I don't know when it became a derogatory term.
Recently, a kind of helmet to correct the baby's head shape has become popular, claiming to be able to make the child's "flat head" become "round head", but according to the doctor, the baby's head circumference grows very fast within 6 months, this kind of helmet or affect the development of the head circumference, not to mention the general "flat head" phenomenon, will be with the child's head circumference growth, natural correction.
The recent heavy incidents of Internet celebrities are really a bit much, including Internet celebrities themselves and recommended products, character and product quality are worth scrutinizing, especially when parents buy things for their children, they must have more of their own judgments and listen less to some so-called "planting grass".
Take the matter of learning to walk, as one of the instincts of human beings, the emergence of baby walkers has "utilitarianized" instincts. Many parents do not know that their children can learn to walk, but they are too lazy to teach, and the invention of the walker has become a good way for them to shirk their responsibilities.
Parents personally teach their children to learn to walk, not only to enhance the parent-child relationship, but also to integrate themselves into the growth of children, for children, parents are the key to learning to walk, not a cold walker.
And, more critically, walkers are not 100% harmless to children.
When the child sits on the school scooter, the weight of the whole body is concentrated on the feet, and can only be used in a form similar to the "horseshoe foot", which in the long run can easily cause the child's lower limb deformity, and develop the wrong habit of foot inversion or valgus.
Walking is one of the necessary processes of children's natural development, wrong human intervention will only be counterproductive, parents should not be satisfied with advanced education, but also children learn to walk ahead.
Similar to walkers, there are also children's anti-side sleeping pillows.
Turning over is one of the early spontaneous training of children, a natural response to awakening instincts, just imagine, if you are not allowed to turn over when you sleep now, will you feel uncomfortable?
Are these so-called follow-up products full of "IQ tax" really worth buying from parents? Does your child really need these helpers?
This is the question that parents should consider: what exactly the child needs, not what others have, my child will definitely need something.
Every child is a unique existence, each child has a different growth trajectory, the child's growth is not an institutionalized assembly line operation, education and care is not simply copy and paste.
Parenting requires care and comfort.
Parents who follow the trend are never as good as parents who personally dig into their children's needs, and your love and sense of responsibility are the most beautiful things parents can do for their children.