A person's life is destined to meet two people, one amazing time, one gentle years. --Zhang Ailing
Talking about Zhang Ailing, I believe that we are not strangers, she is one of the four talented women of the Republic of China, and she is also one of the legendary women in the Republic of China.
However, when it comes to Zhang Ailing, I have to say that Lu Xiaoman, another talented woman in the Republic of China, has been said.
Compared with Zhang Ailing's talent for writing, Lu Xiaoman seems to rely more on her several relationships to be remembered by people in later generations.
It cannot be ignored that she is indeed talented, otherwise she would not attract so many men to fight for her.
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She was born in a rich family, and she lived a life of fine clothes and food since she was a child, and because she was weak since she was a child, her parents were afraid of her in their hands, especially pampering her.
So she has been in people's eyes since she was a child, she longs to be noticed, she likes life in the spotlight. And born in such a family, her parents also attach great importance to her education, from a young age to learn everything that everyone should do, at the same time she also has beauty.
Such a Lu Xiaoman is naturally charming.
This was not her first husband, Wang Geng, who fell under her pomegranate skirt.
Wang Geng was a well-known young general in the government at that time, and Lu Xiaoman was also a bright and talented woman with a graceful style.
The combination of the two of them was naturally a pair of talented women and made in heaven and earth in the eyes of people at that time.
After marriage, Wang Geng was naturally very kind to his wife, but as a general, it was naturally more important to defend his family and defend the country, and it was inevitable that he would be negligent in treating his wife.
So he asked his good friend Xu Zhimo to help take care of his wife.
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However, what he did not expect was that this kind of care actually made them relatives, but they became outsiders.
Thinking about it carefully, there is a reason for this, Xu Zhimo himself is a big talent, not only talented, but also gentle and affectionate towards Lu Xiaoman, Wang Geng can not always accompany Lu Xiaoman's side, in the long run, it is naturally difficult to help himself.
There are no impermeable walls in the world, and the window paper will always be broken.
There were gossip everywhere, and Wang Geng had to face the truth that his wife and friends had betrayed him. But he loved Lu Xiaoman, and in anger, he even put a weapon on Lu Xiaoman's forehead and asked her, "Can you turn back?" ”
But love is so ethereal, but it is difficult to control.
In the end, he was still divorced, and he fulfilled Lu Xiaoman, hoping that she would live happily.
However, for men and women who are in love, none of this matters.
October 3, 1926, was a special day. A couple got married, but unfortunately it wasn't a blessed marriage.
Because the bride and groom have abandoned their wives and husbands. Even Xu Zhimo's teacher, the witness Liang Qichao, was not optimistic about their relationship.
Liang Qichao once said in his family letter, "Xu Zhimo is actually smart, I love him, but this time I watched him fall into ruin, and I wanted to save him, and I watched him find such a person as a partner, afraid that his pain will be more infinite in the future." ”
I have to say that this sentence is a proverb.
After marriage, they certainly had a good time, but Lu Xiaoman's habit of spending money and spending a lot of money really made Xu Zhimo miserable.
Lu Xiaoman not only loves luxury, but also loves nightlife. And she has always lived such a life, either singing and dancing, or painting and shopping, or listening to the playmates.
Even a great poet like Xu Zhimo really couldn't afford Lu Xiaoman's expenses, and because of his marriage, he fell out with his family.
You can't open your mouth like your family asking for money, and your life has to go on. For this reason, he had to go north and south to make money, unable to accompany Lu Xiaoman's side, and coincidentally, Xu Zhimo always instructed his doctor friend Weng Ruiwu before going out: "Good life to take care of Lu Xiaoman."
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Lu Xiaoman, such a woman who can't stand loneliness, did not have a period of time to circulate, Lu Xiaoman and Weng Rui were on the afternoon, and often went in and out of the Xu family rumors.
Rumors have spread to Beijing, and Xu Zhimo has to rush home to have a look.
The wife and Weng Ruiwu were indeed ambiguous, but they were indeed not together.
This matter had to be put to rest.
In fact, there is a more important reason that Xu Zhimo alone cannot afford Lu Xiaoman's expenses, and even once they needed to rely on Weng Ruiwu's help to live.
Later, Xu Zhimo was on the road to making money again, entrusting Lu Xiaoman to the care of his friend Weng Ruiwu.
After that, we all know that the plane crashed and Xu Zhimo was killed in the air crash.
The past is like smoke wafting around
And Lu Xiaoman, after a period of time, was indeed with Weng Ruiwu. Although they were not married, they lived together for 30 years.
This is a lament.
History has surprisingly been repeated again, and I don't know how Xu Zhimo, who is far underground, feels when he sees this situation.
Lu Xiaoman had to say that she was a strange woman who had been hovering between several men all her life. But to ask her who she loves, she may not be able to say it herself.
But when she died, she said she would be buried with Xu Zhimo.
Perhaps, we can say that her favorite is Xu Zhimo.
Even Hu Shi once said: "Lu Xiaoman is a scenery that must be seen in the Republic of China." ”
Although this woman, her life is not dedicated, but attracted so many people like her, it seems that she does have a superiority.
She lives freely, and it is true that we all yearn for such a life, crying and laughing when we should cry, and leaving when we don't want to be together.
Such a life is very good, but the ideal is always very full, and the reality is very bone.
We don't have Lu Xiaoman's family, we don't have Lu Xiaoman's beauty and talent.
Then don't envy her, in fact, it is good to be a simple person, will be distressed by life, will hesitate to do what to do! This is the real attitude towards life.