Parents sent their 7-year-old daughter to the counseling department, and a week later the teacher told the truth, and the parents were furious
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I don't know of anything more sacred than raising a child to adulthood. —Beethoven
China is a country with a strong traditional concept, because of the long history, resulting in many People in China always hiding in the topic of privacy education, especially in the open mind now, many parents still believe that these ideas will naturally understand the principles when the child reaches a certain level of age, which makes many people with ill intentions take advantage of it. The reason why many tragedies will occur is that in addition to children's lack of awareness of their own protection, it is more caused by parents' lack of specific education on children's privacy.
Children as the core members of each family, is the strongest bond to maintain the relationship between husband and wife, while the child is also a source of happiness for a family, especially in the current society, the family has fewer children, many parents are very concerned about their children, but the children because of psychological and age immaturity, resulting in them in the face of some things, can not be expressed clearly, so can only bear silently, only after the parents inadvertently found, can realize the seriousness of the problem.
My daughter went to the counseling department for a week and became sullen
Some such a couple, they raised a daughter together, because the child naturally likes to draw, in order to be able to make the daughter happy and happy to grow up, they sent the 7-year-old daughter to the counseling class, hoping that the daughter can continue to carry forward this hobby in the tutoring class, at first the daughter entered the tutoring class, every day is very happy, and after the class, the face has been full of smiles, so that the couple feels very pleased, even if there is a lot of pressure and helplessness in life, but when they see the daughter's happy face, Their hearts were also very happy, but suddenly one day, after the child's mother suddenly saw the child's two works, her heart almost fell to the ground like a whirlwind.
When I first enrolled my daughter in tutoring classes, when the child was not around her parents, parents could use this time to do other things. The couple is the same, since the daughter entered the tutoring class, the daughter's mother can have more time to come out every day to do some housework, tidy up the room, but also do not have to be angry about the many things that the child is naughty, and his father also feels that the choice of sending his daughter to the tutoring class is extremely correct. In the blink of an eye, the daughter had been studying in the tutoring class for about a week, but the daughter's mother had recently found that the little daughter had been smiling from the beginning to being sullen and unhappy, so the mother asked the daughter how she had been at school recently, but the daughter was silent, and seemed to be deliberately avoiding something.
The teacher told the truth, and the parents were furious
The couple thought that their daughter might have encountered some problems, but the daughter did not express it, and could not know what the specific incident was, until the father saw the two works painted by his daughter, his heart was horrified, after careful study, he quickly picked up the mobile phone and called the police. With the cooperation of the child's parents, the police quickly found a teacher to help the child draw. At first, when the teacher faced her daughter's work, she did not say much, but only said that she would play with the children in her spare time, but did not do some strange behavior, but the girl's parents always believed that if there was really no problem, her daughter would not draw such a strange picture, and later under the questioning of the police, the teacher finally could only tell the truth.
The teacher first admitted some of his mistakes, and also claimed that he was confused for a while, at this time the couple quickly took their daughter to the hospital for a check-up, fortunately, the girl did not check out anything wrong, otherwise the consequences would be unimaginable. Every parent hopes that their children can grow up healthy and happy, but parents can not accompany their children at any time, so children will inevitably come into contact with some of the various people in society, and it is precisely because of this that parents need to do their homework for their children, especially to make their children understand the importance of protecting private parts. Many parents have wondered why more and more similar times are being exposed.
Correctly guide the child's thinking and answer the child's questions calmly
Parents are children's initiation teachers, and children are a mirror of mothers. --Li Xiuyun
It is precisely because of the exposure of such incidents, but also let the importance of sex education highlighted, so parents in the face of privacy education, must maintain a good attitude, step by step to teach children some relevant knowledge, when parents to children to transmit this knowledge, children's self-protection ability is also very important, so also to teach children how to improve this awareness, and can not be embarrassed to open to children because of the private parts, This will make the child choose to respond with silence when he suffers some illegal infringement.
Compared with small children, parents can also instill knowledge in their children when bathing them, and transmit the correct name. At the same time, we must also teach our children to learn to respect the privacy of others while protecting their own privacy. Let the child have such a cognition in his heart from an early age, so that he will not cause some unnecessary misunderstandings or troubles in the future because he does not understand or is ashamed to say it. The most important thing is that parents should play a good leading role in this, parents should not only be knowledge transmitters, but also need to respect the children's opinions, if the child can not be taught through words, you can also let the child understand their own body through some books, and learn to love their own body, improve the awareness of protection.
The flowers of the motherland, the future of the times
The whole secret of educational skills lies in how to care for children. —Sukhomlinsky
Children are not only the future of a family, but also the future of society, they are the flowers of the times, in the future, there is a great possibility of becoming the pillars of society, so in the process of children's growth, they should be carefully cared for to prevent them from being damaged in any way. In short, the reason why there are many events in society is more from people's deep-rooted traditional ideas, which hinder the healthy development of sex education, so that many parents have been insufficient in their children's sex education.
Especially when children ask about this knowledge, most of the parents' answers are in a state of evasion, so that children cannot further understand the situation, and finally will produce some bad behavior under the trend of curiosity. These are precisely because parents do not give proper guidance. Therefore, in order to protect the development of children's spiritual health, learn to correctly guide and teach children to learn about relevant aspects, only in such an environment can their children grow up healthy and happy.
Citations;
Quotations of Li Xiuyun
Beethoven's Classic Quotes
Quotations from Sukhomlinsky