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Now the transportation is convenient, coupled with family conditions permitting, most parents will choose to pick up and drop off their children from school. I can always see many parents picking up and dropping off their children during the time of school. Younger children are fine, but it's also common to pick up and drop off high school students today.
High school students are picked up and dropped off by their parents for several reasons
1) For safety reasons, protect your child thoroughly
Nowadays, the learning pressure of high school students is greater, especially those who have to take the entrance examination, which can be described as a matter of seconds. If a lot of time is spent on the road, it will not only delay rest, but also reduce the time spent studying.
Parents' consideration will be more comprehensive, on the one hand, it depends on safety issues, on the other hand, it depends on the timing. For the safety of their children, parents want to pick them up and drop them off in person, so that they can feel much more at ease.
2) Due to distance considerations, it is a long way from school
Parents should consider safety issues on the one hand, and the distance factor on the other hand. Some children live far away, in order not to waste valuable time, but also in order to let children ensure eight or nine hours of sleep every day, most parents will choose to pick up.
High school students have greater learning pressure and daily physical consumption, and only high sleep quality can help rapid physical recovery.
3) Build intimacy for communication reasons
Children grow faster, and in the blink of an eye, they are no longer children. Parents will feel that their children are getting farther and farther away from themselves at this time, and sometimes communication becomes a problem. During school hours, parents can communicate with their children for a short time, which is conducive to establishing a close parent-child relationship with each other.
High school learning pressure is high, parents should pay more attention to the situation of their children on weekdays. The status of learning and psychological state need to be cared for in time, but parents have tight working hours, and it is the best choice to use the time of pick-up and drop-off to communicate.
There is nothing wrong with parental pick-up, but there are many disadvantages
Parents should pay attention to the physical and mental development of their children, can not ignore the cultivation of daily ability, if because of the transfer of children and affect the growth, it is not worth the loss.
1. It is not conducive to cultivating the child's autonomy, and it should be selected to let go in a timely manner
Some parents pick up and drop off their children from the beginning of school, which has become a habit in the long run. Although the child's learning pressure is high, parents want to rest more, but the pick-up and drop-off will make some children become too arrogant, parents should depend on the situation.
Children are easily affected by the surrounding environment, and the spoiling of parents is not conducive to the cultivation of children's autonomy. Some children do not understand the traffic situation, and even do not face traffic problems well, and it may be difficult to solve the road smoothly. Parents love their children, but they must consider all aspects for their children and should not be too indulgent.
Parents protect their children too well, and it is difficult for them to face the various problems in life. The starting point for picking up and dropping off children is good, but also try to let go, so that children learn to contact the surrounding environment, and then play a role in exercise. Sooner or later, children will go to society, relying on their own ability to solve difficulties, and the ability to be autonomous is indispensable.
2. It is not conducive to understanding the real needs of children, and it is necessary to communicate more
Each child's personality is different, and the attitude of handling things will be different. Parents want to make their children easier and care about their daily pick-ups, but not all children like it. As children age, their range of interactions continues to expand, and sometimes they prefer to accompany their classmates to and from school.
Parents have no major problems in picking up and dropping off their children, but sometimes they lack consideration, which in turn makes the relationship with their children change. Therefore, parents should communicate with their children more, listen to the child's true thoughts, if it is a reluctant thing, then try not to force it, it is best to respect the child's wishes.
Bud Care Mom wants to say:
If the child has entered high school, parents need to pay attention to many matters. Whether the daily pick-up and drop-off of children is coddling or caring, in fact, depends on the way parents deal with it. It is more important to communicate in a timely manner and not to ignore your child's thoughts.
Today's topic: When your children go to school, do you still pick up and drop off?