In the middle of August, when the weather in Xiamen is at its hottest, even people who can resist heat are reluctant to go out. But it was at this time that a pair of parents, sweating profusely, rang the doorbell in the center of Xiamen, and behind them was a small, thin child with somewhat yellow skin.
The child is called Zimo, who is five years old this year and is a very typical stuttering child. Because of this, Xiao Zimo has not yet enrolled in school, relying on his parents and the elderly at home. The reason why children do not attend school is simple, one is because they do not speak fluently due to stuttering, and the other reason is that they are too grumpy.
As soon as they meet, they become "rolling dragons", grumpy stuttering children
When I first met Xiao Zimo, the teacher who received the family thought that this was very shy, a relatively autistic and isolated child. But after just a few minutes of chatting with Zimo's parents, the child's nature was exposed, running around in the negotiation room for a while, and then interested in the doorknob, breaking around on the side.
When Zi Mo's father saw the situation, he immediately scolded, hoping that his son would obey and not disturb their conversation with the director of the Xiamen Center. Unexpectedly, as soon as the child heard his father's reprimand, he immediately kicked at the door, and before the director could react, he grabbed the evaluation sheet on the table and threw it on the ground, absolutely not afraid of heaven.
If it weren't for the mother's timely stop, the child's palm would have reached out in front of his father, and it was clear that he was going to stage a full martial act. But the mother's obstruction can force Zi Mo's temper out, the child directly slept on the ground and began to "wipe the floor", and his legs began to draw circles around the body, which really looked like a small compass.
Next, Xiao Zimo was crying while making trouble, crying for more than half an hour before gradually settling down, even the director of the Xiamen Center sighed that he had been in the industry for more than ten years, and children like Zimo were really rare.
Two years ago, Wen Jing's little boy is now grumpy + stuttering
When Zimo's mood gradually calmed down, he fell asleep on his mother's lap after a while. Seeing that the child is really asleep, the director and the child's mother will smile and breathe out. After that, the director began to ask for a lot of information about the child.
It turned out that two years ago, when Zimo had not had a stuttering problem, he was still a relatively quiet, even somewhat inferior child. At that time, the couple was worried that the child's personality was so shy, what if they were bullied in the future. As a result, it wasn't long before the method of exercising the child was implemented, and they found that there was something wrong with the boy's speech.
At first, the children were just a little bumpy, and there was no problem with the usual communication, they thought it was a small problem, and it would be fine after a while. But after a summer, the problem has not been alleviated, but has become more serious, the original child is occasionally stumbling, now every sentence has to stutter, not only the child speaks hard, but they are a little difficult to listen to, eager to speak for the child.
Since the little boy Mo stuttered, the attitude of the old man in the family to the child has changed, although he was originally very spoiled, but he also had a degree, and now he is completely indulgent. Sometimes Zimo's father wanted to criticize the child a few words, but as soon as the words were spoken, grandma immediately came to protect her grandson. In this way, Zi Mo's personality was spoiled more and more arrogantly, and if he was slightly unsatisfactory, he would smash the plate and smash the bowl at home, and the remote control at home did not know how many had been changed.
Can personality defects and stuttering be corrected?
"Teacher, I tell you the truth, the reason why I sent my children to you is that on the one hand, I have heard about your professionalism, and on the other hand, we can't control it." Zimo's father's words are very direct, and he also admits that as long as the child can become a normal child, they can spend no matter how much money they pay.
The director of the Xiamen Center did not expect his father's attitude to be so resolute, and after being stunned, he suddenly felt that a heavy responsibility fell on his body. In the next few days, XiaoZimo was brought over by his parents several times, and the benefits of this were twofold:
1. Through dynamic communication to determine the child's language ability, personality and psychological characteristics, such as the director summed up some of the characteristics of Zi Mo, found that in addition to his violent personality, in fact, he is a child who needs a sense of identity, to put it bluntly, the child's inferiority complex has always existed, but it has not appeared.
2. Let the child gradually become familiar with the environment of the language institution and the orthopedics who are often contacted later, of course, in a few days, at most let the child recognize a familiar face, and then carry out a more professional course to adjust a little. Because the correction plan issued by the professional language agency is often tailor-made, and it will be adjusted in a timely manner during the correction process, there will be no rigid things.
At the beginning of December, Xiao Zimo completed the graduation exam for stuttering children under the gaze of his parents, and under the repeated questioning of more than a dozen teachers, Zimo's response was full of logic and fluency, and no one could imagine that it was a stuttering child who had stuttered. As for the child's personality, Zi Mo's parents said: "Now that we have finished eating, this boy knows that he has taken the initiative to help his mother and grandmother clean up the dishes and chopsticks, and the people he meets on the road also know how to be polite..."