How many people fell asleep last night with resentment?
A friend who has been a fan of Wang Lihong for many years said: "Youth has a stain." ”
After reading Wang Lihong's ex-wife Li Lianglei's long ten-thousand-word article, it was even more uncomfortable. Especially that passage —
"Most of the time we got married, I was either trying to conceive, getting pregnant, or breastfeeding and having children after childbirth, and most of it I was on my own."
Write out a short number of ten, but there are endless grievances. Any mom who thinks back to the first few years from pregnancy to birth will find it difficult. And such a hundred turns, Li Lianglei experienced 3 times in 5 years. Looking back at Wang Lihong's interview program, Lu Yu asked him the craziest thing he did for love, Wang Lihong did not say anything romantic to Li Lianglei, did not have any loving interaction with his wife, and talked about getting married and having children. （excuse me？？？ Speaking of his wife on the day of childbirth, he said three words from the bottom of his heart: "I am so tired."
On this day when a girl becomes a mother in the true sense, in the context of all "us", Wang Lihong, as a husband and as a father, has only "me" as the starting point. When Lu Yu talked about the changes in his wife's body after giving birth, Wang Lihong's starting point was still only himself: I couldn't feel her internal organs displaced, but she couldn't understand my feelings as a father.
His song reads "I plus you two people do not equal us". It seems that it is all irony. From the risks and great changes faced by pregnancy to childbirth, what we need is the love and understanding from the husband, the support of the family, and the husband and himself to resonate and spend together.
In the highlight of women desperately trying to have children, what are the men who accompany the birth thinking? Do what? We did an interview.
No matter how much preparation you make in advance, but on that day, there are always more accidents than preparations.
After all, it is the first time to accompany the wife to have children, the circle is the norm, the most important thing is not to add chaos.
Mrs. Toto said that she hurt like a dog and didn't dare to breathe, and I cried next to me so much that I couldn't breathe and just wanted to kick me out. At first, when Renjun was in the delivery room, the nurse said that she could take a picture, and I took a serious photo with my wife, who was wearing a hood.
Before the king and wife gave birth, I prepared all the things I needed, nursing pads, wet wipes, warm water (with straws) that my wife drank, and some energy supplements, Red Bull, chocolate. I also rehearsed several times, how to hand it to my wife quickest and smoothest. As a result, pulled to dissect ... When Aqua Regia saw the doctor entering and leaving the delivery room, his heart tightened, and he looked at the door like a neuropathy (he couldn't see anything). Even prepared for the worst in my heart, in case the doctor asked me to choose, "Bao Da, Bao Da!" This sentence must not stutter. When I heard that mother and child were safe, I successfully scared myself into crying...
Principal Bian's wife was painless, and she was inhaling oxygen again, unable to speak the whole time. I set a small goal for myself, tried my best to soothe my wife's emotions, clearly conveyed my wife's meaning, cooperated with the doctor, and controlled the whole scene. As a result, when I saw my wife cutting sideways, I heard the sound of cutting meat, and I "hissed ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Even my mind couldn't bend for a while: why take the scissors to cut my daughter-in-law! When I saw the child come out, I was a little excited and shouted: "Head !!! head! The head came out!!! "The doctors and nurses ignored me.
The calm attitude and brain circuitry of some accompanying fathers also make people have to be convinced.
Your eldest brother asked when to give birth, and the doctor said it was still early. Taking advantage of the painless beating she slept, I went to the opposite side and pinched her foot. You said it was a coincidence that the wife started.
Not only was I told by the doctor, but I was also counted down to the present by my wife. Li saw the child's first glance: too small, especially small a small life, so painful, and then pulled out the mobile phone and took pictures. The wife turned her face that night, and it turned out that she had deliberately observed when she was pushed out, whether I looked at the child first or at her first. As a result, I chose the wrong answer.
With the increasing popularity of integration, many fathers have voluntarily chosen to accompany the birth.
It is said that men may have shadows after childbirth, and these men who have seen their wives have children with their own eyes are shocked or afraid? NianHua opened the full finger in the morning and was born at 4 p.m. I saw that my wife really had no strength, and she rolled her eyes. I couldn't help much, so I could only ask her if she drank or not, did she eat Snickers? That feeling was still quite weak, painful. I'm glad I went in, and now whenever I meet a friend who is married, I'll say, "Be nice to your wife, really, it's not easy to have children." ”
(Image source"Shengmen")
The fallen husband and wife were pulled to give birth before they had time to fight without pain. The baby 6 pounds did not cut sideways, the tear was very irregular, and the stitches were sewn for a long time. Seeing her stitches hurt like that, my whole body was really shaking. I didn't hold back, sneaking away tears from my side. After giving birth, I told her, we only need this one, and we will never give birth again. After the child was brought out, I carefully took it, not daring to use force, for fear of hurting him, and the first time I changed the diaper, I changed it. After pacifying the children and going out to buy porridge for his wife, it was snowing heavily outside, and he drew the first family portrait on the snow.
On the day of production, whether inside or outside the delivery room, the husbands have their own wonderful. Some people say that the door of the delivery room is a mirror. True love and heartache cannot be pretended. For some men, it's a business day, and the only difference is that there are more children.
For other men, it was a life-or-death day, and the mood went up and down like a roller coaster. Two people face each other together, and he can't help you share the pain, but at least when you hate your teeth, someone can kick you. And Li Lianglei bravely opened her own scars and said so many words that girls did not dare to say. Now that she is zero, she will rebuild herself little by little in freedom. How does your husband behave when he is with the baby? Especially in the last two special years, if you also have anything to say, welcome to leave a message to share. (Some screenshots in the text are from "Lu Yu has a date 20180118"