods that are helpful to everyone, helping readers learn the method of love, successfully solve the problem of intimate relationships between people, and find their own happiness.
What are you waiting for? Hurry up and buy a book to learn, this book, as long as you read it carefully, you can break through the "barrier of love" and enter the hall of happiness and beautiful marriage.
I hope that all people in the world can live a harmonious, happy and happy life through learning.
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