In the adult world, we all understand a truth, that is, sincerity for sincerity.
When we treat others with sincerity, if the other person cherishes, then we continue, and if the other party does not take our good seriously, we certainly do not have to continue to do so.
Most of the time, we understand this and do the same.
But there are always times when a person is obviously not good to us at all, but we still can't take back our hearts.
Especially for love, once we fall in love with someone, we seem to lose all our sanity.
Knowing that the other party does not like themselves, will not treat themselves well, is still unwilling to give up, and always likes to foolishly go to each other.
The more we like it, the more we will lose ourselves, always hoping that our sincerity can be exchanged for a good result, in fact, we will have such a mood, it is understandable.
But that doesn't mean that even if the other person doesn't cherish it, we have to always like it and be good to that person.
The more you sink, the more you will get hurt.
A friend, she has always liked a colleague.
In order to win the other party's like, she has always been very proactive and always doing her best to do something for the other party.
At first, the other party will give her some responses, enthusiastically reply to her messages, and agree to her invitation, but gradually she found that in addition to being ambiguous with her, the other party also had close contact with several opposite sexes at the same time, and later she was less and less serious about her.
After contact, she found that the other party was not a good choice at all, was not loyal to the feelings, and did not have any sincerity for her, but she just couldn't stop, she still liked each other, and wanted to be with each other.
After that, knowing that the other party was not worth it, she still paid all kinds of efforts, all kinds of overtures, and as a result, for two years, she has been doubting herself in various ways, often feeling particularly sad, and the whole person has become particularly unconfident.
The wrong person, no matter how much we like it, no matter how much we try to give, it will not be of any use.
When the other person's heart does not have us, he simply cannot see our sincerity, nor does he want to see us at all.
Stubbornly liking him, desperate for the sake of the other party, that will make us more and more bottomless, become not like ourselves at all, the heart is getting heavier and heavier, and there is no meaning at all.
No matter how reluctant you are, you must give up in time.
Maybe we'll like someone, but there's no reason at all. At the same time, it is not so easy to meet a person of the opposite sex that you like and make yourself really moved.
Since we have met such a person with great difficulty, we certainly should not shrink back, but should fight for love.
Be attentive, take the initiative, work hard, when we do everything we should do, if the other party comes to our side, we just have to cherish it, but if the other party doesn't like us at all, it's not worth us to continue, we actually don't have to be unwilling.
Like him, we can't control, but whether to continue with him or not, we should still think about it and judge rationally.
You know, a person who doesn't have us at all in his eyes, but is just trampling on our sincerity, who is obviously unreliable, he is not worthy of our constant liking, and he has to carry out this feeling to the end.
This like, we just have to give ourselves a deadline, after this period, if there is really no way to have, do find that the other party is not a good choice, even if he attracts us no matter how much, we still have to stop the loss in time.
It doesn't matter, without him, we seem to have lost a person we like, in fact, but only lost a wrong person.
We always have to know how to say goodbye to the wrong person, and in the days to come, we have the opportunity to meet a really good other half.
It is really expensive and should not be wasted.
In this life, everyone is the same, and there is only this one true heart.
Our sincerity, our feelings, those are all scarce goods, they are all very precious, and we really should not give them to others at will.
Think about it, knowing that a person is not worth it, we are always bent on perfection, even if we become humble, we still have to go to each other, in the end, others will feel very bored, we will only feel that we are cheap.
We are unique in the world, and we really shouldn't let ourselves live so unappreciated.
Even if it is love, even if it is someone we like very much, we still have to uphold the principle of consistency, if the other party cherishes and is willing to be with us, we will continue as always, if the other party does not need it, we do not continue to waste their hearts.
From the beginning it is not good for us, obviously not worthy of the person, he will not suddenly like us because of a long time, began to cherish us, regard us as treasures, he will only become more and more intense, making us feel more and more hopeless.
There is only one person who obviously regards us as very precious, and there is a back-and-forth between us, and in the years, he will be the right person, and he will be able to complete a good love for us.
Love, that must be persistent, but also do not have to be reckless, if you are in the same heart with each other, not a person singing a one-man show.
Sincerity, to give to those who deserve it, sincerity, don't give to people who are not worthy.
When we first meet someone, in that moment, we don't know if the other person is worthy, it's not clear, as long as we want, we just treat the same kindness and show our kindness.
It's just that after that, especially after knowing each other for a while and having a certain understanding, how to continue with each other, we don't always have to be obstinate, we have to look at each other's attitude.
Any feeling, any relationship, that's mutual.
We can be willing to trial and error, but we don't always have to be stupid to give.
In life, too many people are not so important, and too many likes are not so necessary.
Anyway, follow your heart and be rational.
Text/Tan Meng
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